What TO DO in a relationship.....

Scottish MacDaddy · 11-05-2012, 05:26 PM

Be mad at all times.....

Give mad love, mad respect and mad honesty... the rest will follow

girl_dee · 11-06-2012, 08:02 PM

support each other's passions!

Fatale · 11-06-2012, 08:30 PM

Challenge each other intellectually.

*Anya* · 11-06-2012, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Fatale

Challenge each other intellectually.

Triple amen to this. So very important.

girl_dee · 11-06-2012, 08:41 PM

don't agree with everything each other does and says.

Have your own set of ideas, goals, religious beliefs, truths, wants, desires.

Otherwise you're just selling yourself out, and that's kinda sad.

Teddybear · 12-13-2012, 03:31 PM

Easier said then done.....right

Greco · 12-14-2012, 08:59 AM

Honesty, Honesty, Honesty, and Directness. And get it, Honesty.

Then a relationship with me can begin, in friendship, real friendship, then we'll see. I don't do the "masks", life and friendship is too precious to waste time with anything less.

So, what to do in a relationship? Start with Honesty.

Greco

Talon · 12-17-2012, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Teddybear

Easier said then done.....right

Yes, and so are the majority of things in life.

DamonK · 12-17-2012, 10:11 AM

Laugh until you cry
Be there for the other
Make sacrifices for the other
Love with all you are

Random · 12-17-2012, 10:25 AM

Scritch their head, or their back, or what ever spot makes them go... oh...yah...

Encourage them to cry if they need it... Sometimes everyone needs a good cry...

Support them... how ever they need that support...

Blue_Daddy-O · 03-16-2013, 01:13 PM

Communicate. Communication is THE key.

I use to interview couples when I was lots younger, who had been together for over 50 years or more. And I would ask them, how did you make it.

The majority of them replied:

Number #1 - Communication. We listen to each others opinions. And we can agree to disagree.

Also, I often heard, "I married my best friend"

These couples still smiled at each other in that loving way when looking at each other and talking about each other.

Communication, is the road to success or failure in ANY relationship. It definitely has been in mine.

kittygrrl · 03-16-2013, 01:21 PM

whispers in the dark are amazing (in their place) but seldom mean as much as what is said & done in the cold light of day. It's just my opinion that it is only in this light you will perhaps see what you truly have and what you do not

chai~ · 03-16-2013, 07:14 PM

ensure you guard your "me time", and make sure your partner has their "me time".

relax......for goodness sakes, clinging too tightly makes someone like me bolt.

if you live together, whenever you get up ask, "hun, can I get you anything while I'm up?"

Enchantress · 03-16-2013, 07:20 PM

Honest
Present
Compassionate
Gentle
Yourself (never lose your own identity)
Independent
Encouraging
and
Respectful.

They'll take you far.

~ocean · 03-16-2013, 07:28 PM

~ dont relive the past ~ live in the today ~ forgive and accept ~ make love BUT have sex often ~

** wink wink **

Talon · 03-16-2013, 09:25 PM

Love with an open heart...innocently like a child, yet with *everything* that you possess.

~ocean · 03-17-2013, 11:17 AM

~ in my own opinion : ~ I have only been in love 2x's ~ I don't fall in lust ~ I have loved but not in love ~ being a spiritual being I belive God puts ppl in our paths for a reason ~ don't forget how you met ~ what your partner has given to u ~ spirtiualy ~ and what u have given back to them ~ cherrish your connection ~ honor ~ respect eachother ~
(even tho in an arguemnet words get said ) ~ thats how I know my love for hym is endless ~ noone can take hys place ~ I submitt to hys strength ~ follow hys lead ~ I'm not perfect ~ hys guidence keeps me focused ~ my love and devotion I give to only hym ~ realtionships need to be worked on ~ seasoned ~ I will always love hym ~ even if .......~

12-14-2012, 08:59 AM	#7
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,616 Times in 2,285 Posts Rep Power: 0	Direct Honesty, Honesty, Honesty, and Directness. And get it, Honesty. Then a relationship with me can begin, in friendship, real friendship, then we'll see. I don't do the "masks", life and friendship is too precious to waste time with anything less. So, what to do in a relationship? Start with Honesty. Greco

