It's the little things, like.....

Mr Nice Guy · 07-28-2012, 04:57 PM

Her kissing you when she thinks your being cute.

clay · 07-28-2012, 05:15 PM

her hand...soft & silky....when she gently touches my cheek.....smile!

princessbelle · 07-28-2012, 05:54 PM

Sitting on the deck hearing someone playing blues guitar a few houses down and Bully saying she was gonna go crash the party. Both of us laughing about that possibility; because neither of us put that past her.

Bella's tiny face up in the window when i drove in the driveway. Her little face is so tiny she looked like a stuffed animal. So sweet she knows when it is about time for me to be home and she jumps on the couch and watches for me.

Going 5 hours without anything to drink today because i didn't pass any stores and was trying to get my day done and get home. When i finally got a coke....i could have easily been on a coke commercial. The humidity must have been 3281. It was freaking HOT. That coke, when i finally got it, was FREAKING WONDERFUL.

I may not ever get over it.

Hollylane · 07-28-2012, 06:15 PM

Like what happens when my Baby gets some good rest, and catches up with my posts on BFP...

girl_dee · 07-28-2012, 07:02 PM

a daisy..........

thedivahrrrself · 08-04-2012, 07:05 AM

Remembering anniversaries in months

ruffryder · 08-04-2012, 09:36 AM

Your smile
your face
the way you are is priceless
and it's love
I know
nothing is more valuable than a faithful kiss

a hug
and " I miss you "
and the way you look
that's what teaches me how to love
and the way you express
This is what surpasses the material things
because I can breathe through your love
I want to be here

a memory forever
a kiss on the forehead
is the most important
and it's love
I know
Nothing can match your simplicity

ruffryder · 10-09-2012, 07:55 PM

snuggles and cuddles at the end of the day. her beside me when we go to bed at night.

gaea · 10-09-2012, 08:17 PM

its the little things like

dinner with friends
chatting it up with friends
knowing they are all there by my side, even when they are on another coast
meeting new friends along the way
cherishing everyone here
the quiet the much needed quiet time
never giving up
my pup right by my side
virtual hugs and virtual fun
the smiles
the love
the laughter
most of all
knowing
you are all here

Kätzchen · 10-15-2012, 12:23 AM

For me, the little things in life are:

Quiet mornings spent gazing out toward the west side of life where I often times see the smoke rise from my neighbor's chimney and the pine trees that sway in the gentle wind or hear the chimes on my patio deck or hear birdsong, no matter the time of day.

When my kids come to me for help or to share something about their day or when my children do something totally unexpected and thoughtful for me - which always makes me smile and feel very special, since I am their mother.

When my mother does something totally unexpected, too. Like the time she called me on her way home from work to tell me about a dear friend who passed away from brain cancer - my closet childhood friend, Ingrid. The way she told me little things that she was finally able to talk about (because Ingrid's partner called her out of the blue, unexpectedly). This was a "Little, Big" moment in that it's taken the better part of 30 years for my mother to realise that I am who I am and not some person who deserves to suffer family ridicule or social shame or be discounted as a person in society because I'm not of the heterosexual persuasion. Over the years, I have shed slowly in layers who I am not only to my own children but to my own family and friends who I work with or know outside of work or even to this community.

Sometimes it is the big things about me that I share so little about and mostly the reason I am so protective about who I am is the tremendous level of rejection I have suffered through on my own, over the years. The "Little,Big" things for me are often found right here in our community because I learn to trust people slowly and reveal myself in shades of who I am. That's a huge privilege for me to 'grow up' here and be counted a friend by many of you. I don't take any of you for granted. And for that pleasure, I am deeply grateful to be here counted among us all.

bright_arrow · 10-15-2012, 12:42 AM

Crawling into our cold bed when she is still at work, and waking to find her wrapped around me

The girls trampling each other to give me kisses after I have been at work all day.

A co-worker helping me carry bags to the car because I got tremendous deals on cleaning products that we are no longer carrying!

Smiling big and telling a fellow cashier "Ommmmm!" and hugging her when she looks flustered

Getting lost in the vastness of a night sky

Planning to cook dinner together.. such a simple moment but one I love

I try not to take every day for granted, but damn I love waking up next to her.. especially when we have a day off together and I can shut off the alarm and just bury my face into her neck, wrap my arms around her and go back to sleep!

