My Dad

Soft*Silver · 04-04-2010, 05:04 PM

its so difficult to let go of a parent, especially in such a sudden unexpected way. There was no time to really grieve. When someone dies, we strive to make sense when really, no sense could be made of it. Death just is its own reason. So we humans, with out infinite ability to communicate and use language, are also limited by them. No words could possibly reach inside you and make that ache any less...grieving is such a solitary experience...you do it alone, even when you have family and friends and online communities to help you through it.

but, even tho we lack the ability to remove the ache, we stand beside you, if not in real life, then in spirity. I am so sorry for your loss and for the very hard decisions you needed to make. I will lift up the prayers tonight for you and your father and your family...

blessed be, my on line friend...

always2late · 04-04-2010, 05:14 PM

My condolences to you and your family for your loss.

JakeTulane · 04-04-2010, 05:33 PM

Dapper..

I know how you feel. I lost My Dad to cancer 3 years ago. I will keep you and your family in My thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Know that your Dad is resting peacefully now.

As Always,
Jake

04-04-2010, 05:04 PM	#1
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,894 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	its so difficult to let go of a parent, especially in such a sudden unexpected way. There was no time to really grieve. When someone dies, we strive to make sense when really, no sense could be made of it. Death just is its own reason. So we humans, with out infinite ability to communicate and use language, are also limited by them. No words could possibly reach inside you and make that ache any less...grieving is such a solitary experience...you do it alone, even when you have family and friends and online communities to help you through it. but, even tho we lack the ability to remove the ache, we stand beside you, if not in real life, then in spirity. I am so sorry for your loss and for the very hard decisions you needed to make. I will lift up the prayers tonight for you and your father and your family... blessed be, my on line friend... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

04-04-2010, 05:14 PM	#2
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	My condolences to you and your family for your loss. __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

04-04-2010, 05:33 PM	#3
JakeTulane Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Mr. Prickly Porcupine Preferred Pronoun?: Butch - Hy, Hym, Hys Relationship Status: She has softened My quills Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Permanently Banned 8/8/2011 Posts: 4,880 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,221 Thanked 5,264 Times in 2,732 Posts Rep Power: 0	Dapper.. I know how you feel. I lost My Dad to cancer 3 years ago. I will keep you and your family in My thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Know that your Dad is resting peacefully now. As Always, Jake