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Old 09-11-2012, 04:39 PM   #1
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dang...........

I'm as big a shoe whore as any femme. I have maybe 3-4 baseball caps and rarely ever wear them...hats are reserved for bad hair days when I don't want to shower. I wear shoes every day..........

I know plenty of sports dyke lesbians.....not butch, not boy, not boi.....who would not be without their baseball caps and visors.

The statement struck me as hetero-normative/sexist.
Well, I was trying to make a joke ... Sorry I offended you and others with my off color remark...I am hardly sexist by any means ...
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Old 09-11-2012, 06:14 PM   #2
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Well, I was trying to make a joke ... Sorry I offended you and others with my off color remark...I am hardly sexist by any means ...
I am not offended. Why on earth would you think I was offended? I also never said you were sexist. I said the statement struck me as hetero-normative and sexist.

I pointed out I am butch, am a shoe whore and am not particularly fond of hats. I also pointed out that hats are not gender specific, particularly baseball caps.

It irritates the bejesus out of me that you (specific and general) would interpret my statements as me being offended. Note I said irritated..........not offended.

It also irritates the bejesus out of me that you (specific) would use the lame ass excuse of 'it's a joke' to attempt to explain away a hetero-normative and sexist statement. Note I said irritated.....not offended.

And me being irritated is on me, not you. The only thing on you is for you to think about what you said and the lame excuse you offered for it.
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