Prayer And Support For EthanGaBoy

grenade · 03-05-2013, 10:19 AM

Sorry to hear how things are going for y'all. *big hugs* I will be thinking of you.

Canela · 03-05-2013, 05:52 PM

I'm still praying and believing for Ethan's healing in Jesus name and yours as well, Deb... don't stop believing because God can, when no one else can, God always can.

Sun · 03-05-2013, 06:39 PM

Deb I know that I offered you prayers on Facebook but just wanted to post here as well. I am keeping the vision of Ethan walking and returning to his life at home. Stay strong, take good care of yourself, let me know if I can help network with some friends down there for your transportation. Taking care of yourself has to be a priority too sweetie.

Sending love and hugs

deb0670 · 03-05-2013, 09:01 PM

LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank.
A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese".
i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. *goose frabba,, simmer down now deb*
His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic
GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today.
i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying.
Ethan's

TheMerryFairy · 03-05-2013, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by deb0670

LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank.
A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese".
i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. *goose frabba,, simmer down now deb*
His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic
GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today.
i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying.
Ethan's

((((HUgs)))) Oh Deb I am so sorry it has been a rough day for you both. Shame on that dr! You did the right thing. I am happy Ethan is out of bed now and I will certainly keep the positive energy and good thoughts coming. I am here if you would like to pm.

Jesse · 03-05-2013, 10:48 PM

Deb,
I sure hope they find the source of that infection soon and get it treated so the pain will back off. Remember to take care of you too. Still have you both in my prayers and thoughts.
Jesse

ManOMan · 03-06-2013, 12:43 AM

Oh my Deb. Thank God you were there with Ethan when that doctor went off on him.

My prayers for both of you are for Peace of Mind, Clarity and Wholeness. I am knowing that the perfect doctors/staff are right there caring for Ethan and that his health is glowing. I am knowing that both of you (and all of your family) are resting comfortably. Perfect Health and Vitality are the order of the day.

Peace,
Kevin

curlyredhead · 03-06-2013, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by deb0670

LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank.
A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese".
i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. *goose frabba,, simmer down now deb*
His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic
GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today.
i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying.
Ethan's

I am proud to hear you stood up for not only you but Ethan as well. That's horrible the doctor acted that way. My sister is a doctor and that is no way to treat a patient.

deb0670 · 03-06-2013, 10:02 AM

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
The Main Dr just came in and told us they finally know what is wrong with Ethan. It started out as a Urinary Tract Infection that turned to E. Coli and a complete blood infection and Sepsis. That on top of the DKA made him a very very sick man. They are giving him the right kind of antibiotics now that they know what is wrong.
His kidneys have taken a hit due to both the UTI and the DKA, but they are slowly getting better. We are not looking at getting out of here anytime before the end of the week to mid next week.. just depends.
Please keep him/me in prayer. and thank You all for all the well wishes and prayers already!

CherylNYC · 03-06-2013, 10:21 AM

Sending you support. I'm very glad you finally have some answers.

03-05-2013, 05:52 PM	#2
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03-05-2013, 06:39 PM	#3
Sun Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Preferred Pronoun?: He, him, his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: N/A Posts: 1,775 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,557 Thanked 5,551 Times in 1,456 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Deb I know that I offered you prayers on Facebook but just wanted to post here as well. I am keeping the vision of Ethan walking and returning to his life at home. Stay strong, take good care of yourself, let me know if I can help network with some friends down there for your transportation. Taking care of yourself has to be a priority too sweetie. Sending love and hugs __________________ “Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.” ― Rumi

03-05-2013, 09:01 PM	#4
deb0670 Member How Do You Identify?: femme/ baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she,her Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2010 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,348 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,520 Thanked 6,026 Times in 1,189 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank. A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese". i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. goose frabba,, simmer down now deb His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today. i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying. Ethan's __________________ Remember the lessons, forget the details. Use the stumbling blocks of the past as stepping stones to help build the future.

03-05-2013, 10:48 PM	#6
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Deb, I sure hope they find the source of that infection soon and get it treated so the pain will back off. Remember to take care of you too. Still have you both in my prayers and thoughts. Jesse __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

03-06-2013, 12:43 AM	#7
ManOMan Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him/His... Relationship Status: Single & searching.... Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 96 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 249 Thanked 217 Times in 64 Posts Rep Power: 1447910	Oh my Deb. Thank God you were there with Ethan when that doctor went off on him. My prayers for both of you are for Peace of Mind, Clarity and Wholeness. I am knowing that the perfect doctors/staff are right there caring for Ethan and that his health is glowing. I am knowing that both of you (and all of your family) are resting comfortably. Perfect Health and Vitality are the order of the day. Peace, Kevin __________________ The Truth is you are Loved more than you can imagine

03-05-2013, 10:19 AM	#1
grenade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Full Flavor Femme Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 2,929 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,925 Thanked 8,058 Times in 2,121 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Sorry to hear how things are going for y'all. big hugs I will be thinking of you.

03-06-2013, 10:02 AM	#9
deb0670 Member How Do You Identify?: femme/ baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she,her Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2010 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,348 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,520 Thanked 6,026 Times in 1,189 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	UPDATE ON ETHAN: The Main Dr just came in and told us they finally know what is wrong with Ethan. It started out as a Urinary Tract Infection that turned to E. Coli and a complete blood infection and Sepsis. That on top of the DKA made him a very very sick man. They are giving him the right kind of antibiotics now that they know what is wrong. His kidneys have taken a hit due to both the UTI and the DKA, but they are slowly getting better. We are not looking at getting out of here anytime before the end of the week to mid next week.. just depends. Please keep him/me in prayer. and thank You all for all the well wishes and prayers already! __________________ Remember the lessons, forget the details. Use the stumbling blocks of the past as stepping stones to help build the future.

03-06-2013, 10:21 AM	#10
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