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	Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~  | 
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			OMG why cant I just pick a day to do this already !!!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			i quit smoking for over 10 years... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			then one day i started back up, those damn clove smokes reeled me in... i was on and off again for a couple of years, and finally was inspired by none other than MaggieBluIze that inspired me to quit the last time.... i have been smoke free since. G-spot quit about the same time... it is so much easier when you are around people that support you and don't smoke as well... (i know there is a cigar in my signature, and i do love a good stoggie, but i haven't even had one of those since either) 
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			i can chew gum. patch. keep my hands busy. etc etc. ... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	i can do all that and it helps. but that's it, just helps. ... it's all about will power. it's me that has to do it and say no. ... first, i have to say no and mean it. then i can get help from all the other places. my quit date is june 4, 2012. i am addicted. i love to smoke. like pamela said, most of my life lived to smoke. i will always be addicted. but i'm mad as hell and smoking is not going to rule me.  | 
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			what i should have said was, all of the aids help. but if i don't have the will power to quit, ... and stay quit, ... i won't. regards of help.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I suggest when it is this hard..like it was for myself..ha 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			To simply slow down and smoke less. Get it to a half pack and even change to a not so loved brand of smokes..or rolled ones..smiles Then set the date when a half pack becomes normalized. It is better to do it right and complete. Than to keep kicken your butt about it. There is no wrong or right method. But remember, there are lots of people here to support you in your journey. . 
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			Gotta confess that recent overwhelming stress led me to buying 2 packs earlier this week...i don't really like smoking...they taste nasty and make me smell bad too...as i am too cheap to just throw them away i plan to not buy any more and quit again when this last pack (i just opened) is finished...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 Just because..lol It isn't to smoke them but to serve as a mind set. I am never without, just choose not to. LOL 
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	Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~  | 
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 Keep it up everyone, just takes some getting the hang of. Keep the faith  
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			I know it is a stop smoking thread but had to share this all the same...smiles 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Very humble today as I celebrate 20 years clen from drugs. May I be blessed, guided and humbled to continue this lifes quest! As I step in to today, may I always be reminded of yesterdays hardships. And know that this very minute I have a choice to do anything. May I forever remember that lost scared woman who couldn't think. And choose to achieve and help pick others up instead of pull them down.This is my prayer and wish. Sending out love and light to all who supported my journey and all that will. Namaste ![]() Last year in a thread I realized I wrote the date wrong..ooops..smiles Today is actually my 20th...must have got excited..grinz 
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