Gaige · 10-15-2012, 02:24 AM

The beautiful smile that emerges when she looks up to see me admiring her.

Kenna · 11-21-2012, 07:11 PM

there's been only two people in this life that have given me "sparks "....
it's the little things like them making me feel valued and appreciated (mutual feeling) and how we spend quality time together.

BoDy*ShOt · 11-21-2012, 07:16 PM

being single is good, but it's the little things i miss..

DamonK · 12-09-2012, 11:54 PM

The dogs so happy to see me and to love on me
Random texts throughout the day
Random images put into my head throughout the day
The way he will wrap himself around me and hug me tight
The way she will smile and laugh and randomly bring me things
The way you love me
The way I love you
The way he will make me things to eat without me asking, just bc I like them
The way she records things on TV for me to watch, without me knowing it
The way he and she work together to ensure I'm safe and happy and loved
The way you appear in my head when least expected

*Anya* · 12-10-2012, 06:30 AM

Two dozen pink, yellow and red roses in a ruby-red vase from the florist on our third date.

I guess it really is a big thing, not a little one.

Soft*Silver · 10-15-2012, 09:48 AM

just that its so easy...life might not be easy...but we are ....

sara-bera · 10-15-2012, 10:54 AM

He, while putting one of his fancy dress shirts on me: you never wore anyone's shirt before?

She: no. They didn't want my breasts stretching them out.

He, buttoning the front of the shirt up: (rolling eyes) yes... well... the way this works is that you get up in the morning, put on my shirt and your panties, come out to the kitchen with your hair a little disheveled and have breakfast...

She: what if I'm not hungry? (as I smile sweetly)

He just stares at me for a good ten seconds: you have a little bit of the very nice breakfast I make for you, and then we plan out things we're going to do that day... (a long pause as he looks me up and down in his shirt)

She: and then?

He: and then... we don't do any of it.

sara-bera · 11-03-2012, 12:08 PM

... sudden kisses in the rain.

07-28-2012, 05:15 PM	#2
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07-28-2012, 05:54 PM	#3
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Sitting on the deck hearing someone playing blues guitar a few houses down and Bully saying she was gonna go crash the party. Both of us laughing about that possibility; because neither of us put that past her. Bella's tiny face up in the window when i drove in the driveway. Her little face is so tiny she looked like a stuffed animal. So sweet she knows when it is about time for me to be home and she jumps on the couch and watches for me. Going 5 hours without anything to drink today because i didn't pass any stores and was trying to get my day done and get home. When i finally got a coke....i could have easily been on a coke commercial. The humidity must have been 3281. It was freaking HOT. That coke, when i finally got it, was FREAKING WONDERFUL. I may not ever get over it. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

08-04-2012, 07:05 AM	#6
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08-04-2012, 09:36 AM	#7
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,679 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	It's the little things Your smile your face the way you are is priceless and it's love I know nothing is more valuable than a faithful kiss a hug and " I miss you " and the way you look that's what teaches me how to love and the way you express This is what surpasses the material things because I can breathe through your love I want to be here a memory forever a kiss on the forehead is the most important and it's love I know Nothing can match your simplicity

10-09-2012, 08:17 PM	#9
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	All about Friends its the little things like dinner with friends chatting it up with friends knowing they are all there by my side, even when they are on another coast meeting new friends along the way cherishing everyone here the quiet the much needed quiet time never giving up my pup right by my side virtual hugs and virtual fun the smiles the love the laughter most of all knowing you are all here __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

