The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 3

morningstar55 · 07-08-2011, 06:07 AM

good morning Loft dwellers

this thread really needs some serious bumpin.. lol

blue thats awsome... congrads.

Electro..... bout time you should up here.. lol
Ruthie...
chocolate red wine?? hmm i heard about that... havnt tried it yet... i do say yet.. lol

blueeyes226_l · 07-13-2011, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Well.in Nov. I'll be 55 years young...LOL I may have found someone for my life. How ever she lives in N.J. and I'm in N.Y. Nether one of us can afor the $$$$$ for her to come up this way to visit. She seems to have a heart of gold. We talk every night after 9pm and email each other alot. I hope this works out. I told her about my family and she is very understanding. Best of all she dosen't hold how my family is agance me.By the way she will be 60 July 30 or 31.
blueeyes226_l

Well, Things didn't "work out" for this gal and me. She didn't want to move here. I told her I have a responceabilaty looking aftetr my Mom. I gave my word to my dad and my brother. By the way Mom had a bad spell yester day and also this AM. The spell she had I wanted to take her to the ER in Olean,NY. It ended up I slept on the other side of her bed till she felt better.
Any ways I prmest I would take care or look after her and I don't give my word unless I mean it. I don't go back on my word unles its a emurgence and then,I have to.

spike · 02-14-2012, 09:43 AM

There are other oldies here...me for instance. 48 and loving it.

gaea · 02-14-2012, 10:43 AM

Happy Valentines Day to one and all, wishing it a blessed one for you.

Electrocell · 02-14-2012, 12:37 PM

A

for the ladies and a

for the gents. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY

morningstar55 · 02-14-2012, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Electrocell

A

for the ladies and a

for the gents. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY

Happy valentines to u 2... mr. Cell...and happy birthday to

Licious · 02-14-2012, 01:45 PM

Happy Valentines Day to my Lofter Friends.

Nice to catch up, am checking in on the thread more regularly. Great to see other mature butches and femmes, does my little heart good.

Mostly just absorbing.

I try not to buy into the whole, no lover on Vday thing, but kind of wish I had a "Valentine of the Day" sometimes.

Is there a thread for that? J/K

Take care and bless you all!

cuddlyfemme · 02-14-2012, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Electrocell

A

for the ladies and a

for the gents. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY

Thank you, happy Valentines Day to you too!!!!

deedarino · 02-14-2012, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by tawalters1963

There are other oldies here...me for instance. 48 and loving it.

<<<48 too....omgosh, when did we become oldies??? LoL
(Lovin it too, btw!)

dykeumentary · 02-14-2012, 11:14 PM

<<<<46
it's not the age I mind, but the increased time it takes to recover from sports injuries as I get older.
I still play!

SugarFemme · 02-15-2012, 12:04 AM

I am 50. Does that mean I am ready for the big dirt nap??? LOL

Two-spirit · 09-26-2012, 05:17 PM

Hello,

No, your not the only who is wise..I'm 45..

ruthie14 · 09-26-2012, 05:31 PM

Two-spirit... love that name. I had a native american friend who's father used to call hym that. Brings hys memory back to my heart. Thanks for that. I miss hym. Not sure where hy is now or how hy is. Lost touch. Hy used to be on the dash site.

Your name made me smile. Thank you..

Ruthie

Mel C. · 09-26-2012, 05:45 PM

So...I have been walking around in pain for the past few days. I finally realized it was because of all the dancing at the Reunion. I guess the alcohol dulled the pain, but now that I am back to work...OW. Just another reminder that I am about to turn 45.

Helena_Handbasket · 09-26-2012, 10:18 PM

Does posting here mean I am actually leaning towards possibly accepting the fact that I'm over 40?

morningstar55 · 09-26-2012, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel (aka BlistexLez)

So...I have been walking around in pain for the past few days. I finally realized it was because of all the dancing at the Reunion. I guess the alcohol dulled the pain, but now that I am back to work...OW. Just another reminder that I am about to turn 45.

