Flirting in a Non-GLBT Space

Girl_On_Fire · 11-12-2012, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Martina

I have had it work out, but the ratio of successes to humiliating failures (for various reasons) caused me to give it up god knows how many years ago.

I simply don't do it. I have friends who do with great success. Better flirters than I. Better at taking disappointment. I don't know.

One of the things I hate is when a butch thinks I am looking at her because I am a straight woman STARING at the dyke. I just can't fucking stand that. I don't need to be made to feel invisible AGAIN. Guess what, some of the feminine folks out there are DYKES. *Gasp*

Oh, I HATE that! Hit the nail right on the head!

PurpleQuestions84 · 11-13-2012, 02:36 PM

I havent gotten up the nerve to flirt in nonLGBT places yet ..
Still waiting on my Boi / Butch charming to find me

Sev · 12-25-2012, 03:40 AM

I don't hang out much in non LGBT places but if I am and if I spot someone who I find interesting I always go for the ''sipping my drink through a straw while I look into their eyes'' that usually works, or if this is impossible to do I will walk pass them and wait till they look up and smile at them while I walk to the Ladies, and if this doesn't work I will tip the waitress or waiter and ask them to send a drink to that person from me.

11-13-2012, 02:36 PM	#2
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12-25-2012, 03:40 AM	#3
Sev Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: England Posts: 33 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 48 Thanked 50 Times in 19 Posts Rep Power: 441210	I don't hang out much in non LGBT places but if I am and if I spot someone who I find interesting I always go for the ''sipping my drink through a straw while I look into their eyes'' that usually works, or if this is impossible to do I will walk pass them and wait till they look up and smile at them while I walk to the Ladies, and if this doesn't work I will tip the waitress or waiter and ask them to send a drink to that person from me. __________________ ..........