07-28-2012, 04:57 PM	#1
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07-28-2012, 06:15 PM	#4
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07-28-2012, 07:02 PM	#5
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10-09-2012, 07:55 PM	#8
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10-15-2012, 12:23 AM	#10
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: May 2010 Location: @ home with my granddaughter, chosen friends & family. ツ Posts: 16,133 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,540 Thanked 33,562 Times in 10,673 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	For me, the little things in life are: Quiet mornings spent gazing out toward the west side of life where I often times see the smoke rise from my neighbor's chimney and the pine trees that sway in the gentle wind or hear the chimes on my patio deck or hear birdsong, no matter the time of day. When my kids come to me for help or to share something about their day or when my children do something totally unexpected and thoughtful for me - which always makes me smile and feel very special, since I am their mother. When my mother does something totally unexpected, too. Like the time she called me on her way home from work to tell me about a dear friend who passed away from brain cancer - my closet childhood friend, Ingrid. The way she told me little things that she was finally able to talk about (because Ingrid's partner called her out of the blue, unexpectedly). This was a "Little, Big" moment in that it's taken the better part of 30 years for my mother to realise that I am who I am and not some person who deserves to suffer family ridicule or social shame or be discounted as a person in society because I'm not of the heterosexual persuasion. Over the years, I have shed slowly in layers who I am not only to my own children but to my own family and friends who I work with or know outside of work or even to this community. Sometimes it is the big things about me that I share so little about and mostly the reason I am so protective about who I am is the tremendous level of rejection I have suffered through on my own, over the years. The "Little,Big" things for me are often found right here in our community because I learn to trust people slowly and reveal myself in shades of who I am. That's a huge privilege for me to 'grow up' here and be counted a friend by many of you. I don't take any of you for granted. And for that pleasure, I am deeply grateful to be here counted among us all. __________________ “Evil flourishes in darkness, Corruption flourishes in secrecy,” ~Attorney’s for the Epstein Sex Abuse Survivors.

10-15-2012, 12:42 AM	#11
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Crawling into our cold bed when she is still at work, and waking to find her wrapped around me The girls trampling each other to give me kisses after I have been at work all day. A co-worker helping me carry bags to the car because I got tremendous deals on cleaning products that we are no longer carrying! Smiling big and telling a fellow cashier "Ommmmm!" and hugging her when she looks flustered Getting lost in the vastness of a night sky Planning to cook dinner together.. such a simple moment but one I love I try not to take every day for granted, but damn I love waking up next to her.. especially when we have a day off together and I can shut off the alarm and just bury my face into her neck, wrap my arms around her and go back to sleep!

10-15-2012, 02:24 AM	#12
Gaige Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: above my boots Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 3,755 Times in 1,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The beautiful smile that emerges when she looks up to see me admiring her.

11-21-2012, 07:11 PM	#13
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,192 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	there's been only two people in this life that have given me "sparks ".... it's the little things like them making me feel valued and appreciated (mutual feeling) and how we spend quality time together. __________________ **************************** She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles. ~E.Corona~

11-21-2012, 07:16 PM	#14
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12-09-2012, 11:54 PM	#15
DamonK Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: May 2010 Location: . Posts: 2,199 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,527 Thanked 7,762 Times in 1,881 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	The dogs so happy to see me and to love on me Random texts throughout the day Random images put into my head throughout the day The way he will wrap himself around me and hug me tight The way she will smile and laugh and randomly bring me things The way you love me The way I love you The way he will make me things to eat without me asking, just bc I like them The way she records things on TV for me to watch, without me knowing it The way he and she work together to ensure I'm safe and happy and loved The way you appear in my head when least expected

12-10-2012, 06:30 AM	#16
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,447 Times in 7,284 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Two dozen pink, yellow and red roses in a ruby-red vase from the florist on our third date. I guess it really is a big thing, not a little one. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

10-15-2012, 09:48 AM	#17
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10-15-2012, 10:54 AM	#18
sara-bera Member How Do You Identify?: female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 1,161 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,687 Thanked 2,858 Times in 739 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I think I'm living inside of a love story He, while putting one of his fancy dress shirts on me: you never wore anyone's shirt before? She: no. They didn't want my breasts stretching them out. He, buttoning the front of the shirt up: (rolling eyes) yes... well... the way this works is that you get up in the morning, put on my shirt and your panties, come out to the kitchen with your hair a little disheveled and have breakfast... She: what if I'm not hungry? (as I smile sweetly) He just stares at me for a good ten seconds: you have a little bit of the very nice breakfast I make for you, and then we plan out things we're going to do that day... (a long pause as he looks me up and down in his shirt) She: and then? He: and then... we don't do any of it.

11-03-2012, 12:08 PM	#19
sara-bera Member How Do You Identify?: female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 1,161 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,687 Thanked 2,858 Times in 739 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	... sudden kisses in the rain.