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Phobia: Cats - I've gotten better about it as I've gotten older [it used to be full on frozen fear and anxiety ridden] but I still cringe for the most part when one comes near me.
Fears: I'm afraid of the dark. I always have been and I probably always will be. And any kind of rodent. Including ferrets. I'm dying just thinking about them!
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I'm not particuarly fond of heights and especially not fond of the fall.
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I normal don't talk about my fears but I have one its spiders and when I see one I usually don't say anything I just kill it.
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Caterpillars. I am not afraid of bugs in general at ALL, just caterpillars. I had a very traumatizing childhood incident when I was about three.
My Dad decided it would be a good idea to burn down all the tent caterpillars out of the tree in the front yard. (He's not too bright sometimes.) Result being--a literal carpet of both burned and alive caterpillars all over the front lawn. My three yeard old oblivious self ran outside to play the next day. With bare feet. Standing in inches of squishy caterpillars and alive ones that were crawling up my legs. I was fucking paralyzed and SCREAMING my head off. I will NEVER forget it. If I so much as SEE a caterpillar. OMG. It's not pretty. |
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I don't LIKE spiders, and they scare me ( especially the big meaty Dock Spiders that live near the lake/water) but I don't have an unreasonable fear of them.
I feel stage fright just prior to public speaking, but it quickly goes away as I 'get into' it. Worst of all is being in small, cramped spaces. I watched the Descent and could barely stand watching them crawl through those caves and passages. Yikes! 
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Mice and heights both make me freak out. I figure I was supposed to be 10 foot off the ground I wouldnt be only 5"4. And mice are sooooo nasty.
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Omgosh I'm afraid of everything! The short list:
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tick-tock
Good grief, I posted in this thread four (yes 4) years ago! I also see a post from one of our dear ones who has left this world we currently inhabit.
 Which brings me to a fairly new fear....running out of time. Watching my aging parents slip into ill health, my teen really start to mature into her own person, the city growing by leaps and bounds, meeting personal goals and making new ones. All these reminders of tick-tock. Fear of running out of time to do everything I wish to do, travel to all the places I want to see, all the museums, art, concerts, classes. Never enough time. I've never made a bucket list because there was always time...or not. I also need to add another new-ish fear. Fear of losing faith. Faith in the goodness of humanity. Faith in my own humanity. Fear of losing that connectedness now that groceries and entertainment and social interaction are just a click away and I don't have to "deal with people." Fear I'll stop wanting to be kind (takes effort after all) or will become more impatient because now if I can't "click" and get "to the door delivery" in under two hours then....deep exasperated sigh. I'm afraid all this "screen life" will screen me *from* life. No smiling at a little kid who looks afraid in a crowd, or clapping for the other team even though mine didn't win, or bending down on the MARTA to tie a heavily pregnant woman's shoelace, or just a quick smile or joke with a stranger. I'm afraid of becoming jaded and losing faith in, well, all of us. But especially myself. Katniss~~(also add afraid I am waaay overthinking these threads) |
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I hate heavy winds...anything over 15 miles scares the crap out of me.
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It's not a real phobia but I feel uncomfortable when it's dark in the street and someone is walking behind me; had a bad experience in a similar situation years ago.
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Stay in the light
I still fear the dark.
Well,not the night it self but what may lurk in it. 
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