Infidelity - Page 2

SuperFemme · 03-25-2010, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.

Monica Lewinsky?
Princess Di? (they certainly focused on her more than Camilla Parker)
Recently Leanne Rhymes....

Martina · 03-30-2010, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.

You're kidding, right? Let's have a seance and discuss this with all the women killed by their boyfriends or husbands who found out they were cheating or who thought they were.

sweetcali · 03-30-2010, 07:58 PM

plain??????????????? ~~~~~ splain lucy

real man???????? ~~~~~ splain lucy

This seriously befuddles me.

sweetcali

Martina · 03-31-2010, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.

i am still fuming about this. i mean, do we share the same planet? i don't get it. How many women are killed a YEAR, i wonder, based on accusations of infidelity? i still can't get over it, that i even saw this on this site. It's damaging to ME to hear things like this expressed, things that i thought most people knew better than to say.

Linus · 03-25-2010, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by apocalipstic

Both sexes cheat. What I am saying is that it is more honorable to break up first...or to just be poly in the first place.

I know every single person I mentioned in my posts is a woman. Not one single man.

But we don't have to agree.

Poly, however, doesn't give one a carte blanche to cheat or be unfaithful. There still is a requirement to communicate and share to a certain degree, depending on how the relationship is set up.

Infidelity is about lying to the partner(s) about one's intention and deliberately not talking to them about issues.

Andrew, Jr. · 03-25-2010, 01:40 PM

It is all about talking or communication. That is key in all relationships.

Apocalipstic · 03-25-2010, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Linus

Poly, however, doesn't give one a carte blanche to cheat or be unfaithful. There still is a requirement to communicate and share to a certain degree, depending on how the relationship is set up.

Infidelity is about lying to the partner(s) about one's intention and deliberately not talking to them about issues.

Very good point, I should have been more clear!

Yes, if you want to love more than one person be Poly, if you want to sleep with whomever, be single!

Better?

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