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nope i became butch after too many cis males came after me
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No Ma'am...I'll still alive and well!
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alive and well
does one complicate this by identifies as a StoneButch? |
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StoneOne ~ personally I don't think it complicates anything, I believe firmly that you can be both a stone butch and still be someone that us femmes can melt over
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Oh Ivan Coyote, Butchone1969 thank you for sharing. That spoke both worlds so well.
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OMG thank you thank you thank you Butchone for posting this. I have to go and get a tissue now.
Thank you. If only Handsome was here so I could nibble on her yummy butch self. ![]()
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this makes me go ![]() ![]() but i'm late to the party so i cant ask any of the questions that are revolving in my brain. probably a good thing as several of them would have to have the snark peeled off of them in order to be considered polite. |
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I love this so much. I have seen it several times and each time it makes me teary. What I appreciate so very much about the Planet encompasses so many things! Including, the growing self-acceptance of my own femme persona and essence of being, acceptance of my intense desire for butches, joy at knowing that this desire is OK and right for me, understanding of the butch experience and the courage it takes to walk through the world exactly as who and what you are (paraphrasing this particular part of the essay brigid posted). Above all: that each of us, butch and femme, are swans, that we need each other and that we belong together.
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(this post was more appropriate in the "gendering the young" thread)
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I hope Butches aren't a dying breed. Even though I'm not searching, my heart and my mind are open to finding the right one for me.
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I have to agree... I really hope they aren't a dying breed. I think that it depends on the location at this point. Where I am is mostly femmes... I'll never find a date in my own town.
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I know what you mean FB. I see loads of Femmes and Andro folks and my attraction just doesn't go there.
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I have me a damn good one, so no shortage in my life
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Same as in Sydney Aus. Lots of us here too.. Hi everyone.. New here.
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nope, not from what I've been reading on these post - Butches - Stone - or otherwise, very much alive - um ummmmmm ummmmmmmm
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