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Old 04-20-2013, 12:12 PM   #1
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I believe I have a bit of adhd..
I can talk too much
I lose things
I can be too affectionate
I used to have a short temper but I have learned to tame it.
I smoke with something major( bad) happens in my life.
I used to be a slob. but I took control of that.
My daugher says I don't always have a filter. (workin on that)
I better stop here..lol
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Old 04-20-2013, 09:58 PM   #2
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I believe I have a bit of adhd..
I can talk too much
I lose things
I can be too affectionate
I used to have a short temper but I have learned to tame it.
I smoke with something major( bad) happens in my life.
I used to be a slob. but I took control of that.
My daugher says I don't always have a filter. (workin on that)
I better stop here..lol
Too affectionate I don't think that's a fault....
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:07 PM   #3
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I sometimes feel the need to put others before myself.
I can be a bit of a workaholic.
I am not very spontaneous but I would really like to work on this.
I might over analyze a situation.
I am very independent and sometimes shut others out as a result.
I am very private about certain parts of my life even with my family, friends and coworkers however I am an open book with someone if I am in a relationship with them.
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I misplace things, I can overanalyze when I am trying to understand something and if I am uncomfortable/nervous/confused , I can't always communicate as well as I can when my head is clear or when I know exactly how I feel/what I am thinking.
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I speak before I think sometimes
I can be jealous(have got a whole lot better) but she still rears her ugly head from time to time
I can be demanding and bossy(think that's the Taurus in me which is why I need a "strong hand")
I can give to much of myself to others
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Oh uh, *tries not to faint*

Let's see,

I am called a doormat. I am it is my nature but I really need to grow a backbone when dealing with others outside of my close family.

I am over emotional and spend much of my time crying over ant little thing.

My opinion counts for nothing. You someone says I am wrong I guess I am. I cry.

I am terrorized by compliments and run from them. I am never worthy.

Our house is spotless but I can always spot the flaws.

I will do anything to keep from hurting someones feelings, even to the point of backing down when I am right which I never am.

I should stop now dinner needs to be done by 5:15.
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I want to be there 24/7 for my family,my lady,my two baby chihuahuas,my two baby kittens and I CAN'T!

My fault i have to work
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I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...
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I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...
Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits
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I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

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Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

I have to agree with MID.... I have spent too much of my time thinking I'm no good. I know I am not perfect but who is?

So if your a slob maybe you will meet a girl who would think it cute to tidy up while your not looking to help you out.

Communication.... Yeah I hear you on that. We could all use some help on that front...your not alone.

Procrastination? Well maybe the person you meet might want to make plans and help you keep them.

There is always a possible positive outcome to a negative thought. I have to remind myself of that sometimes too lol.

Don't be too hard on yourself.
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I have to agree with MID.... I have spent too much of my time thinking I'm no good. I know I am not perfect but who is?

So if your a slob maybe you will meet a girl who would think it cute to tidy up while your not looking to help you out.

Communication.... Yeah I hear you on that. We could all use some help on that front...your not alone.

Procrastination? Well maybe the person you meet might want to make plans and help you keep them.

There is always a possible positive outcome to a negative thought. I have to remind myself of that sometimes too lol.


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1. I'm OCD
2. B/C of #1. I only see things as black and white.
3. I maintain complete control of every aspect of my life.
4. B/C of #3 I operate on the fight or flight response quickly.
5. As I age , I have no tolerance for putting up with nonsense.
6. I will never freely give trust to anything or anyone . Trust is something that can take many years to get from me.
7. I never forgive nor forget if I have been lied to. I take grudges to the grave.
8. B/C of #1 I fixate on the smallest things and will go to the depths of hades to prove a wrong or a right.
9. I am a Pitt bull daddy and way to overprotective.
10. My coping mechanism is to seclude , wall up , shut down
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Being stubborn (I'm a Taurus)
Being too perfectionistic
Being disorganized (in an organized manner as everything is in piles, and I know where everything is at)
Spreading myself too thin at times
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nothing like a rude awakening I've redeveloped a death grip lock on old baggage ....even the stuff I thought I let go of. And then it turns around and bites me on the ass when I 'm not looking. Luckily, I know that the old stuff doesn't serve me anymore.

Learning letting go is not a one time deal. It requires regular practice and patience with myself (and others). Accepting all of my not so-charming faults and making amends are also part of my process as I muddle through. Recognizing everything will eventually passes, even this.
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