Single FTM's & Femme's

curlyredhead · 01-14-2013, 06:23 PM

Hey everyone bumping the thread! I hope everyone is staying well, or at least getting well since the flu is everywhere!

Bumping the thread!

~Curly

Trev · 01-14-2013, 07:24 PM

Seems like there are a few posts missing but if that's all that happened after the outage...we can call it GOOD!! Hope everyone is great and stays that way. Here's to the beginning of a new week

EmpressM · 01-15-2013, 11:36 AM

Hooray! We are back up and running! I hope everyone had a terrific weekend and is having and even better week! I've finally managed to kick the flu and am "back up an running" myself! I'm officially a schoolgirl again starting today!

Heavenleahangel · 01-15-2013, 01:49 PM

Good Afternoon, Everyone! I've been away from the site myself with my son, Jacob, (5) being in the hospital and me running back and forth. I hope everyone's New Year has started off to a most excellent start and Cupid will be fast on the way to bring you something good!!

curlyredhead · 01-15-2013, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Heavenleahangel

Good Afternoon, Everyone! I've been away from the site myself with my son, Jacob, (5) being in the hospital and me running back and forth. I hope everyone's New Year has started off to a most excellent start and Cupid will be fast on the way to bring you something good!!

Sending wishes that your son get's well fast!

Trev · 01-15-2013, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by EmpressM

Hooray! We are back up and running! I hope everyone had a terrific weekend and is having and even better week! I've finally managed to kick the flu and am "back up an running" myself! I'm officially a schoolgirl again starting today!

Glad you're feeling better. Back to school? Time to hit the books

Good for you!

Bèsame* · 01-15-2013, 11:19 PM

Happy....
One day left before a 4 day weekend! It's going to be a sad day tomorrow...a funeral in the morning.
I hope every gets on the mend soon, the yuckies going around has been lingering way too long. Here's to a happy hump day

MickMan · 01-16-2013, 07:19 AM

Hi everyone,

Been a while since I have been on and thought I would drop in to see how everyone is.

Life is good. Busy with school. This term marks the beginning of my dissertation and it is CRAZY!! But, exciting nonetheless.

Still single. Although, I have been talking with a woman here locally, however, nothing can come of it as she is unaware of my trans-status. She is from Thailand and absolutely wonderful. But, I am trying to find a way to explain to her I cannot get involved without outing myself and without ruining the friendship we have built. It all started out very innocent with me taking my mother to the restaurant that her brother owns. She was our waitress and she began talking with me and next thing you know, she is teaching me Thai and I am teaching her English. It finally occurred to me the other day when she introduced me to her brother, that she may have intentions beyond what I am able to take part in. She is wonderful, kind, caring and just so funny. And if she knew of my being trans, I would not be having this issue. I am not so sure I want to risk the friendship by outing myself. Not to mention my mother loves her and loves going to the restaurant. I need to either out myself and be prepared to never go there again or find a way to stop the progression before this woman becomes too attached. This really sucks!

Would love to hear from other as to solutions. This all happened so quickly that I did not have time to think about what was happening and perhaps I am guilty of flirting and leading her on a bit. I really try not to do that with those unaware. But, a good friend of mine told me that because of my good nature and kindness, I have a tendency to send out unintentional messages. Her words, not mine. Perhaps that is what has happened here.

Thought?

curlyredhead · 01-16-2013, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by MickMan

Hi everyone,

Been a while since I have been on and thought I would drop in to see how everyone is.

Life is good. Busy with school. This term marks the beginning of my dissertation and it is CRAZY!! But, exciting nonetheless.

Still single. Although, I have been talking with a woman here locally, however, nothing can come of it as she is unaware of my trans-status. She is from Thailand and absolutely wonderful. But, I am trying to find a way to explain to her I cannot get involved without outing myself and without ruining the friendship we have built. It all started out very innocent with me taking my mother to the restaurant that her brother owns. She was our waitress and she began talking with me and next thing you know, she is teaching me Thai and I am teaching her English. It finally occurred to me the other day when she introduced me to her brother, that she may have intentions beyond what I am able to take part in. She is wonderful, kind, caring and just so funny. And if she knew of my being trans, I would not be having this issue. I am not so sure I want to risk the friendship by outing myself. Not to mention my mother loves her and loves going to the restaurant. I need to either out myself and be prepared to never go there again or find a way to stop the progression before this woman becomes too attached. This really sucks!

