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Old 04-04-2010, 11:01 AM   #1
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I am very sorry to hear this Dapper. All my best wishes to you and your family.
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Old 04-04-2010, 11:08 AM   #2
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Hey A... so sorry to hear this. I knew things were bad but I'm shocked to hear how fast things progressed... my heart goes out to you and your family big time my friend.

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Losing a parent can be such a shock, the more so if he was always very healthy. Please try to take good care of yourself right now, okay?
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Old 04-04-2010, 11:27 AM   #4
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My condolences to you and your family, Dapper. I just went through a similar experience. We took my step dad of 49 years off of life support at 6pm on Monday 3/29 and he passed away in little over 6 and 1/2 hours, at 12:45am. I was just glad that it was fast, and he didn't appear to suffer at all during the process.

I know how fast ones health can decline, and I totally feel for you.

Be sure to take care of yourself through all of this!!!!

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Old 04-04-2010, 11:38 AM   #5
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My condolences to you and your family, Dapper. I just went through a similar experience. We took my step dad of 49 years off of life support at 6pm on Monday 3/29 and he passed away in little over 6 and 1/2 hours, at 12:45am. I was just glad that it was fast, and he didn't appear to suffer at all during the process.

I know how fast ones health can decline, and I totally feel for you.

Be sure to take care of yourself through all of this!!!!

I am so very sorry for your recent loss, as well. I hope those 6.5 hours weren't too difficult. My father lasted only 28 minutes, and I found that to be a blessing.
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Old 04-04-2010, 12:52 PM   #6
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We are so sorry Dapper, our prayers go out to you and your Mom.
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I'm really sorry Dapper.
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My deepest condolances Dapper.
My heart goes out to you and your family.... your Mom.
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Dapper,

I am so very sorry to learn of this news. I am lifting all of your family up in prayer. I am glad you are there for your Mom.

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Thanks so much to everyone who has responded with support on this thread and through reps.

The toughest will be for my mom who has been with him since she was 15 years old. 52 years together and 45 years of marriage (she waited until he went through the Navy and college before marrying). They did everything together (except golf!), so this will be tough for her. Fortunately she is close to one of her neighbors and is connected to her church, as well, so that will be helpful.

My mom was the traditional homemaker who has never even paid a bill before, so there will be some new things that she will need to learn. I guess they figured that there was time for him to show her how he handled their finances because they were both so healthy.

I am glad that I live close by so I can help her with all of this stuff. She is a smart woman, so she should be ok. She is just scared since she went from living with her mother to marrying my father; she has never lived alone.

Thanks again, friends.
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