The Single Bravehearts, Queer thread

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-12-2012, 07:22 AM

There is a singles thread for FTM's and Butch/Femms but not one for as another thread labels us the Bravehearts the Trans that cannot or choose not to transition or Queers.
So because I fall in to the category I figured I would start one. Where we can have a place to come mingle and meet each other. I feel awkward posting in the FTM single thread and in the Butch/Femme thread. This way if I am flirting with a femme in here she knows I id as a trans man that cannot translation.
So hello everyone and happy TGIF lets get the flirting started! I cannot be the only single trans man and there has to be at least one single lady out there that loves us...so come out of hiding and mingle awhile!!!

aishah · 10-12-2012, 07:34 AM

i'm not single, but i wanted to come in and show some love. i'm happy you started this thread

there are lots of folks in my life who can't or don't wish to transition medically but who are trans*...i know it is a hard road for many. we femmes love and appreciate you

Leigh · 10-12-2012, 07:43 AM

Yes we sure do!

Dance-with-me · 10-12-2012, 07:51 AM

:: poking my head in and smiling ::

I was married for 11 years to a TG butch who ID'd as male but chose not to transition, so yeah, I get it.

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-13-2012, 03:41 AM

Hi Dance with me and you to Leigh and thanks for the support aishah.

So Dance with me any plans for the weekend?

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-13-2012, 06:15 AM

Well it is Saturday and a beautiful fall day one of those fall day where I would love to take a nice long walk in the park with some special looking at the colors in the trees and trees. Then have a picnic lunch down by the lake to watch the swans before it got to cold.

Dance-with-me · 10-13-2012, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by AlixKnight4All

So Dance with me any plans for the weekend?

I'm house/dog sitting for friends this weekend. This afternoon I'm meeting someone for a late lunch/early dinner, then joining other friends this evening to watch roller derby. Tomorrow I head home but plan to stop first at a reception for my state's Democratic candidates, including a chance to meet Sen Coons who I've grown to really admire. So a relaxing and hopefully enjoyable weekend!

How about you?

Leigh · 10-13-2012, 09:32 AM

Its chilly outside; would be nice to finally find someone to share things with ~ someone to cuddle with, hold hands with & someone to share the little everyday things with. I know hy/he is out there somewhere waiting for me

Julien · 10-13-2012, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by AlixKnight4All

There is a singles thread for FTM's and Butch/Femms but not one for as another thread labels us the Bravehearts the Trans that cannot or choose not to transition or Queers.
So because I fall in to the category I figured I would start one. Where we can have a place to come mingle and meet each other. I feel awkward posting in the FTM single thread and in the Butch/Femme thread. This way if I am flirting with a femme in here she knows I id as a trans man that cannot translation.
So hello everyone and happy TGIF lets get the flirting started! I cannot be the only single trans man and there has to be at least one single lady out there that loves us...so come out of hiding and mingle awhile!!!

Great idea Alix. I feel the same way as you about the other singles threads and thank you for starting this one for us.

StoneOne · 10-13-2012, 01:11 PM

Love this thread
I will be going for top surgery but thats about it
Thanks for the thread

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-13-2012, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Dance-with-me

I'm house/dog sitting for friends this weekend. This afternoon I'm meeting someone for a late lunch/early dinner, then joining other friends this evening to watch roller derby. Tomorrow I head home but plan to stop first at a reception for my state's Democratic candidates, including a chance to meet Sen Coons who I've grown to really admire. So a relaxing and hopefully enjoyable weekend!

How about you?

Wow sounds like fun especially the roller derby haven't seen a good roller derby in a while. As for my plans nothing special just researching some states to see if I want to move to them because the one I live in (my home town) really is not friendly or open to butches let alone trans men. Then if weather permits I am going to do a little hiking in the state park to look at the colors before the all are gone.

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Originally Posted by Julien

Great idea Alix. I feel the same way as you about the other singles threads and thank you for starting this one for us.

Your welcome Julien and I hope you post in here

Leigh · 10-13-2012, 01:25 PM

Just came in to say hello

Julien · 10-13-2012, 01:32 PM

I've been watching the OU vs Texas game. OU is winning by a large margin and even though I graduated from OU, I think I will sit the rest of the game out. No competition this year, too bad. I just wanted to say hello all.

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-13-2012, 03:16 PM

Just giving the new singles thread an afternoon/evening Saturday bump. Hi everyone... a little damp and cloudy here a perfect night for good conversation and cuddling or a watching a good movie together.

Leigh · 10-13-2012, 03:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Julien

I just wanted to say hello all.

Good to see you online

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlixKnight4All

Just giving the new singles thread an afternoon/evening Saturday bump. Hi everyone... a little damp and cloudy here a perfect night for good conversation and cuddling or a watching a good movie together.

Its getting to be that time of year where I wish I had someone to cuddle with; until then I'll just snuggle with my stuffed bear

Tony · 10-13-2012, 03:29 PM

I, personally am not a brave heart but I'm dropping by to show my support. Think this was a great idea for a thread. Good job Alix.