Would love to hear from other as to solutions. This all happened so quickly that I did not have time to think about what was happening and perhaps I am guilty of flirting and leading her on a bit. I really try not to do that with those unaware. But, a good friend of mine told me that because of my good nature and kindness, I have a tendency to send out unintentional messages. Her words, not mine. Perhaps that is what has happened here.

Thought?

Mick this is complicated. I think you need to first figure out with what you are comfortable with before you make a decision to come out. I think the biggest question is are you interested in this lady? Because if you are then you aren't leading her on. Once you have determined what your thoughts are on that you need to find out if she has the same feelings towards you as well. If she has the same feelings about you and you do towards her, that's when you need to talk to her personally, and dude trust me if she really really likes you the trans part isn't going to matter one bit. I think that you need to educate her a little too when you do come out, because you do want to be able to eat at this restaurant again and not feel ostracized. Just my 2 cents.

curlyredhead · 01-16-2013, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Uniqueswtfemm

Happy....
One day left before a 4 day weekend! It's going to be a sad day tomorrow...a funeral in the morning.
I hope every gets on the mend soon, the yuckies going around has been lingering way too long. Here's to a happy hump day

I love HUMP Day!!!!!!

01-14-2013, 06:23 PM	#1
curlyredhead Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Female to Male "Straight" Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Plano, TX Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 644 Thanked 893 Times in 265 Posts Rep Power: 5285384	Bump Hey everyone bumping the thread! I hope everyone is staying well, or at least getting well since the flu is everywhere! Bumping the thread! ~Curly

01-14-2013, 07:24 PM	#2
Trev Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Just a good ole boy Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: She Thinks My Tractor's Sexy Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Somewhere between right and wrong Posts: 3,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,988 Thanked 10,142 Times in 2,400 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Seems like there are a few posts missing but if that's all that happened after the outage...we can call it GOOD!! Hope everyone is great and stays that way. Here's to the beginning of a new week __________________ Trev

01-15-2013, 11:36 AM	#3
EmpressM Member How Do You Identify?: human Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: texas Posts: 243 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 925 Thanked 630 Times in 180 Posts Rep Power: 9170942	:) Hooray! We are back up and running! I hope everyone had a terrific weekend and is having and even better week! I've finally managed to kick the flu and am "back up an running" myself! I'm officially a schoolgirl again starting today! __________________ I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people. ~John Lennon

01-15-2013, 01:49 PM	#4
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	Good Afternoon, Everyone! I've been away from the site myself with my son, Jacob, (5) being in the hospital and me running back and forth. I hope everyone's New Year has started off to a most excellent start and Cupid will be fast on the way to bring you something good!! __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

01-15-2013, 11:19 PM	#7
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,391 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,141 Thanked 40,957 Times in 10,741 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Happy.... One day left before a 4 day weekend! It's going to be a sad day tomorrow...a funeral in the morning. I hope every gets on the mend soon, the yuckies going around has been lingering way too long. Here's to a happy hump day __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

01-16-2013, 07:19 AM	#8
MickMan Member How Do You Identify?: Male/FTM Preferred Pronoun?: Those which are male Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 118 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 222 Times in 83 Posts Rep Power: 1071129	Good morning! Hi everyone, Been a while since I have been on and thought I would drop in to see how everyone is. Life is good. Busy with school. This term marks the beginning of my dissertation and it is CRAZY!! But, exciting nonetheless. Still single. Although, I have been talking with a woman here locally, however, nothing can come of it as she is unaware of my trans-status. She is from Thailand and absolutely wonderful. But, I am trying to find a way to explain to her I cannot get involved without outing myself and without ruining the friendship we have built. It all started out very innocent with me taking my mother to the restaurant that her brother owns. She was our waitress and she began talking with me and next thing you know, she is teaching me Thai and I am teaching her English. It finally occurred to me the other day when she introduced me to her brother, that she may have intentions beyond what I am able to take part in. She is wonderful, kind, caring and just so funny. And if she knew of my being trans, I would not be having this issue. I am not so sure I want to risk the friendship by outing myself. Not to mention my mother loves her and loves going to the restaurant. I need to either out myself and be prepared to never go there again or find a way to stop the progression before this woman becomes too attached. This really sucks! Would love to hear from other as to solutions. This all happened so quickly that I did not have time to think about what was happening and perhaps I am guilty of flirting and leading her on a bit. I really try not to do that with those unaware. But, a good friend of mine told me that because of my good nature and kindness, I have a tendency to send out unintentional messages. Her words, not mine. Perhaps that is what has happened here. Thought?