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Old 09-12-2012, 10:34 AM   #1
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I tend to be outed as soon as I speak, I'm a queer Femme that's hard to hide and stick out in a sea of feminine presentation. I like to think that's it's my politics, women empowered thinking and my Leather dynamics that make it so. My Pack thinks it's evolution in it's finest form.
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Old 09-12-2012, 10:37 AM   #2
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Rainbow tattoo on the forehead and a 2x4 helps.
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Old 09-16-2012, 09:38 PM   #3
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Rainbow tattoo on the forehead and a 2x4 helps.

I think if I saw someone pull a 2 x 4 our of their purse in my presence, I would get the hint...hopefully before being wapped in the head... lol
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Rainbow tattoo on the forehead and a 2x4 helps.

That was funny.
But sometimes even after using your 2x4 that the person will come out of their stupor, And still not believe you are gay.
I agree with all of the suggestions given though. I just thought the 2x4 idea was funny.
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Old 10-04-2012, 06:57 AM   #5
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Yup. One time I was wearing a t-shirt that said "I like your beaver" with a cute (picture of a beaver on it - but still) and a rainbow bead necklace, and someone still told me they weren't sure if I was a lesbian.
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Old 10-04-2012, 08:10 AM   #6
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You would think that, in this day and age, one wouldn't have to 'look like' a lesbian to be recognized as one by one's own community.

I mean, what exactly does a lesbian look like or are we ourselves guilty of perputating the myth that there's only one way to be lesbian, namely, the way usually portrayed by straight folk (think truck driver sporting a mullet and wearing a rainbow coloured t-shirt)?

I don't know. Perhaps it's the circle I move in or the small town where I live (disproportionate number of queers) but when I look at a woman, then assuming she's not clearly with a guy, I never assume that she's straight...seems only fair given that I hate it when folks assume that I am.

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All this time, I been looking for the wrong signs !
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I guess I don't care if strangers "get" me. I only care if people I know, "get" me. And if they know me, they get me (sorry for the circuitous logic, it's the best I can do...).
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Guess I'll go Google some type of pendent to wear! Hopefully, along with my direct eye contact, and "knowing" smile, I'll maybe attract some new friends

Signed..... still a hippy at heart single lesbian
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I guess I look "very straight" to people, so I definitely do have trouble signalling lol.
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I tend to be outed as soon as I speak, I'm a queer Femme that's hard to hide and stick out in a sea of feminine presentation. I like to think that's it's my politics, women empowered thinking and my Leather dynamics that make it so. My Pack thinks it's evolution in it's finest form.
Well, Leather politics are the best politics afterall.
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Old 09-12-2012, 10:47 AM   #13
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Well, Leather politics are the best politics afterall.

Well, I'm a lil bias with that particular opinion..
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I've had femmes walk across a smoking room at the airport and ask for a light to give me a "hint" that we might have something in common besides smoking....It's hard to bold but sometimes, ya gotta do what ya gotta do.

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