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Old 11-08-2012, 10:24 PM   #2381
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Still crushing after all these (weeks? months?) . Maybe even a year or so. Mightn't ever go away, not that I'd want it to.
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Yeah.... I do. More than a crush. Has been that way for many years
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Yes I do. Hy puts the light in my day and that extra bounce in my step. I am very thankful to have hym in my life!

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Today I sit here thinking about crushes.

Crushes are meant to be fun and warm the heart, even friendly crushes.
I read that if someone was meant to be with you, in time it would happen.
With that said, I find that if a crush isn't reciprocated, but being friends is,
go with it because you never know how it may turn out in the end if you don't.

Happy crushing to all of you crushers and crushees...
...you never know when you may stumble upon "The One" if you don't open your heart to possibilities no matter how it makes you feel, good or bad.



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Old 11-10-2012, 07:46 AM   #2385
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Crushes are meant to be fun and warm the heart, even friendly crushes.
I read that if someone was meant to be with you, in time it would happen.
With that said, I find that if a crush isn't reciprocated, but being friends is,
go with it because you never know how it may turn out in the end if you don't.
Your post made me think of the below quote...

“The success of love is in the loving - it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done.”
― Mother Teresa

Personally, I believe if the "most" that comes out of a crush is a friendship...then you have already set the bar pretty high...and that is a "win" in my book.


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Old 11-10-2012, 07:56 PM   #2386
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As of today, it will be exactly 2 weeks before I fly a few thousand thousand miles to see my crush in R/T. The same crush that it took me 3.5 years to admit to.

I truly think that deep friendship built a foundation that will give us a chance to really make it work and even if it doesn't ( which it will ) the friendship will last a lifetime. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. You never know what can happen?

Wish me luck!
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What happens when you crush on someone's crush - is that a polycrush?
Multi-crushing. Bound to happen with so many fabulous people here.

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I think I'm getting a friend crush on Sun, or at least his foody thread .
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Your post made me think of the below quote...

“The success of love is in the loving - it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done.”
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Personally, I believe if the "most" that comes out of a crush is a friendship...then you have already set the bar pretty high...and that is a "win" in my book.


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I LOVE that quote!

Thank you for this post.

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I think I'm getting a friend crush on Sun, or at least his foody thread .
Aww..that was sweet! Thank you kindly, I am glad that you are enjoying the thread!
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Old 11-11-2012, 12:27 AM   #2391
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I've always had a crush on Sun.
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All right folks .. It's Monday .. Lets get to it .. There are crushes to be had and made .. Lets light up the day !
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Your post made me think of the below quote...

“The success of love is in the loving - it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done.”
― Mother Teresa

Personally, I believe if the "most" that comes out of a crush is a friendship...then you have already set the bar pretty high...and that is a "win" in my book.


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This is a beautiful post thank you Katniss.

May I just add to this one of my all-time favorite quotes that for me is not just a quote but a mantra for my life:

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." ~Tom Robbins

And to bring this one step closer, I know for me, creating the perfect love begins with caring for and truly loving myself. Especially mentally and emotionally.
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I've always had a crush on Sun.
Ok I think that just made me blush.
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So I don't know if there are any Beatles fans in the crush thread but I was listening to my cd in the car and thought this was a great song to post in here


"Listen, do you want to know a secret?"



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little_ms_sunshyne that was great.
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What happens when you crush on someone's crush - is that a polycrush?
If bodily fluids have yet to be exchanged it's simply a crush.
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How are we defining crush?
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