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09-13-2012, 03:20 PM
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If someone were doing that for me.. I'd appreciate the hell out of it.
That being said.. if you are unsure, you could always put it on, take a picture of a very small part of it and send a message to your Butch saying something like is this what you had in mind? Nothing wrong with some good teasing. That's just a thought anyway. If you wanted to totally surprise her... this scenario would not work. I say go for it. If she appreciates you without it, she will also appreciate you with it.
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09-13-2012, 03:27 PM
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my thoughts are anything that you feel sexy and confident in will exude that and you will be a knock out on all levels!
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09-13-2012, 03:49 PM
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i don't think it's universal. if it makes you uncomfortable, ask her what she likes. asking questions is a good thing, both ways.
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09-13-2012, 03:49 PM
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Dance-with-me, a romantic room, candles (lottsa battery operated tea lights are nice too) and you in whatever would be wonderful, because, you will have that self-confidence that you are worth every second of the mystique.
"Sexy is as sexy does" What makes a femme sexy, to me, is the way she carries herself. It's easy to spot and it is pretty awesome from across the room. I have been with , Hmm, Anorexic to ample, youngish and mature (not all at the same time your honor  . all of the above, in and out of corsets, garter belts, ....thigh high lacey nylons ~ All are a killer for me....and it is in our heads where the passion and acceptance live.  Yes. I agree , just do it if it feels good. If it doesn't , you can chalk it up to , getting out of the closet. 
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09-13-2012, 05:03 PM
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Do it! Let me know if you need ideas on where to shop (online). I have a small (ok fine not small) collection of corsets that ranges from "jesus god why did I spend that much" to "really? it's only $50? I'll take one in every color". Nothing puts everything in all the right places quite like a corset.
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09-13-2012, 05:31 PM
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We have a corsets thread.
I think it may be time to bump it and I think that I shall! Pink, I would love to know where you got your "why did I spend so much" corset.
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09-13-2012, 05:35 PM
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A corset allows us to defy gravity........the gravity of the world, time and the weight of apprehension. There is such sweetness in dressing to please a Butch who loves you; give this as a gift to yourself as well as your Butch. I wish you a very happy weekend!
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09-13-2012, 05:52 PM
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Thank to all who replied! The deciding factor may end up being that I don't have anyone to help me get into it where the Butch lives (I have a friend who lives in the same city but she's not available tomorrow afternoon), and I'm not sure that driving two hours in a full corset is wise.
As for "dressing to please a Butch who loves you" - in this case, it's for the Butch who enjoys and lusts me, because we are a long way from getting serious. Does she have potential? So far, yes, but that's a LONG way in the future before I even seriously ask that question, and the likely outcome is that we're be no more than friends with benefits, since we live so far apart. But I'm seriously enjoying what we have in the moment, and there's still a LOT of pleasure in dressing to please the one who is making me feel so good about myself and making me feel so special! |
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09-13-2012, 05:58 PM
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60 yr old butch here.......
Corset garters stockings I'm there in a heartbeat........ I will say this........if you are going to wear it then own it. Confidence makes sexy much more than anything else. Personally, I am attracted to 'age appropriate' femmes...........meaning femmes who are within 15-20 years of my age. I like what age and gravity does to a femme.......just as I hope she likes what age and gravity have done to my body. The idea of a picture.....not revealing the entire thing....just a tease of what it is.....is not a bad idea. It will certainly get her imagination working.... For me butch/femme is an erotic dance and I love a femme who owns her body and her sexuality....actually for me that is part of what makes a femme edited to add: if you don't do the corset............garters, stockings and one of my white shirts that hangs just to where the stockings and garters meet works too.....and you can easily accomplish that surprise when you go to the bathroom
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09-13-2012, 07:19 PM
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Toughy is Varsity Butch !
Toughy has said everything I would've and everyone else has covered all the other relevant points. Please know this, your sexual confidence and strength will rock your Butch's world, guaranteed.
Sexual confidence in lingerie/corset with garter belt? --would make my head explode. *Butch Thud* (but the confidence is the key my dear....."act as if"....) Have a great weekend--please come back next week and let us all know how it went! |
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If the corset feels good , do it. If your too cinched up and can barely breathe , dont. I think these are sexy   http://www.barenecessities.com/seven...9282XB&search= 24 bucks with a hint of black lace underneath less is more that's my vote
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Work it!
Sneaking into the bathroom and changing into one of your friends shirts is a good idea too... I just had a flash of 9 1/2 weeks...
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09-13-2012, 08:22 PM
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While it's true corsets and lace are very sexy, there is a LOT to be said for white cotton...
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Some time's simple is better...
look in the closet that would be my first guess... *just being helpful* Better yet, how about a big RED bow? Torrid is AWESOME! Quote:
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There are a lot of really good suggestions here. My fave is the white, button up shirt with garters and heels. You can literally walk in the door wearing all of it with a skirt. So easy to slip away and change. You cannot drive in a corset and would have to take time to get dressed. So, if the ease of "getting" ready is a concern, I would stick to the button up shirt. Here is another idea for you---if she is into football, you may consider getting a jersey for her fave team. Then, present it her later as a wearable memento. 
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A little wary to report my opinion here being a dude and all...
I think being honest and open about who you are and what you want is so important. If you are comfortable in the corset and enjoy it...then enjoy it. It your partner has an issue with it...i'd be really surprized if they did. But, if so, then you learn to be with someone who appreciates and likes what you like. I hope you do what you want and the butch likes it. Smile |
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