Crumbs in the butter and other Pet Peeves! - Page 19

Sparkles · 02-26-2013, 06:49 PM

Admin-

I read back over my post and don't see any difference from other posts in this very thread. Quite frankly, I'm one of several individuals in the thread who identified grammatical errors as so called "pet peeves." I'm taken aback at the insinuation that my post is bullying or poking. As far as I know in my brief time as a member here, well-intentioned, innocuous kidding is an integral part of communication within any community.

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Originally Posted by Admin

Sparkles -

Please refer to the section of our TOS where we discuss intolerance and specifically bullying and poking at other members.

For the record, I also reviewed the rep note that you left for another member here and want to make it super clear to you that you are about to find yourself on a lengthy time-out if you continue to use the forums here to play "mean girl" or "unnamed target".

While it's fine for you to be irritated that people are not posting, spelling, or using grammar the way you want them to, it is NOT OK to use this forum in a way that might make other people feel ashamed or ugly about participating here.

This is a diverse community. People sometimes misspell things. People sometimes use sentence structure creatively. People sometimes use a bunch of ellipses......................
Hell, some of us can barely read or write but that doesn't mean we are not worthy of each other's basic respect. Bottom line? Please think about how what you post might feel to someone else before you post it. And if you are doing that shit on purpose? It's shitty.

Appreciate your cooperation!

Admin

Admin · 02-26-2013, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Sparkles

Admin-

I read back over my post and don't see any difference from other posts in this very thread. Quite frankly, I'm one of several individuals in the thread who identified grammatical errors as so called "pet peeves." I'm taken aback at the insinuation that my post is bullying or poking. As far as I know in my brief time as a member here, well-intentioned, innocuous kidding is an integral part of communication within any community.

Sparkles-

My moderation is not up for discussion and I do not appreciate you acting as if you don't know EXACTLY who and what you were making fun of.

There is not a fucking thing that is "well intentioned" about copying a member's font and posting style, making a shitty, mocking post about it even if couched in self-riteous "helpfulness", and then repping another member as a "high five" about who it might affect.

That shit? It's mean-spirited as fuck and exactly the kind of high-school bullshit that we do. not. want. on this site.

You can have a 1-week time-out to mull it over.

Thanks,
Admin/Medusa

Fatale · 02-26-2013, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by joyfulfemme

FFFFFF

oh how ive misted you ~s

i caint think of a single thing you do that would leave me peevish ~bats lashes

Aww, joy, you always charm me. Thank you. ~ lashing bats...

Wrang1er · 02-26-2013, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by joyfulfemme

FFFFFF

oh how ive misted you ~s

i caint think of a single thing you do that would leave me peevish ~bats lashes

Why joy....I do believe you are being sarcastic. Bless your heart. *fans self*

joyfulfemme · 02-27-2013, 11:23 AM

ssshhh Pierre.....youre givin away my secrets ~s

TheMerryFairy · 02-27-2013, 12:08 PM

Making tea and realizing somebody put a carton in the fridge that has 3 drops of milk left in it.

TheMerryFairy · 02-27-2013, 01:43 PM

Smudgey, greasy fingerprints all over the screen that are beyond avoidance of notice when the sun hits the tv.

TheMerryFairy · 03-02-2013, 02:49 AM

Slurping through straws just to be a pain in the arse. I don't think I've ever done this and if I do then it's fair game to be tickled.

macele · 03-03-2013, 11:39 AM

remarks made about online relationships, groups, ect., ... not being reality. it is for me. it's not face to face. but it is reality. i'm the same person online as i am in person. i don't tell everything about myself. i believe in privacy. but this is reality. it is real.

KCBUTCH · 03-03-2013, 12:08 PM

I really dont like it when people move things and dont tell me, since my memory is very object orientated If its not where I remember it I may never find it

TheMerryFairy · 03-03-2013, 03:23 PM

Dirty dishes stacked in the sink and leaving multiple cupboard doors open for hours until somebody else closes them. It irks me.

Ginger · 03-03-2013, 03:33 PM

Some fonts are hard for me to read, and it really gets my annoyed. It helps to be able to enlarge the font on a computer screen, especially if there are no paragraph breaks and it's one big chunk that my little brain can't hold all at once, so I pause, think, then lose my place when I go back.

