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04-04-2010, 01:03 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that things went this way for your dad, you and your family. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
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04-04-2010, 01:57 PM
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Dear Dapper....
I'm holding You and Your family in my heart during this sad time. So very sorry to learn of this. ~Diva |
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04-04-2010, 03:03 PM
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Dear Dapper,
You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. This will be a hard adjustment for all of you. And, grief takes as long as it takes. May you find some peace in good memories. Love, Tamara |
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04-04-2010, 03:22 PM
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I'm so sorry, Dapper. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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04-04-2010, 04:47 PM
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Dapper my condolances. I will hold you, your mom and your family in my thoughts. I have never met you in real time but based on what I see in here and having some sense of "Dapper Butch" I would say your parents are good people, if you are any indication. Again, my condolances.
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04-04-2010, 04:53 PM
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Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time and wishing you comfort throughout your sadness.
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04-04-2010, 04:54 PM
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I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Words are inadequate at such a time, so I will simply say that you (and your family) are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending warm, healing thoughts... May you feel his love and spirit around you always. S. |
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04-04-2010, 04:55 PM
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it's heartbreaking to read of your unexpected and life-changing loss...I can only add my wishes for a gathering of those you hold dear to help you and yours navigate these times...
please accept my condolences and all the best wishes for strength and grace... Nina |
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04-04-2010, 04:55 PM
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Dapper,
I am so very sorry to hear of your father's passing. You and your family will remain in my thoughts. |
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04-04-2010, 05:02 PM
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I am sorry for your loss Dapper. May you and your family find the strength and comfort you need to get you through this difficult time.
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04-04-2010, 05:04 PM
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its so difficult to let go of a parent, especially in such a sudden unexpected way. There was no time to really grieve. When someone dies, we strive to make sense when really, no sense could be made of it. Death just is its own reason. So we humans, with out infinite ability to communicate and use language, are also limited by them. No words could possibly reach inside you and make that ache any less...grieving is such a solitary experience...you do it alone, even when you have family and friends and online communities to help you through it.
but, even tho we lack the ability to remove the ache, we stand beside you, if not in real life, then in spirity. I am so sorry for your loss and for the very hard decisions you needed to make. I will lift up the prayers tonight for you and your father and your family... blessed be, my on line friend...
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04-04-2010, 05:14 PM
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My condolences to you and your family for your loss.
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04-04-2010, 05:33 PM
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Dapper..
I know how you feel. I lost My Dad to cancer 3 years ago. I will keep you and your family in My thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Know that your Dad is resting peacefully now. As Always, Jake |
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