12-17-2012, 10:25 AM	#10
Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,327 Times in 1,378 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Scritch their head, or their back, or what ever spot makes them go... oh...yah... Encourage them to cry if they need it... Sometimes everyone needs a good cry... Support them... how ever they need that support... __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"

03-16-2013, 01:21 PM	#12
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: sipping on honey wine Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,485 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,652 Thanked 22,073 Times in 7,154 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	whispers in the dark are amazing (in their place) but seldom mean as much as what is said & done in the cold light of day. It's just my opinion that it is only in this light you will perhaps see what you truly have and what you do not __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

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03-16-2013, 07:28 PM	#15
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11-05-2012, 05:26 PM	#1
Scottish MacDaddy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Sapiosexual/Old School Bull Dyke Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: single Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 51 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 81 Thanked 170 Times in 30 Posts Rep Power: 3463348	Be mad at all times..... Give mad love, mad respect and mad honesty... the rest will follow __________________ Scottish MacDaddy Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. Albert Einstein

11-06-2012, 08:02 PM	#2
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11-06-2012, 08:30 PM	#3
Fatale Member How Do You Identify?: Not your average babe in the woods. Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: The edge Posts: 210 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22 Thanked 896 Times in 166 Posts Rep Power: 12150548	Challenge each other intellectually.

11-06-2012, 08:41 PM	#5
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,830 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	don't agree with everything each other does and says. Have your own set of ideas, goals, religious beliefs, truths, wants, desires. Otherwise you're just selling yourself out, and that's kinda sad.

12-13-2012, 03:31 PM	#6
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,233 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Easier said then done.....right

12-17-2012, 10:11 AM	#9
DamonK Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: May 2010 Location: . Posts: 2,199 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,527 Thanked 7,762 Times in 1,881 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Laugh until you cry Be there for the other Make sacrifices for the other Love with all you are

03-16-2013, 01:13 PM	#11
Blue_Daddy-O Member How Do You Identify?: Retro Daddy, Male-Identified Preferred Pronoun?: He Him Sir Mister Husband Dom Master Relationship Status: Single and ready for a garden party Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 411 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 222 Thanked 652 Times in 226 Posts Rep Power: 5877932	Communicate. Communication is THE key. I use to interview couples when I was lots younger, who had been together for over 50 years or more. And I would ask them, how did you make it. The majority of them replied: Number #1 - Communication. We listen to each others opinions. And we can agree to disagree. Also, I often heard, "I married my best friend" These couples still smiled at each other in that loving way when looking at each other and talking about each other. Communication, is the road to success or failure in ANY relationship. It definitely has been in mine.

03-16-2013, 07:14 PM	#13
chai~ Member How Do You Identify?: Self possessed Aquarian Preferred Pronoun?: Don't call me baby~ Relationship Status: Deliciously single and loving it. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: lotus land Posts: 1,173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,937 Thanked 3,382 Times in 864 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	ensure you guard your "me time", and make sure your partner has their "me time". relax......for goodness sakes, clinging too tightly makes someone like me bolt. if you live together, whenever you get up ask, "hun, can I get you anything while I'm up?"

03-16-2013, 09:25 PM	#16
Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,223 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Love with an open heart...innocently like a child, yet with everything* that you possess.*

03-17-2013, 11:17 AM	#17
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,018 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	~ in my own opinion : ~ I have only been in love 2x's ~ I don't fall in lust ~ I have loved but not in love ~ being a spiritual being I belive God puts ppl in our paths for a reason ~ don't forget how you met ~ what your partner has given to u ~ spirtiualy ~ and what u have given back to them ~ cherrish your connection ~ honor ~ respect eachother ~ (even tho in an arguemnet words get said ) ~ thats how I know my love for hym is endless ~ noone can take hys place ~ I submitt to hys strength ~ follow hys lead ~ I'm not perfect ~ hys guidence keeps me focused ~ my love and devotion I give to only hym ~ realtionships need to be worked on ~ seasoned ~ I will always love hym ~ even if .......~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean