What are your faults? - Page 2

Enchantress · 04-20-2013, 11:43 AM

I tend to talk over people. But, not because I'm attempting to be rude. Instead, I just have so much to say, and it feels as if my mind is way ahead of me. However, I am working on this. So, in that case, it's not really a fault any longer, is it?

If there is a cake in front of me, I must eat the frosting. I always cover up the spot though. And then, go for another area (don't judge, it's not nice). I wonder if there is a 12 step for this issue?

I steal Halloween candy from little children's candy bags. : \

If I have any other faults I simply can't think of them at this moment

wahya · 04-20-2013, 12:12 PM

I believe I have a bit of adhd..
I can talk too much
I lose things
I can be too affectionate
I used to have a short temper but I have learned to tame it.
I smoke with something major( bad) happens in my life.
I used to be a slob. but I took control of that.
My daugher says I don't always have a filter. (workin on that)
I better stop here..lol

Velvetkitten · 04-20-2013, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wahya

I believe I have a bit of adhd..
I can talk too much
I lose things
I can be too affectionate
I used to have a short temper but I have learned to tame it.
I smoke with something major( bad) happens in my life.
I used to be a slob. but I took control of that.
My daugher says I don't always have a filter. (workin on that)
I better stop here..lol

Too affectionate

I don't think that's a fault....

PurpleQuestions84 · 04-24-2013, 12:07 PM

Im fat

Tuff Stuff · 06-03-2013, 08:46 PM

I want to be there 24/7 for my family,my lady,my two baby chihuahuas,my two baby kittens and I CAN'T!

My fault i have to work

Wrang1er · 06-03-2013, 08:54 PM

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

DJ Bear · 04-20-2013, 03:46 PM

I don't ask for help.

Not loving myself. I finally "like" myself and I'm working on loving myself.

Going into my head and not staying in the now.

I am my toughest critic

Not assertive enough

I act first and afterwards think it through. Like grabbing 2 leashes on big dogs and not thinking that they might just pull me off my feet, which they did.

I forget my limitations and still think I'm in my 20's, then I'm hard on myself when I fail

I have traveled a long way these past few years making positive physical and mental changes. I am always striving to be a better me.

If anyone ever says life gets better or easier with age, run, they're lying through they're fucking teeth.

If anyone ever says that you are never too old to find love, listen to them, they really know what they are talking about.

Allison W · 04-20-2013, 08:15 PM

Life-destroying, all-consuming sloth.

Blade · 05-03-2015, 06:31 AM

Trusting to readily

Tuff Stuff · 07-30-2015, 10:24 PM

I've been told I use too much salt..i luv salt

Miss_J · 07-30-2015, 11:23 PM

I think there are times that I have unrealistic expectations. I tend to treat people with courtesy, respect and caring. In return I feel people should treat me the same and its a huge disappointment when they dont. Huge..

C0LLETTE · 07-31-2015, 07:09 AM

I am not particularly introspective...annoying to some...a life saver to me.

I tend to find amusement in just about all of the "human condition"...annoying to some....a life saver for me.

Daisy Chain · 08-01-2015, 11:23 AM

These are some of the ones I am more aware of and also the ones that I make an almost constant effort to address with some success I hope....

I can hold a grudge

I can be selfish with my need for solitude at times

I over analyse and over think

I am distrustful and suspicious which can make me distant and watchful

I have expectations of people

I dont always listen to my gut instinct and make the same mistakes again until I finally learn the hard way

I try to cover all bases at all times and get frustrated when I cannot

I find it hard to accept that someone else can handle something for me as well as I can myself or better, I can take self sufficiency to the extreme

I can be very stubborn

I can shut loved ones out when I am processing hurt which in turn hurts them

I can be very outspoken at times but then there are times when I refuse to engage at all

I used to want most things on my own terms

I am very much my own harshest critic !