Haha..... sucks getting old ... yes??
What part of mi ? I go to various parts but mostly neat Detroit... maybe meet for coffee?? Eats???

Ruth hope u feel better ..
Howdy Bevan nd 2 spirit

Helena_Handbasket · 09-28-2012, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel (aka BlistexLez)

So...I have been walking around in pain for the past few days. I finally realized it was because of all the dancing at the Reunion. I guess the alcohol dulled the pain, but now that I am back to work...OW. Just another reminder that I am about to turn 45.

I was soooo happy that I could dance as much as I wanted. And I wasnt in too much pain the next day. Maybe its because I wore somewhat sensible shoes. (and the alcohol?)

I can't believe I'm happy I wore sensible shoes. Gah!

Helena

bibbs · 10-23-2018, 08:31 AM

Lol...no way! I'm old...

bibbs · 10-25-2018, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet

I'm bumping this up. Am I the only one who's old?...LOL

I'm old for sure.

The_Lady_Snow · 10-25-2018, 01:16 PM

Vintage here...

07-08-2011, 06:07 AM	#1
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning Loft dwellers this thread really needs some serious bumpin.. lol blue thats awsome... congrads. Electro..... bout time you should up here.. lol Ruthie... chocolate red wine?? hmm i heard about that... havnt tried it yet... i do say yet.. lol __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

02-14-2012, 10:43 AM	#4
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	happy valentines day Happy Valentines Day to one and all, wishing it a blessed one for you. __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

02-14-2012, 12:37 PM	#5
Electrocell Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: he/hy Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: TN Posts: 1,334 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,535 Thanked 2,768 Times in 981 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	A for the ladies and a for the gents. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY __________________ Love and accept me for me not someone you want me to be.

02-14-2012, 01:45 PM	#7
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,973 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Happy Valentines Day to my Lofter Friends. Nice to catch up, am checking in on the thread more regularly. Great to see other mature butches and femmes, does my little heart good. Mostly just absorbing. I try not to buy into the whole, no lover on Vday thing, but kind of wish I had a "Valentine of the Day" sometimes. Is there a thread for that? J/K Take care and bless you all! __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

02-14-2012, 11:14 PM	#10
dykeumentary Member How Do You Identify?: butch dyke Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 449 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 341 Thanked 1,548 Times in 359 Posts Rep Power: 19160663	<<<<46 it's not the age I mind, but the increased time it takes to recover from sports injuries as I get older. I still play! __________________ The Origins of Butch & Femme (a retelling): https://youtu.be/U7VkXpZl4Mk Watch more of my funny butch/femme movies here: https://www.youtube.com/dykeumentary1

02-14-2012, 09:43 AM	#3
spike Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: her/hym Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Silver Spring, MD Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 128 Thanked 139 Times in 51 Posts Rep Power: 704245	There are other oldies here...me for instance. 48 and loving it.

02-15-2012, 12:04 AM	#11
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09-26-2012, 05:17 PM	#12
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09-26-2012, 05:31 PM	#13
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Two-spirit... love that name. I had a native american friend who's father used to call hym that. Brings hys memory back to my heart. Thanks for that. I miss hym. Not sure where hy is now or how hy is. Lost touch. Hy used to be on the dash site. Your name made me smile. Thank you.. Ruthie

09-26-2012, 05:45 PM	#14
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,828 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	So...I have been walking around in pain for the past few days. I finally realized it was because of all the dancing at the Reunion. I guess the alcohol dulled the pain, but now that I am back to work...OW. Just another reminder that I am about to turn 45.

09-26-2012, 10:18 PM	#15
Helena_Handbasket Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 67 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 230 Times in 47 Posts Rep Power: 1686714	hmm Does posting here mean I am actually leaning towards possibly accepting the fact that I'm over 40? __________________

10-23-2018, 08:31 AM	#18
bibbs Junior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian/soft butch Join Date: Aug 2018 Location: tennessee Posts: 4 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 11 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 0	Lol...no way! I'm old...

10-25-2018, 01:16 PM	#20
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