Non-packing butches

DapperButch · 08-14-2012, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by femmennoir

Any packing femmes? Just curious!

Elle*

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=3839

Parker · 08-14-2012, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

Parker - You touched on something that I REALLY REALLY want to talk about and might go start a thread in the Red Zone about it.

I think that a lot of us were a party to some of the groundwork that was laid on the Dash that dictated that Butch = certain things and Femme = certain things.

I think it has really been pivotal to how some people have shaped their gender presentation and also some of the reason we keep having to have the circular conversation of what is good objectification and what is bad objectification.

In my mind there is a lot of gray area in the Butch/Femme dynamic and I think that people really worked to try to make it a black/white issue back then. Hence the "He" for Butches and "Femmes never pack" ideaology.

Anyway, just wanted to say I hear you.

Thanks for this

Corkey · 08-14-2012, 06:11 PM

Just be the best you, you can be. The pack, like the clothes don't make the person.

08-14-2012, 06:11 PM	#3
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