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			simply put yes I am crushing...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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 Now, about that "ball of mush"....you know me and brotha LOVE you..mush and all, right?! Right!! Crushes are a beautiful thing...it doesn't always mean head over heel in love...it just means you find someone who stirs those giddy feelings inside...or their brain is intelligently sexy..or a smile..it is a fun and healthy way to admire someone, if you will... time.simply.is.precious! but then...so...are..the ebb and flow of tides...<wink> 
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			Ok .... u silly crushers .... and wonderers... lol is that a word?? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Ok I received several Ty messages to spill the beans.... ill give a hint. He drives.a cute black sports car... ""big smile here"" 
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 ![]() Have you really just confessed online to having a crush on David Hasselhoff?  
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			![]()  hahaQuote: 
	
 Oops guess that was a 2nd hint huh??? lol 
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 ![]() just kidding barb  
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			These days I'm pretty much crushing on life.  Does that count?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Yes  cuz I am and have for a long long time  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Being thankful to be able to wake each morning and enjoy another new day and continue my crush  
		
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			I'm going out tonight so maybe a crush will develop, who knows? I'm keeping an open mind on that one.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			    
		
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 Still crushing over here....she still does not know...and until she does....no name revealing for me... 
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			LOL  my crush has developed into a mature crush   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	![]() she has always been very special, and I love that I can say anything and know she will take care of my feelings!  | 
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			I would say I'm crushin' a bit....
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Different day...same nice tingly shy kinda crush going on for me...really should consider telling her  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 ....hmmm....just enjoying the feeling for now  
		
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			I poke my head in for the first time in weeks... and what do I see? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Pics of David Hasselhoff??? I almost dropped my laptop from laughing. Gosh this thread is fun! Yeah, I might have a wee crush here or there. Nothing serious, as there is no long term relationship available that suits, at this time. But I like my mini-crushes, makes a grrl know she is alive, yes? So many handsome butches, one of my mini-crushes could be you. Who knows? *bats eyes mysteriously*  
		
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			I'm crushing on Clay and Stoney and Blaze and Teddy and Bard (and who else?) - all the married butches who so clearly, eloquently and lovingly love their darlings.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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