Daisy { a work in progress }

MsTinkerbelly · 08-01-2015, 12:02 PM

I worry too much about everything.

akiza · 05-22-2017, 03:12 PM

some friends said that i'm distant true but i call that i'm introverted and shy and not wanting to talk much;defensive and angry true too but i've got reasons to be like that friends males who like to tell me stupids love declarations wtf? judgementals homophobic youngs in my high school yes,not nice because i refuse boyfriends no fuck buddy,dreamer,silencious and don't show much my feelings but emojis are nice lol ^^ when i exprime myself on line i've maybe forget others things ^^

Soft*Silver · 05-22-2017, 04:06 PM

well, I still have denial that I am physically limited, so I dream up projects to do and then need help finishing them. And sometimes there just isnt someone to help finish them so I will push myself to do it and end up hurting myself.

I use to be very athletic and buff...then the car accident happened and I gained weight, lost muscle, developed weakness, and battle balance issues. It makes me VERY angry to this day, even tho its been a decade since the accident

girl_dee · 05-22-2017, 04:24 PM

i tend to want to run and exit before i get hurt, and have missed and nearly missed out on some great connections because of misplaced fear

Glenn · 05-23-2017, 03:36 PM

I smoke so much that anyone who lives with me, including me, will probably be dead in a year

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cathexis · 05-23-2017, 06:19 PM

Cynical, distrusting, get scared often then lash out, wound too tight requiring major surgery to loosen up, a hermit, smoke, too fat, out of shape, didn't age well (ugly for the past 20 years), hide from people, push people away when they get too close, and low self esteem. Want anymore? Sure I could think of 'em.

04-20-2013, 11:43 AM	#1
Enchantress Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A complex confection. Preferred Pronoun?: Miss Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The land of milk and honey. Posts: 2,169 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 741 Thanked 3,420 Times in 1,200 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Um ... I tend to talk over people. But, not because I'm attempting to be rude. Instead, I just have so much to say, and it feels as if my mind is way ahead of me. However, I am working on this. So, in that case, it's not really a fault any longer, is it? If there is a cake in front of me, I must eat the frosting. I always cover up the spot though. And then, go for another area (don't judge, it's not nice). I wonder if there is a 12 step for this issue? I steal Halloween candy from little children's candy bags. : \ If I have any other faults I simply can't think of them at this moment

04-24-2013, 12:07 PM	#4
PurpleQuestions84 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Super Girly Preferred Pronoun?: Miss.Lady ;) Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: So.cal U.S.A Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 53 Thanked 153 Times in 43 Posts Rep Power: 1365539	Im fat __________________ It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~e.e. cummings "if you end up a life you never wanted because u listened to your parents, your priest, your friends, and your spouse, you deserve it." PurpleQuestions84 AKA Barbie Dyke

04-20-2013, 03:46 PM	#7
DJ Bear Member How Do You Identify?: Daddy, Papa, just Me Preferred Pronoun?: he, him, sir, bro, hey you Relationship Status: Married to library_girl Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Illinois with my baby girl Posts: 144 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 404 Thanked 552 Times in 138 Posts Rep Power: 8324586	I don't ask for help. Not loving myself. I finally "like" myself and I'm working on loving myself. Going into my head and not staying in the now. I am my toughest critic Not assertive enough I act first and afterwards think it through. Like grabbing 2 leashes on big dogs and not thinking that they might just pull me off my feet, which they did. I forget my limitations and still think I'm in my 20's, then I'm hard on myself when I fail I have traveled a long way these past few years making positive physical and mental changes. I am always striving to be a better me. If anyone ever says life gets better or easier with age, run, they're lying through they're fucking teeth. If anyone ever says that you are never too old to find love, listen to them, they really know what they are talking about. __________________ “Named must your fear be before banish it you can.” Yoda

05-03-2015, 06:31 AM	#9
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,415 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Trusting to readily __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

07-30-2015, 11:23 PM	#11
Miss_J Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: ? Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 508 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,415 Thanked 1,558 Times in 324 Posts Rep Power: 10308963	I think there are times that I have unrealistic expectations. I tend to treat people with courtesy, respect and caring. In return I feel people should treat me the same and its a huge disappointment when they dont. Huge.. __________________

