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			YSK that maybe I have different standards of beauty than other people.  When having a conversation about the attractiveness of someone, I'm used to being confounded by the things straight women find attractive in cis-men.  But in conversations with butches about this girl being more attractive than that one, I'm starting to feel lost there too.... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			What is it that makes one person more physically attractive than someone else? I know this varies from person to person, but I'm finding consensuses that that I just don't get. Maybe this discrepancy in my eye is what makes me love butch women so much. The world doesn't find them conventionally attractive, but I find [one of] them irresistible! I don't know. Looking at pics today on facebook today reminded me of a few conversations I've had recently, and I'm scratching my head.  
		
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			 YSK: I love getting tattooed. I did not get any for many years because another person hated them. I choose to make my own decisions about them from here on out. A new one is in the works! ![]()  | 
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			YSK, I had to make my own lunch 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			[QUOTE=thedivahrrrself;629101]YSK that maybe I have different standards of beauty than other people.  When having a conversation about the attractiveness of someone, I'm used to being confounded by the things straight women find attractive in cis-men.  But in conversations with butches about this girl being more attractive than that one, I'm starting to feel lost there too.... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			What is it that makes one person more physically attractive than someone else? I know this varies from person to person, but I'm finding consensuses that that I just don't get. Maybe this discrepancy in my eye is what makes me love butch women so much. The world doesn't find them conventionally attractive, but I find [one of] them irresistible! I don't know. Looking at pics today on facebook today reminded me of a few conversations I've had recently, and I'm scratching my head.  [/QUOTEYSK I want to know more details about this post. YSK I am going to ask you all about it the first chance I get. Lol YSK It's like asking someone if something tastes good before you try it. Lol if you hate peppers and the other person doesn't well...... YSK George Clooney keeps geting voted most sexiest male alive, I don't get it. He looks like a cross between Fred Flintstone and a chimpanzee to me. 
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 She's not ugly, but I don't know that i would even noticed if she walked by 
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 I so totally agree with this. I just do not understand it. My neighbors dog was out all the time till it died one cold night and it was only 3 years old. It literally would cry sometimes. No dog house, no shelter. She got him because of his red coat and red is her favorite color. Used to kill me. Still think about him. 
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			YSK it's been a long day and I am glad to be home. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			YSAK I took some great pictures of the scenery on my trip today. YSAK I liked sending pictures of locations to visit, to my friends. 
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 YSAK I don't really get the Angelina thing either. Honestly, I think she's gotten prettier as she's gotten older, but she looks like you could break her in half like a toothpick. Freaks me out. 
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 YSAK that I am not a violent person, but I will go to your house in the dead of night and steal your dog if I know that's how you're treating it ..... done it before and would do it again. YSAK that I cant report the neighbor my post was about because they built their dog a shelter, complete with a tarp .... but I still believe that leaving their dog out there is total crap - I dont care if there is a dog mansion out there or a hole in the ground with a chain.  | 
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			That my neighbor just brought me the best home grown tomatoes! The first of this hot kansas summer delights  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			YSK that I'm going to make this your best birthday ever! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			YSK: that I have had a wonderful weekend visiting with someone whom is becoming a true, honest, open and *gueer* friend  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			![]() ysak that yes, I'm probably going to post somewhere on here every day until... and yes, I know the pics are a little like sesame street, which reminds me... COOKIES! 
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			YSK that I'm at the end of a cold and have the cough from hell. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			YSK that I've resorted to folk remedies for relief. Last night before bed, I slathered my feet with Vicks salve and slept with my socks on. YSK my feet felt pleasantly mentholated but unpleasantly gooey. All. Night. Long. YSK I'm still coughing. 
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