what NOT to do in a relationship.......

FeminineAllure · 03-20-2013, 09:14 PM

You are even in a relationship and find out what NOT to do...

Are you *available* to put the time into having and nurturing one?

Will it be or become one of your *priorities* to be in one?

LDR are not easy. Think long and hard if you are capable of *sustaining* one BEFORE you start having feelings for that awesome femme or butch. <that look out the window together on the phone in the morning and one has 6 feet of snow and the other is watching seagulls flying around and its 75 degrees outside at 8am and 11am for the other.> It took 3 hours to shovel and clean the car off

This is where the "I wish you were here" begins. For the record I am not against LDR I have seen plenty work out wonderfully.

And the last one...
ARE YOU TRULY AVAILABLE mentally,emotionally, physically and spiritually TO EVEN BE IN A RELATIONSHIP???
What does *single* mean to you?
The time spent reflecting after your relationship has ended is when you *truly* learn what not to do in your next relationship. It hurts but its a gift

MysticOceansFL · 03-20-2013, 09:53 PM

Simply don't assume.

TheMerryFairy · 03-20-2013, 10:03 PM

Don't ignore the other persons needs.

Guy · 03-20-2013, 10:04 PM

Don't lose track of how much time you spend on online (e.g. connect with facebook friends, play games, groups etc)
Establish a healthy dose of time and stick to it

PearlsNLace · 03-21-2013, 09:38 PM

Don't forget to listen with your heart.

Butterbean · 09-04-2013, 11:50 PM

Eric Clapton once said, "I wish I could love my wife as unconditionally as I love my children."

That quote amazed me.

Don't love with conditions.

Duchess · 03-04-2014, 03:29 PM

Don't put the burden of finances, coming up with cool ideas to keep things fresh, initiating sex, etc... on one person.

TheMerryFairy · 03-22-2013, 01:13 PM

Don't forget your own worth!

03-20-2013, 09:14 PM	#1
FeminineAllure Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: My rainbow is way overdue Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PA Posts: 1,145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 2,026 Times in 555 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Before... You are even in a relationship and find out what NOT to do... Are you available to put the time into having and nurturing one? Will it be or become one of your priorities to be in one? LDR are not easy. Think long and hard if you are capable of sustaining one BEFORE you start having feelings for that awesome femme or butch. <that look out the window together on the phone in the morning and one has 6 feet of snow and the other is watching seagulls flying around and its 75 degrees outside at 8am and 11am for the other.> It took 3 hours to shovel and clean the car off This is where the "I wish you were here" begins. For the record I am not against LDR I have seen plenty work out wonderfully. And the last one... ARE YOU TRULY AVAILABLE mentally,emotionally, physically and spiritually TO EVEN BE IN A RELATIONSHIP??? What does single mean to you? The time spent reflecting after your relationship has ended is when you truly learn what not to do in your next relationship. It hurts but its a gift __________________ Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you Last edited by FeminineAllure; 03-20-2013 at 09:21 PM.

03-20-2013, 09:53 PM	#2
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	. Simply don't assume. __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

03-21-2013, 09:38 PM	#5
PearlsNLace Member How Do You Identify?: queer Preferred Pronoun?: They/Them & her/she Relationship Status: Lucky, very lucky Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portlandia, Oregon Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 875 Thanked 1,284 Times in 315 Posts Rep Power: 6505517	Don't forget to listen with your heart. __________________ YOU are Unique and Unrepeatable AND your not alone. thetrevorproject.org

03-04-2014, 03:29 PM	#7
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,592 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	*Don't put the burden of finances, coming up with cool ideas to keep things fresh, initiating sex, etc... on one person.* __________________ *無料のライブ*

03-20-2013, 10:03 PM	#3
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Don't ignore the other persons needs.

03-20-2013, 10:04 PM	#4
Guy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 1,858 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,258 Thanked 2,574 Times in 889 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Don't lose track of how much time you spend on online (e.g. connect with facebook friends, play games, groups etc) Establish a healthy dose of time and stick to it

09-04-2013, 11:50 PM	#6
Butterbean Member How Do You Identify?: ---- Preferred Pronoun?: ---- Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: ----- Posts: 1,143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,417 Thanked 2,215 Times in 771 Posts Rep Power: 17690475	Eric Clapton once said, "I wish I could love my wife as unconditionally as I love my children." That quote amazed me. Don't love with conditions.

03-22-2013, 01:13 PM	#8
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Don't forget your own worth!