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12-19-2012, 09:40 AM
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I just visited this site a couple days ago.. I came away with a feeling of sadness. I saw an honest question, picked apart and attacked. I have to say it was done with court room precision. The beautiful art (to some) of leaving someone second guessing their own truths and beliefs. Using a play on words. "love", "in love"---wow.. someone came to this thread, clearly emotional about what was happening to them, and reached out . Be it semantics or confusion , I feel it was wrongfully handled. There is no right or wrong way to fall in love. It is an individual as we all are. I have to wonder whats really going on with the person inside who wants to rip at another. How does this one really feel about him/her self. I see this as insecurity at the most intense level. Sad really.
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12-19-2012, 10:48 AM
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That's so true! (part I bolded) What I've been hearing is that people have what they consider optimal ways of falling in love, contexts they trust more than others. It seems to vary. |
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12-19-2012, 12:36 PM
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Your experience reiterated above sounds very nasty and hostile. In which thread did you see this attack because I certainly cannot see it here? Are we meant to be dishonest in how we interact so that we sugar-coat? If so, I certainly won't be involved in such pretense. If someone asks a question, if I give an answer, it will be an honest one. No ripping apart but don't ask a question if you might not like the answer provided. |
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