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10-08-2012, 05:14 PM
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Timed Out - Permanent
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*engaged to jac* until 8/10/14 
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If today was my last day...
I'd want to hug Stoney for the longest time. Because forever home is how it feels in hys arms. And that is all I can bring myself to say about that. I'd want to talk. I'd want to say the inane stuff I've learned from life. To remember the joys and stupid stuff that tripped me up. And Share a meal with friends. I'd want to hear a strangers wish or dream. To take something new with me. Maybe it would help them. |
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10-08-2012, 05:43 PM
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Member
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Waiting for the One who can complete me 
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If today was my last day;
I would use every minute of it as wisely as I possibly could. I would get out my camcorder and make a video for my son reminding him how much I love him and that I hope he goes far in life with the love and teachings I have him in his 5 short years. I would talk to family and make sure my final wishes are known and respected. Also let the organ donation team know it's almost time. I would also have a final celebration meal with my closest family and friends to reminisce the good times, ask forgiveness for things I may need to ask for and pray my final moments are peaceful and sweet.
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10-08-2012, 05:59 PM
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Having been in the position to say good bye to both my parents one (me) didn't say much, go into the light and I will take care of him, I love you. My father passed without a word as he went peacefully in his sleep.
I've gone through 2 major surgeries and all I could say to her was I love you, and that is all one can really say, and mean it. The rest is in the Universes' hands.
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10-08-2012, 07:32 PM
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great discussion, CharmingButch25.
they say it's the journey. not the first or the last. so lets see, ... i would lip synch for my life! LOL i don't want to go! the only time i would beg lol. seriously, i don't want to know it's my last day. i want to give and love and live. whatever i'm doing when it's time to go, ... i want to be grateful and smile. |
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10-08-2012, 07:44 PM
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If today were my last day...
I would gather everyone I love, including my fuzz-family, and embrace them all, telling them how much I loved them. I'd probably hug my son the longest. And then spend the rest of the day in each others' company, telling every funny story we could think of...laughing and enjoying ourselves. That is how I would want to go out...surrounded by laughter and love.
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10-08-2012, 08:11 PM
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If today was my last, I would forgive myself all of my mistakes, missteps and human frailties; that the one I love knew how much and would spend my last hours with my daughters and grandchildren.
I would then be at peace to go.
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10-08-2012, 08:19 PM
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Senior Member
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I would just spend a normal day with my children, as many friends as could come, and loved ones.
Anyone else wondering why we don't do all these things now?
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The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck
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