Misogyny and Sexism in the News

[Greyson]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

My first thought when reading the above article is that gay men have been doing this forever.

The site is set up for all combination of sexes, with sugar daddys, sugar mommas, sugar male babies, and sugar female babies. Straight and gay.

Sorry but the article really pushed my buttons. One of my first thoughts is yet more enabling of spineless "I am too special, smart, talented and beautiful to be expected to live among the mortals."

I live in an area full of well intentioned middle class liberals who are clueless and raised to believe they are open hearted, fair minded and not racist. They could not do an honest day of work or find their way out of a paper bag if their life depended on it.

College fees, tuition are rediculious. Guess what? It has been this way for generations for many. So now that it is in the back yard of the little darlings, it is a problem? Gawd forbid they might have to get a job or take the bus instead of daddy's old car.

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by Greyson

Sorry but the article really pushed my buttons. One of my first thoughts is yet more enabling of spineless "I am too special, smart, talented and beautiful to be expected to live among the mortals."

I live in an area full of well intentioned middle class liberals who are clueless and raised to believe they are open hearted, fair minded and not racist. They could not do an honest day of work or find their way out of a paper bag if their life depended on it.

College fees, tuition are rediculious. Guess what? It has been this way for generations for many. So now that it is in the back yard of the little darlings, it is a problem?

Well, when I went to the site I didn't see anything about it being a paying for college type of thing, so it seems to me that the article is making the assumption that this is what the site is mainly used for. But, it is not like I read further into it.

I took a look at the site after I read the article and it seems to be also used as just a regular personals site. Many of the "sugar mommas" make around 40K per year, so I don't see how they plan to spend $1,000-$3,000 for their "sugar male babies". Some of them are also in their 20's.

However, I didn't join the site, so maybe they mention the college thing, I don't know.

Really, this stuff already goes on on personal sites, anyway. People searching for wealthy people to help take care of them. The difference is this site gives one location for those people.

So, for me, when I read the article it pushed my buttons, but when I looked at the site and saw how it was a level playing field between the sexes, it "pushed my buttons less", so to speak.

[Greyson]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, when I went to the site I didn't see anything about it being a paying for college type of thing, so it seems to me that the article is making the assumption that this is what the site is mainly used for. But, it is not like I read further into it.

I took a look at the site after I read the article and it seems to be also used as just a regular personals site. Many of the "sugar mommas" make around 40K per year, so I don't see how they plan to spend $1,000-$3,000 for their "sugar male babies". Some of them are also in their 20's.

However, I didn't join the site, so maybe they mention the college thing, I don't know.

Really, this stuff already goes on on personal sites, anyway. People searching for wealthy people to help take care of them. The difference is this site gives one location for those people.

So, for me, when I read the article it pushed my buttons, but when I looked at the site and saw how it was a level playing field between the sexes, it "pushed my buttons less", so to speak.

Dapper, thanks for digging deeper. I am not against women making ends meet, raising their standard of living, spending their money however they choose among consenting adults. What rubs me the wrong way is when women, men and any other gender believes are entitled to something. Although the article does not speak directly to "entitlement" for me, it pushes that button.

In the media the discussion of entitlement is usually about "minorities." What is glossed over is the reality of middle class, upper middle class and cooperate entitlements. IMO, many are born into it and do not even realize their world is full of entitlement, privlege.