04-20-2013, 12:12 PM	#2
wahya Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: im good Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 296 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 506 Thanked 857 Times in 240 Posts Rep Power: 0	I believe I have a bit of adhd.. I can talk too much I lose things I can be too affectionate I used to have a short temper but I have learned to tame it. I smoke with something major( bad) happens in my life. I used to be a slob. but I took control of that. My daugher says I don't always have a filter. (workin on that) I better stop here..lol

06-03-2013, 08:46 PM	#5
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	I want to be there 24/7 for my family,my lady,my two baby chihuahuas,my two baby kittens and I CAN'T! My fault i have to work

06-03-2013, 08:54 PM	#6
Wrang1er Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me, myself and I Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Here Posts: 1,526 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 7,043 Times in 1,354 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I take too many naps. My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror) I tend to be a slob when single. I don't always communicate well. Also, I procrastinate. and and and...

04-20-2013, 08:15 PM	#8
Allison W Member How Do You Identify?: TG Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Loner Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 366 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,414 Thanked 1,195 Times in 319 Posts Rep Power: 12203815	Life-destroying, all-consuming sloth.

07-30-2015, 10:24 PM	#10
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	I've been told I use too much salt..i luv salt

07-31-2015, 07:09 AM	#12
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,176 Times in 4,341 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I am not particularly introspective...annoying to some...a life saver to me. I tend to find amusement in just about all of the "human condition"...annoying to some....a life saver for me.

08-01-2015, 11:23 AM	#13
Daisy Chain Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Hy calls me Hys Kitten Join Date: May 2015 Location: 2nd star to the right and straight on til morning Posts: 729 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,814 Thanked 1,808 Times in 447 Posts Rep Power: 0	These are some of the ones I am more aware of and also the ones that I make an almost constant effort to address with some success I hope.... I can hold a grudge I can be selfish with my need for solitude at times I over analyse and over think I am distrustful and suspicious which can make me distant and watchful I have expectations of people I dont always listen to my gut instinct and make the same mistakes again until I finally learn the hard way I try to cover all bases at all times and get frustrated when I cannot I find it hard to accept that someone else can handle something for me as well as I can myself or better, I can take self sufficiency to the extreme I can be very stubborn I can shut loved ones out when I am processing hurt which in turn hurts them I can be very outspoken at times but then there are times when I refuse to engage at all I used to want most things on my own terms I am very much my own harshest critic ! Daisy { a work in progress }

08-01-2015, 12:02 PM	#14
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,908 Times in 5,019 Posts Rep Power: 0	I worry too much about everything.

05-22-2017, 03:12 PM	#15
akiza Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: khaleessi lol ^-^ just go with aki,ana,kit or princess Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Congo-brazzaville Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 318 Thanked 623 Times in 285 Posts Rep Power: 0	some friends said that i'm distant true but i call that i'm introverted and shy and not wanting to talk much;defensive and angry true too but i've got reasons to be like that friends males who like to tell me stupids love declarations wtf? judgementals homophobic youngs in my high school yes,not nice because i refuse boyfriends no fuck buddy,dreamer,silencious and don't show much my feelings but emojis are nice lol ^^ when i exprime myself on line i've maybe forget others things ^^

05-22-2017, 04:06 PM	#16
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	well, I still have denial that I am physically limited, so I dream up projects to do and then need help finishing them. And sometimes there just isnt someone to help finish them so I will push myself to do it and end up hurting myself. I use to be very athletic and buff...then the car accident happened and I gained weight, lost muscle, developed weakness, and battle balance issues. It makes me VERY angry to this day, even tho its been a decade since the accident __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

05-22-2017, 04:24 PM	#17
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	i tend to want to run and exit before i get hurt, and have missed and nearly missed out on some great connections because of misplaced fear

05-23-2017, 03:36 PM	#18
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dear ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old G Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,601 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I smoke so much that anyone who lives with me, including me, will probably be dead in a year.

05-23-2017, 06:19 PM	#19
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,707 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Cynical, distrusting, get scared often then lash out, wound too tight requiring major surgery to loosen up, a hermit, smoke, too fat, out of shape, didn't age well (ugly for the past 20 years), hide from people, push people away when they get too close, and low self esteem. Want anymore? Sure I could think of 'em.