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07-15-2012, 11:03 AM
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TomBoi, and I don't "need" labels no, but I'm very proud to be what and who I am. I've labeled myself in many different ways over the years but when you roll everything I am and have been together into one it just always comes out TomBoi... that's just the way it is at the core and the one thing through all my "labeling" that has always been.
A funny- I was in my gf's bathroom the other day getting fixed up after burning myself on a blow torch head- Me: Wow, you have A LOT of first aid stuff... how come? Her: Since I got with a TomBoi xD Jett
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07-15-2012, 11:23 AM
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I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009
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Loved your post Jett.
makes me recall the portable first aid kit and the larger one for bathroom closet that I made - equipped with all kinds of latex free bandages - after going camping with Blade at Lake James....him being a guy that was told by the emergency room doc when getting stitches that it would have helped if he would have "brought all the pieces " of his elbow and me the VERY Tomboy (with a little) Femme mixed in who's more comfortable with mechanical stuff and tools than painted pink fingernails and high heals... |
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10-07-2012, 11:59 AM
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I never used any kind of "label" until I started coming online many years ago and finding community chat rooms and sites. I've never been one to try to fit in anywhere...either you like me and want to be friends...or you don't.
I have and will always be...Gen. I use "butch" as my label not for myself but for others trying to figure out "what" I am. And since I don't have a feminine bone in my body...this seemed to fit. Those who really want to know ME can always engage in a conversation and simply just ask what they want to know. I do open doors, pull out chairs, remove my hat, kiss hands..etc. I don't know if those are traits of a label...just who I am. I also cook, clean, do laundry, iron...etc. Does that make me not "butch"? I don't think so. I am also a caregiver, protector, a great "cheerleader" for those who are important to me as they face and conquer their life challenges. I will offer you a comforting embrace, a shoulder to lean or cry on, a willing ear to listen to all that troubles you when you need me, and hold you watching you sleep and do my best to keep the bad dreams away that are plaguing you. Also, I don't NEED to be the dominant person in the relationship. I enjoy femmes with their own minds, intelligent, their own person inside and out. She will always know that I will be there for HER anytime and in any way she needs or wants. All this...and more of WHO I am...labels me as....ME |
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