What are your three non-negotiables (in a relationship)?

bcelly1894 · 09-17-2012, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by June

Because little boys never run away from anything? We don't care for sexist euphamisms here. Everybody gets scared sometimes. I am afraid of snakes and right now I'm in Copper Head Country. I am sure there is one behind me now. But there probably isn't.

Glad to see you posting and reading, just be careful that your verbiage is respectful of women, and everyone else

With all due respect June, I have only been a member on this website for 5 days. Some of your words to me seem down right Bullyish. I thought that this was an open forum where we can feel safe around what we say. I love women and I also respect women. I think that you could have sent me a private message about the sexist euphamisms, So, that I can turn around and act accordingly. I have said nothing in this whole forum, to show any disrespect or attack or harm to anyone. I have no ill will or Trolling intentions for any part of this site as you may think is a potential on my part without just cause. This site is beautiful and very informative to me. I may not be as progressed as you are but there is no need for your so called "kind correction" to me in the open. I refuse to be a part of a network that is suppose to be a loving and progressive environment. And yet feel attacked and singled out by your Bullying.

Vivacious1 · 09-17-2012, 06:26 PM

Respect
Honesty
Faithfullness

Jesse · 09-17-2012, 11:13 PM

Here's three to get started...

1. Honor yourself and our relationship.

2. Have things that you have powerful belief in...starting with yourself.

3. Do not abuse yourself, me, or my dog.

bcelly1894 · 09-21-2012, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by June

bcelly --

What you said WAS sexist. Alluding that girls are weak and run away. On this forum, we call isms out in public so we can discuss them, and ALSO because if someone says something like that, and no one responds to them, they might think it's okay. The next thing you know, we have a forum that's rife with blatant isms. So, you can expect that in the future should you choose to use sexist language like that, you will be called on it publicly.

Your poor choice of the words "Bully" and "Bullied" because I deigned, as a Lesbian Femme to take exception to your sexist language and responded to you as a member of this forum, and not a moderator, letting you know how we do things here, and do not do them, was clearly designed to try to shame and silence me, did not work. Let's do that better too, shall we?

With regards to the private exchange we had yesterday, where I let you know that the Admin team wanted you to slow down, read and get to know us before starting a bunch of threads clearly irritated you and has carried over to the post below. You are at this point, very close to a timeout per Jackhammer.

June (Moderator)

June, wow how much of a Bully you really are. My comments were directly totally and completely at you and no one else who owns or runs this website. I was approached by an administrator before you, With no problems what so ever. Then as you see, approached by you, with no problems what so ever, Until your comments became those of a bully. So, dont come on this forum trying to include any one else who runs this site or owns it, in your Bully behaviour. And maybe you should check the record, You can not be discredited by me or anyone else on this website unless it is by the owner or another administrator, not by me. So, get off of your high horse. I dont just want a time out, what are we five? I want to get banned from this website only because of your Bully behaviour June. I do not plan on signing back into this website so if this is the only way to do it, then that is fantastic.

Gentle Tiger · 09-21-2012, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by bcelly1894

June, wow how much of a Bully you really are. My comments were directly totally and completely at you and no one else who owns or runs this website. I was approached by an administrator before you, With no problems what so ever. Then as you see, approached by you, with no problems what so ever, Until your comments became those of a bully. So, dont come on this forum trying to include any one else who runs this site or owns it, in your Bully behaviour. And maybe you should check the record, You can not be discredited by me or anyone else on this website unless it is by the owner or another administrator, not by me. So, get off of your high horse. I dont just want a time out, what are we five? I want to get banned from this website only because of your Bully behaviour June. I do not plan on signing back into this website so if this is the only way to do it, then that is fantastic.

bcelly1894, I am not sure what is going on with you right now. But you have clearly shown that you do not wish to be a member of this community. So your wish will be granted. You have been rude and disrespectful since your arrival. You have been spoken to privately. And yet you feel the need to show your hind parts publicly. Therefore you will be banned from the site.

I am asking that no one respond to any of bcelly's posts. Let's not continue to keep this type of behavior in the spotlight.

Thank you,

Malcolm (Moderator)

09-17-2012, 06:26 PM	#2
Vivacious1 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme Relationship Status: taken Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 220 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 795 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 6042526	Respect Honesty Faithfullness __________________ Well behaved women rarely make history ...

09-17-2012, 11:13 PM	#3
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Here's three to get started... 1. Honor yourself and our relationship. 2. Have things that you have powerful belief in...starting with yourself. 3. Do not abuse yourself, me, or my dog. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”