TheMerryFairy · 03-04-2013, 03:48 PM

Going into a bathroom and seeing that the toilet paper roll hasn't been replaced.

girl_dee · 04-08-2013, 08:47 PM

People leaving their trash in the grocery carts...

TheMerryFairy · 04-08-2013, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

People leaving their trash in the grocery carts...

That irks me too! Also people leaving half filled carts abandoned in the store. I can understand if you have a child tantrum to deal with but other than that, at least put things back!

Rockinonahigh · 04-08-2013, 09:05 PM

On of my pet peeves is the garbage/trash pileing up,I have beed places in public or private that the trash has pilled up then stinks to high heaven..even buggy.Yuck,don't people care about the health and safty issues from such a mess.

TheMerryFairy · 04-09-2013, 11:28 AM

Mostly empty plastic bottles/cans left out on the counter!

If you are done with it, either put it back in the fridge or rince them out and put them into the recycling bin!

cinnamongrrl · 04-09-2013, 01:06 PM

Litterers....now that the snow has melted I see where our roadways are just swimming in trash....I dreamed I was out there cleaning an especially nasty place.
So I think I will pick up a nearby area that is truly an eyesore...and also the gateway to a public drinking supply...

TheMerryFairy · 04-09-2013, 01:40 PM

People who stand in lines trying to decide what they want. I understand it can be a big decision and it can take some time. I am pretty laid back.

After 10 minutes and you still can't decide between iceberg and romaine lettuce? Skip it or toss a coin?

*Apologizes for subway rant* I am not feeling well and I always manage to get stuck behind someone this indecisive when I am sick.

Sweet Bliss · 04-09-2013, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

Some fonts are hard for me to read, and it really gets my annoyed. It helps to be able to enlarge the font on a computer screen, especially if there are no paragraph breaks and it's one big chunk that my little brain can't hold all at once, so I pause, think, then lose my place when I go back.

Me too.

If sentences run on and on, I have to just pass them up. Seems to be a computer thing mostly. Maybe it's the backlight? I like using little dots....helps me gather my thoughts... and it tickles me that it creates such a stir! Who knew??! I like the pregnant pauses....... lol

03-03-2013, 12:08 PM	#370
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03-03-2013, 03:33 PM	#372
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Some fonts are hard for me to read, and it really gets my annoyed. It helps to be able to enlarge the font on a computer screen, especially if there are no paragraph breaks and it's one big chunk that my little brain can't hold all at once, so I pause, think, then lose my place when I go back. __________________ Reach out.

02-27-2013, 11:23 AM	#365
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02-27-2013, 01:43 PM	#367
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Smudgey, greasy fingerprints all over the screen that are beyond avoidance of notice when the sun hits the tv.

03-02-2013, 02:49 AM	#368
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Slurping through straws just to be a pain in the arse. I don't think I've ever done this and if I do then it's fair game to be tickled.

03-03-2013, 11:39 AM	#369
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,231 Times in 847 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	remarks made about online relationships, groups, ect., ... not being reality. it is for me. it's not face to face. but it is reality. i'm the same person online as i am in person. i don't tell everything about myself. i believe in privacy. but this is reality. it is real.

03-03-2013, 03:23 PM	#371
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Dirty dishes stacked in the sink and leaving multiple cupboard doors open for hours until somebody else closes them. It irks me.

03-04-2013, 03:48 PM	#373
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Going into a bathroom and seeing that the toilet paper roll hasn't been replaced.

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04-09-2013, 11:28 AM	#377
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Mostly empty plastic bottles/cans left out on the counter! If you are done with it, either put it back in the fridge or rince them out and put them into the recycling bin!

04-09-2013, 01:06 PM	#378
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04-09-2013, 01:40 PM	#379
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	People who stand in lines trying to decide what they want. I understand it can be a big decision and it can take some time. I am pretty laid back. After 10 minutes and you still can't decide between iceberg and romaine lettuce? Skip it or toss a coin? Apologizes for subway rant I am not feeling well and I always manage to get stuck behind someone this indecisive when I am sick.