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			I guess Ethan is a lil better after they put cooling blankets on him, the fever went over 104..... Debs been awake and all alone at the hospital since the wee hours of the morning with no way home or cash to do such. Times like these piss me off I wish I were there. So she is taking a bit of a rest in a quiet space. I guided her too people in the hospital that may be able to help her. I made a few calls. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Ayron My Old Gaurd Brother thank you so much... Yes times like these are more important than coffee. I been speaking to Ethan all morning in my spirit. Too all the rest of my BFP Family a heart felt thank you for being here for Ethan & Deb......  | 
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			Prayers, hope and wishes for Ethan's speedy recovery. Hugs for sister Deb....   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			oh  wow i had no clue  Ethan was even ill   ** says a prayer for both ethan and deb **
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			i am so overwhelmed.. glad i am able to type this, cause if i had to make a speech. oy vey,.. noone would be able to understand me over my blubbering and sobs.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			i have never felt such a connection and a bond, as i do here on the Planet, and in this.. my community. Even tho i am alone here physically dealing with this.. i know beyond a shadow of a doubt, i am not alone.. i feel y'all.. so tangible like You were actually standing in this room. Words cannot express my love and gratitude for each and every one of you. and thank You is just not enough. Ethan is getting better.. He is off the insulin drips( they had two going at once), so he can be moved out of the ICU into a regular room prolly tomorrow. His temp went from 98.6, to 99.9 to 102, to 104 and now it has been pretty stable at 99.2 for awhile. His blood pressure is normal, his heart rate was 140 but is now 91. still too high, but.. so much better. He is still having issues with his blood sugar.. latest check was 311.. but.. they are still able to keep it out of 400.. i am ok.. not really.. but really.. i got about 4 hrs of sleep somehow on a very uncomfortable recliner, with my head covered by a blanket to block out the light above my head and the noises being made in a "quiet room". Guess my body just said "deal" i will be able to go home tomorrow sometime and take a shower and gather a few things, visit with the fur babies ( who are prolly beside themselves cause momma and Daddy are not there), then head back up here to the hospital via a friend. HATE not having my own vehicle.. but.. i am making due. It could be worse. I have shed quite a bit of tears, unbeknownst to Ethan of course, and said i cannot tell You how many prayers.. it is not easy being strong when all it feels like is the inside of me is a huge picture that has been shattered and one lil jolt will send all the pieces crashing down and it is being held together by a very flimsy cardboard frame. HOWEVER.. through the fear, the uncertainity, the negativity.. etc.. i KNOW God is greater, and i KNOW that.. this too shall pass.. just gotta keep a hold of that. Again, Thank Y'all so much. from the bottom of this girl's heart. i truly love Y/you all. 
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			Deb & Ethan, my prayers for healing, peace of mind, and rest go up for the two of you today. Be still...everything will be okay.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Deb and Ethan, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Thinking of you both with love and healing wishes. Jennifer 
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			Deb -  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Wishing you a moment of peace so the overwhelming circumstances may be more bareable. Take care of yourself. Wishing Ethan a smooth recovery. Take care. 
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			Ruff and I are thinking of you and Ethan. Hope the hospital was able to get Hys insulin under control and that Hy has a speedy recovery. I will text you in the morning and see how you two are doing. Hugs, Zimmeh 
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			What a hell of a way too spend your birthday Bro ! Deb Im glad he is more stable. when he gets home you can have a party for him then.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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