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-13-2012, 03:32 PM

Thanks bro that means a lot to get a thanks and support from others in the community. Thanks too everyone else that has stopped by to show their support for the thread.

Leigh · 10-13-2012, 03:37 PM

Of course I support everyone here, and you too Alix

Julien · 10-13-2012, 03:56 PM

Well it is Saturday night and I've nothing to do, what a bummer. Anyone lucky enough to have plans tonight?
I think I'll do some writing tonight, it seems like the inspiration has come back, for which I am very thankful. <---when was the last time you used one of these?

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-13-2012, 04:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Julien

Well it is Saturday night and I've nothing to do, what a bummer. Anyone lucky enough to have plans tonight?
I think I'll do some writing tonight, it seems like the inspiration has come back, for which I am very thankful. <---when was the last time you used one of these?

LOL I can not recall the last time I used one of those Julien but I do understand what you mean by not having plans on a Saturday night bummer here too. Yet like you I have seemed to have found my writing ability again accept I am real old school pen on paper first before it gets on here. There is not enough white out in the universe for me to use a typewriter lol.....

10-12-2012, 07:22 AM	#1
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The Single Bravehearts, Queer thread There is a singles thread for FTM's and Butch/Femms but not one for as another thread labels us the Bravehearts the Trans that cannot or choose not to transition or Queers. So because I fall in to the category I figured I would start one. Where we can have a place to come mingle and meet each other. I feel awkward posting in the FTM single thread and in the Butch/Femme thread. This way if I am flirting with a femme in here she knows I id as a trans man that cannot translation. So hello everyone and happy TGIF lets get the flirting started! I cannot be the only single trans man and there has to be at least one single lady out there that loves us...so come out of hiding and mingle awhile!!! __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

10-12-2012, 07:43 AM	#3
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Yes we sure do! __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

10-13-2012, 03:41 AM	#5
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hi Dance with me and you to Leigh and thanks for the support aishah. So Dance with me any plans for the weekend? __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

10-13-2012, 06:15 AM	#6
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Well it is Saturday and a beautiful fall day one of those fall day where I would love to take a nice long walk in the park with some special looking at the colors in the trees and trees. Then have a picnic lunch down by the lake to watch the swans before it got to cold. __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

10-13-2012, 09:32 AM	#8
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Its chilly outside; would be nice to finally find someone to share things with ~ someone to cuddle with, hold hands with & someone to share the little everyday things with. I know hy/he is out there somewhere waiting for me __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

10-12-2012, 07:34 AM	#2
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,442 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	i'm not single, but i wanted to come in and show some love. i'm happy you started this thread there are lots of folks in my life who can't or don't wish to transition medically but who are trans*...i know it is a hard road for many. we femmes love and appreciate you

10-12-2012, 07:51 AM	#4
Dance-with-me Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: earth Posts: 419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 264 Thanked 1,926 Times in 378 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	:: poking my head in and smiling :: I was married for 11 years to a TG butch who ID'd as male but chose not to transition, so yeah, I get it.

10-13-2012, 01:11 PM	#10
StoneOne Timed Out How Do You Identify?: StoneOne Preferred Pronoun?: SyrDamon Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Washington State Posts: 462 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,965 Thanked 1,441 Times in 382 Posts Rep Power: 0	Love this thread I will be going for top surgery but thats about it Thanks for the thread

10-13-2012, 01:25 PM	#12
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Just came in to say hello __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

10-13-2012, 01:32 PM	#13
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I've been watching the OU vs Texas game. OU is winning by a large margin and even though I graduated from OU, I think I will sit the rest of the game out. No competition this year, too bad. I just wanted to say hello all. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

10-13-2012, 03:16 PM	#14
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Just giving the new singles thread an afternoon/evening Saturday bump. Hi everyone... a little damp and cloudy here a perfect night for good conversation and cuddling or a watching a good movie together. __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

10-13-2012, 03:29 PM	#16
Tony Member How Do You Identify?: All Man (FTM if I must have a label) Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: She's my Southern Comfort Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Midwest Posts: 412 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 569 Thanked 1,241 Times in 326 Posts Rep Power: 18460390	I, personally am not a brave heart but I'm dropping by to show my support. Think this was a great idea for a thread. Good job Alix. __________________ Words are what we hear; they allow the heart to believe what it wants to believe. But actions, actions show us the real truth of what we need to believe.

10-13-2012, 03:32 PM	#17
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Thanks bro that means a lot to get a thanks and support from others in the community. Thanks too everyone else that has stopped by to show their support for the thread. __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

10-13-2012, 03:37 PM	#18
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Of course I support everyone here, and you too Alix __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

10-13-2012, 03:56 PM	#19
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Well it is Saturday night and I've nothing to do, what a bummer. Anyone lucky enough to have plans tonight? I think I'll do some writing tonight, it seems like the inspiration has come back, for which I am very thankful. <---when was the last time you used one of these? __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s