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Old 04-29-2013, 09:56 PM   #1
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Missy has my Netflix password. shhhh.
I do share that Date night wouldn't be the same if I didn't.
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I'm ok with sitting on the tub for that one!


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I just saw an article today about this very issue. The consensus seemed to be: Don't, especially if you are in a new relationship or dating casually. Married couples, maybe and it depends on what it is. It speaks of a "hierarchy", such as Netflix on the very bottom, then Facebook, email, all the way up to financial accounts.

As for me, I can see doing this if coupled and using a joint bank account for household expenses. But that's about it. If asked, I would not give, and I wouldn't want my partner to give me hers.
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Wait, if the sharing of a Netflix password involves hierarchy, does my sharing that account with my sweetie imply she's the boss of me or that I'm the boss of her?
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Wait, if the sharing of a Netflix password involves hierarchy, does my sharing that account with my sweetie imply she's the boss of me or that I'm the boss of her?
I think Krull is the boss of you both :P
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Ha! Poor Krull is bossed by the cat. So I guess Oz is our boss.
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