What have you learned?

Ginger · 07-31-2012, 11:32 AM

You know when you're getting your eyes checked and the optometrist switches the lenses back and forth and over and again, and your view of the letter chart snaps from fuzzy to crisp to fuzzy to crisp and so on?

I've learned that when I'm depressed or in a bad place emotionally, I constantly make the wrong call. That one! I'll say to the optometrist, when it should be, Let me see the other one again.

I've learned everyone does this and being aware of doing it makes it suddenly stop.

Breezy · 07-31-2012, 02:04 PM

The world surrounding me is a mirror of myself. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad, it is still a mirror of what is going on inside of me.

I can change anything about me anytime I desire.

Why go backwards through life when forward is so much better and brighter.

Progress happens as quickly or slowly as I decide.

When the voice in my mind tells me I can't do "it", the voice is lying.

sara-bera · 07-31-2012, 02:45 PM

I've learned that I still have so much more to learn.

RockOn · 07-31-2012, 03:16 PM

... to trust my gut instinct.

Also, if a person's words and actions do not match up, forget the words. Words can be cheap. The actions "speak" the truth.

Ginger · 07-31-2012, 03:29 PM

What have I learned? Clearly not enough.

laruss · 07-31-2012, 03:37 PM

Not to argue with crazy. Just back away slowly and talk to someone else who is sane.

Ginger · 07-31-2012, 03:41 PM

That music lifts me up, and gives me a way into feelings.

Tres · 09-17-2012, 07:25 PM

I've learned that no matter how much I think the problem is someone else's - I need to look at my own side of the street and really that is the only side I can sweep...

Greco · 09-19-2012, 08:32 AM

it's alright to let the walls down

Greco

MissItalianDiva · 11-03-2012, 07:31 PM

I am just not the tie me down type...in more ways than one. Relationships do not suit me well and I love my freedom and space to do as I please.

Also learned I find it incredibly sexy to finally have met someone who is secure enough in who they are and their sexiness to not feel the desire to push the "label" envelope...letting it flow is a BEAUTIFUL thing.

Mrs Arcstriker · 07-31-2012, 08:42 PM

I have learned that if I ever want to get Arcstriker out of cop-mode all I have to do is to put on my Latvian hair-drying bonnet...the one with the chin strap...

*Note to self...we really, REALLY need to stay home long enough to get some new towels...*

Scuba · 07-31-2012, 09:35 PM

Apparently not enough yet...

The JD · 07-31-2012, 09:46 PM

I learned yesterday that black widows move really FAST. Now I need to learn how to discourage her from inviting all her friends and holding the Spider Olympics in my back yard.

LeftWriteFemme · 07-31-2012, 10:02 PM

07-31-2012, 03:16 PM	#4
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I have learned ... ... to trust my gut instinct. Also, if a person's words and actions do not match up, forget the words. Words can be cheap. The actions "speak" the truth.

07-31-2012, 03:37 PM	#6
laruss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She or Goddess Relationship Status: Settled in Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Edmonton Alberta Posts: 1,322 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,849 Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Not to argue with crazy. Just back away slowly and talk to someone else who is sane. __________________ Creativity is a drug I can't do without. -Cecil B. DeMille

09-17-2012, 07:25 PM	#8
Tres Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Butch, hey you Relationship Status: I love the swing of her hips and the call of her lips Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: The south Posts: 46 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 84 Thanked 87 Times in 25 Posts Rep Power: 1054552	I've learned that no matter how much I think the problem is someone else's - I need to look at my own side of the street and really that is the only side I can sweep... __________________ The little Prince woke to the sound of her beautiful voice for she is the only one in the forest of many who can bring a calm to the storms which occasionally brew within. It is her voice that matches his little Prince soul so perfectly and therefore nothing can erase his smile....

09-19-2012, 08:32 AM	#9
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,616 Times in 2,285 Posts Rep Power: 0	finally it's alright to let the walls down Greco

11-03-2012, 07:31 PM	#10
MissItalianDiva Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Miss Twiggy Preferred Pronoun?: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious and that shit doesn't sound atrocious! Relationship Status: divorce happens..all that glitters ain't gold Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SLC Utah Posts: 2,284 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,768 Thanked 7,159 Times in 1,793 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Epiphany... I am just not the tie me down type...in more ways than one. Relationships do not suit me well and I love my freedom and space to do as I please. Also learned I find it incredibly sexy to finally have met someone who is secure enough in who they are and their sexiness to not feel the desire to push the "label" envelope...letting it flow is a BEAUTIFUL thing.

07-31-2012, 11:32 AM	#1
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,295 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	You know when you're getting your eyes checked and the optometrist switches the lenses back and forth and over and again, and your view of the letter chart snaps from fuzzy to crisp to fuzzy to crisp and so on? I've learned that when I'm depressed or in a bad place emotionally, I constantly make the wrong call. That one! I'll say to the optometrist, when it should be, Let me see the other one again. I've learned everyone does this and being aware of doing it makes it suddenly stop.

07-31-2012, 02:04 PM	#2
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	The world surrounding me is a mirror of myself. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad, it is still a mirror of what is going on inside of me. I can change anything about me anytime I desire. Why go backwards through life when forward is so much better and brighter. Progress happens as quickly or slowly as I decide. When the voice in my mind tells me I can't do "it", the voice is lying.

07-31-2012, 02:45 PM	#3
sara-bera Member How Do You Identify?: female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 1,161 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,687 Thanked 2,858 Times in 739 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I've learned that I still have so much more to learn.

07-31-2012, 03:29 PM	#5
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,295 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	What have I learned? Clearly not enough.

07-31-2012, 03:41 PM	#7
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,295 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	That music lifts me up, and gives me a way into feelings.

07-31-2012, 08:42 PM	#11
Mrs Arcstriker Timed Out How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: her, she...female ones... Relationship Status: married to Arcstriker Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: CT Posts: 143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 407 Times in 100 Posts Rep Power: 0	I have learned that if I ever want to get Arcstriker out of cop-mode all I have to do is to put on my Latvian hair-drying bonnet...the one with the chin strap... Note to self...we really, REALLY need to stay home long enough to get some new towels...

07-31-2012, 09:35 PM	#12
Scuba Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Flying Solo Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: PNW Posts: 2,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,749 Thanked 8,047 Times in 1,618 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Apparently not enough yet... __________________ https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-X...etuwo1_500.jpg ~~Bob Richardson~~

07-31-2012, 09:46 PM	#13
The JD Be the Fearless Bunny How Do You Identify?: Hers. Preferred Pronoun?: he Relationship Status: Medusa’s Snake Charmer Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: This must be the place. Posts: 649 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,740 Thanked 2,677 Times in 540 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I learned yesterday that black widows move really FAST. Now I need to learn how to discourage her from inviting all her friends and holding the Spider Olympics in my back yard. __________________ I don't deserve any credit for turning the other cheek as my tongue is always in it. ~Flannery O'Connor

07-31-2012, 10:02 PM	#14
LeftWriteFemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Daddy's good girl Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Jersey Posts: 16,642 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,529 Thanked 12,285 Times in 5,184 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	__________________ Clicking on these dragon eggs will take you to my new erotic novella: Dragon Bait .........Hope you enjoy it! ________________________________________________ Please take a look at my work Click on flashing smilie to see my website To look at my Daddy/girl erotica book Click on pompom girl to see Elbows on the Table, Palms Flat