Non-packing butches

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by iamkeri1

Hey y'all,
I'm not trying to de-rail here, but I would like a little clarification or enhancement of what I thought I understood. I thought packing, whatever way you choose to do it, happened during non-sex (like sitting around the house or going out for the evening or having lunch at the in-laws house.)
I understand you can hard pack or soft pack or not pack at all, and its all good.

I've thought myself round in a circle and lost track of what I wanted to say, maybe just simply this. Is it still called packing DURING sex? I've heard the phrase many time "butches who strap on" Is that what one calls it during sex?

Crap!... I'm embarrasing the hell out of myself. Could you just tell me what you mean by "packing"?

Very embarrassed smooches,
Keri

In my world not during sex, packing (hard, soft). During sex, strapping. A butch who "straps on", means that they participate in strap on sex.