Infidelity

SuperFemme · 03-25-2010, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by little man

obviously, i do not watch enough animal planet. although, i have to wonder if they're not onto something there. that would certainly broaden the gene pool, wouldn't it? (which has nothing to do with the topic at hand...sorry for the diversion)

How hard is it to me monogamous when all your potential mates look EXACTLY THE SAME.

The_Lady_Snow · 03-25-2010, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.

I call bullshit Andrew..

If a woman cheats, she is cast as

WHORE

HOME WRECKER

SLUT

LILITH

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

It is all about talking or communication. That is key in all relationships.

I agree with this 1005

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

Monica Lewinsky?

Right? Naughty bad Monica who led poor poor Clinton, mind you no one made him get his dick sucked, no one made him fuck her with a cigar, and no one forced him to cheat on his wife..
Princess Di? (they certainly focused on her more than Camilla Parker)

Di, well Charles was sticking his dick in Camilla, she was supposed to sit back and watch like a good little girl right? Cause that is what good Queens do, sit back and watch the guy do whatever..
Now she decides fuck it and gets her nookie wet, all hell breaks out, her crown taken, and I still say killed...

Recently Leanne Rhymes....

Here we go again, the bad bad vixen strayed the poor guy who is married with kids, she turned into a serpent struck him with her venomous ways and he had no choice...

Poor victim cheaters...

Makes me wanna vomit a bit...

Fuck this excuse for cheating, this whole new I am addicted to sex, it's just an excuse for a new reality show with Dr Drew..

Gemme · 03-25-2010, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

How hard is it to me monogamous when all your potential mates look EXACTLY THE SAME.

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Soft*Silver · 03-25-2010, 02:50 PM

the same? Didnt you notice his flipper was wider than the other guy's?

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

How hard is it to me monogamous when all your potential mates look EXACTLY THE SAME.

Apocalipstic · 03-25-2010, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by I'mOneToo

yes the same rules apply. but if a casual acquaintance of mine or even a close friend isn't truthful with me, the impact isn't as high as if it was someone who is in a sexual relationship with me. if a person i'm having a sexual relationship isn't honest with me (or all of us, if there's a poly situation) it impacts everyone and can have negative consequences that would not apply if it was someone i wasn't fucking. so it's not that the expectation of honesty is higher, but the consequences can be greater when honesty doesn't exist.

For me it is worse to be betrayed and lied to by a very close friend.

SuperFemme · 03-25-2010, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by apocalipstic

For me it is worse to be betrayed and lied to by a very close friend.

Me too. Love is love is love. Sex is fucking.

I'mOneToo · 03-25-2010, 03:16 PM

there's no kind of betrayal that ever seems acceptable. and consequences vary so greatly that i'm just going to leave this topic alone myself, because i don't function well in piecemeal discussions. this is a whole smorgasbord of stuff in what started as one little topic, now it's a debate about polyamory and that's a great biggo meal by itself. i had some thoughts about the original topic, though it may be unworthy of discussion now, lol. nah, i'll just stuff that cuz i need a nap.

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Originally Posted by apocalipstic

For me it is worse to be betrayed and lied to by a very close friend.

Apocalipstic · 03-25-2010, 03:18 PM

I think it all boils down to be honest and respectful in all our dealings!

Honest and Respect

Simple!

Have a great nap!

Andrew, Jr. · 03-25-2010, 03:35 PM

Let me ask this question because I am confused. What business is it of mine if someone is cheating?

SuperFemme · 03-25-2010, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

Let me ask this question because I am confused. What business is it of mine if someone is cheating?

None. At all. Unless they are cheating on you.

I think most in this thread are coming from that place...

Jet · 03-26-2010, 10:38 PM

I believe in a real man thing because its how I was raised. I don;t see it as gender neutral...for reasons and traditions....i think what he did is bad...just my .02
to each his own i guess.

BullDog · 03-26-2010, 10:52 PM

To me infidelity is about dishonesty and lies, not about sex. In my book if you lie then that's infidelity- either in a relationship or potential relationship. Lies and omissions are incredibly hurtful and it shows a very poor character.

Being a faithful and honest person applies to all genders. It has nothing to do with being man enough, woman enough, or any other gender enough.

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Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	I believe in a real man thing because its how I was raised. I don;t see it as gender neutral...for reasons and traditions....i think what he did is bad...just my .02 to each his own i guess.