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03-09-2010, 06:44 PM
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there is no such thing as perfect
no one else can complete you no one else is responsible for saving you or being "your butch in shining armor" relationships are work if she cheated it was never perfect (unless she actually developed an illness, which is common in the late teens early twenties) If you are not happy alone you will not be happy with someone if you depend on someone else to make you happy you will probably suck the life out of them you will never find some one who is "perfect for you" or perfect passion and lust will get you through the first few years complatability and commitment will get you through a life time ya this took 2 minutes 47 and knew this stuff at 25
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03-09-2010, 06:53 PM
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Ouch. Well that was harsh. I don't need someone to complete me, just someone who's personality compliments my personality. I don't need someone to save me, but I do appreciate chivalry. I'm well aware that relationships are work, trust me. I never said she was perfect, I said she was a blueprint, she taught me a lot about what I want in a relationship, in a partner, and from my future. I love myself and I'm perfectly content being alone, I actually prefer being alone than being with the wrong person, I'm just looking for the right person. I don't expect to find someone who is "perfect" but I think someone can be "perfect for me," even in their imperfections. Who ways I have to sacrifice passion for complatability and commitment? Who says I can't have all 3? |
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It was not meant to be harsh, I am rarely harsh. I am however, realistic. Your above comments, seem to be to be much more realistic than those in your original post. (that is my view and again not trying to be harsh) Also, you started your post with: "Do you ever wonder if that perfect relationship exists?" I am not trying to argue with you just clarify. I did not say sacifice passion for compatability and commitment. However I have a adult daughter and if you want long term commitment and a child, passion often does not die, there simply is not as much time for it. At that point the 2 c's is what gets people through everyday life till they have time for passion. I truly hope you find everything you are looking for
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perfect moments exist.
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perfect moments are like orgasms. If I wait for someone else to give them to me, I am shifting the responsibility to the wrong person. I can share them with someone else but by god, you betcha I am not going to wait around for the magic to come from someone else...
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I'm not going to give you relationship advice. I am not qualified to do that.
However, let me just share this thought, for what it is worth. Scrap the grand plan. In my view, life cannot be planned. Life happens. You can't plan it. You can't schedule it. You just have to deal with how it comes at you. In my opinion, having a grand plan just continually sets you up for disappointment. Live in the moment, or at least try to. Jake |
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