Taboo: Sexual Identity

Okiebug61 · 11-03-2012, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

i don't even know what that show is (no TV)

is it available online i wonder.

http://www.tv.com/shows/taboo/

The show deals with all kinds of different things. It's pretty cool to watch.

SelfMadeMan · 11-03-2012, 10:53 AM

I don't know if any reputable studies have been done on transition and sexuality, and how the use of hormones might affect sexuality. I find this topic very interesting, and would love to see an intensive study done to see where different people are coming from. I know, that for me, I was probably more bi than lesbian prior to transition - I've always found both sexes attractive. I definitely preferred women always - still do. But I would NEVER admit to finding a man attractive prior to transition. And I damn sure wouldn't have acted on it. I think what changed for me, when I really sit and think about it, is that before transition, I didn't feel comfortable with myself at all, not as a woman, not as a lesbian, not as a member of society, not even comfortable with myself when I was alone. I was living in a fog really. And then couple that with trying to fit into the stereotypes, and be something I wasn't. Through transition, I gained a strong sense of self, as well as feeling comfortable in my own skin, and I discovered the courage to be 100% true to myself - so the difference for me personally, was that it was ok to admit that I find both sexes attractive. And if I were single and wanted to act on an attraction to another man, I would, and not feel one bit ashamed of it. That being said, I'm disgustingly, happily married to an amazing (hot) woman, so I don't foresee that ever happening - but I have no qualms whatsoever saying, "hey, that guy is hot!" and I do it all the time

Sheridan · 10-31-2013, 10:36 PM

I am a transgender man (non-op) and I am attracted to mostly women but I find myself attracted to other transgender men and a few cisgender (mostly gay and bi). Adam Lambert is a cutie in my book but Sandra Bullock is beautiful and sexy as hell.

10-31-2013, 10:36 PM	#3
Sheridan Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Transmasculine Preferred Pronoun?: Just call me Sheridan Relationship Status: Single and looking Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: California Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 78 Thanked 99 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1501903	Taboo I am a transgender man (non-op) and I am attracted to mostly women but I find myself attracted to other transgender men and a few cisgender (mostly gay and bi). Adam Lambert is a cutie in my book but Sandra Bullock is beautiful and sexy as hell.

11-03-2012, 10:53 AM	#2
SelfMadeMan Member How Do You Identify?: Transsexual Man Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: Married to The Woman of My Dreams <3 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 796 Thanked 2,668 Times in 527 Posts Rep Power: 18972345	I don't know if any reputable studies have been done on transition and sexuality, and how the use of hormones might affect sexuality. I find this topic very interesting, and would love to see an intensive study done to see where different people are coming from. I know, that for me, I was probably more bi than lesbian prior to transition - I've always found both sexes attractive. I definitely preferred women always - still do. But I would NEVER admit to finding a man attractive prior to transition. And I damn sure wouldn't have acted on it. I think what changed for me, when I really sit and think about it, is that before transition, I didn't feel comfortable with myself at all, not as a woman, not as a lesbian, not as a member of society, not even comfortable with myself when I was alone. I was living in a fog really. And then couple that with trying to fit into the stereotypes, and be something I wasn't. Through transition, I gained a strong sense of self, as well as feeling comfortable in my own skin, and I discovered the courage to be 100% true to myself - so the difference for me personally, was that it was ok to admit that I find both sexes attractive. And if I were single and wanted to act on an attraction to another man, I would, and not feel one bit ashamed of it. That being said, I'm disgustingly, happily married to an amazing (hot) woman, so I don't foresee that ever happening - but I have no qualms whatsoever saying, "hey, that guy is hot!" and I do it all the time