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I served in the Army |
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24 | 46.15% |
I served in the Navy |
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5 | 9.62% |
I served in the Air Force |
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7 | 13.46% |
I served in the Coast Guard |
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1 | 1.92% |
I'm a United States Marine |
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5 | 9.62% |
I served in the Army Nat'l Guard |
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2 | 3.85% |
I served in the Air National Guard |
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1 | 1.92% |
I served in a Reserve Component (please specify) |
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3 | 5.77% |
I served in the Armed Forces of another country |
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4 | 7.69% |
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Rachel Maddow has done several segments about the backlog. She has been on this for a long time. She helped first bring attention to this mess. I filed in Mar 2011, heard from them around Nov, sent in what they wanted, got another letter in about a month, sent more papers and then they disappeared. The Oakland VA Regional Office is rumored to be one of the worst in the country. I talked to them (in person) several times and each time they gave me the wrong information. I hate those people....lol I let it go as I was on serious opiate pain meds waiting on a hip replacement and did not have the brains, energy or desire to follow up. Besides the longer they take the fatter my check will be.....<g>....claims are retroactive to date filed. fast forward to end of april 2013 and I get 2 letters in 3 days.....one saying my case was transferred (NE) and the other with dates for medical evaluation (shrink and physical--shrink is done (yesterday) and physical is the 29th). MY paperwork is all computerized at this point. Truth is I'm not sure what is actually in there as I don't trust the Oakland folks. From what the doctor told me, his shrink report and the physical report is critical... We shall see what they will do............hopefully I will just get the (deserved) 100% service connection and be done with it. But I should have an answer in 2-3 weeks and if I don't like it, then the appeal process begins.
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Good news, but we still have a ways to go on this:
Same-Sex Partners Of US Troops To Receive Military Benefits In September Paul Szoldra, provided by Published 4:15 pm, Friday, June 7, 2013 Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/technology/bus...#ixzz2Vdg0sKZp Same-sex domestic partners of military servicemembers will soon be issued government-issued identification cards entitling them to a number of benefits, Washington Times reports. An internal personnel notice posted to the web Thursday states the military's commitment to upgrade their systems "so that eligible SSDPs and their families can begin receiving benefits/ID cards" beginning on Sept. 1. From The Times: The ID card Web notice refers to same-sex domestic partners as “SSDPs.” The benefits include education, survivor, commissary, travel, counseling and transportation, but not what some consider the armed forces’ premium perks — health care and housing allowances. The move comes after former Defense Secretary Leon Panetta announced he would lift the ban on same-sex partners receiving benefits days before he left office in February, CNN reports. “These benefits shall be extended to the same-sex domestic partners and, where applicable, children of same-sex domestic partners, once the service member and their same-sex domestic partner have signed a declaration attesting to the existence of their committed relationship,” Panetta said in a statement at the time. In order to receive the benefits, most couples need to sign a "declaration of domestic partnership," which states: “We are each other’s sole domestic partner, in a committed relationship, and intend to remain so indefinitely.” The Pentagon told Times reporters they estimate there are about 17,000 same-sex couples on active duty, reserve, or retired. Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/technology/bus...#ixzz2VdftshbM ~Theo~ ![]() |
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This past year, the VA installed safety "grab bars" in my bathroom, for the commode, and they would have done the shower, too, if I'd have asked them. I have a step-in shower, however, so that wasn't necessary right now. I have prosthetic knees, so the installation of the grab bar in the commode room really helps. All I had to do was ask and it was done!!! Don't be shy about asking for this kind of help, Vets, because VA care is about helping us Veterans to have a safe, decent life. It is our *earned* benefit. Yes, some things might be only available to Vets with 100% ratings, or "unemployability" status, but it's been my observation that a lot of things go on a case-by-case basis, depending on the situation. Always ask!!! If you are unclear about who to ask, you can always contact a Veterans Benefits officer (1-800-827-1000, nationwide number) or get in contact with a Patient Advocate at your local VA. Semper Fi, ~Theo~ ![]() |
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On another note.......
This in today's news: http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013...in-combat?lite Personally, I knew of/served with a handful of Women Marines who, IMHO, could have held their own in combat. One friend of mine used to work down at the base Motor Pool and she could carry a bus tire under each arm. She was tough as nails, strong as an ox and meaner than a snake, too!!! I think she could have made the grade, though I also knew some who wouldn't have been able to hack it. What say you all?? Opinions??? Semper Fi, ~Theo~ ![]() |
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"For years, women in the military, and outside groups such as the American Civil Liberties Union, have argued that women already serve on the front lines but are not recognized for it. Women constitute 15 percent of the active-duty military." It is about time. I have come to realize through many Toughy posts, indeed it is the military that has lead the way for many advances in equality.
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You know, it is easy to get nostalgic over the romantic notion of high speed - low drag infantry but hey....y'all remember doing this? That was me......."I can't see, I can't see" and bouncing off a tree.
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Those were the days! We laughed we cried, then threw up... Good times. Thankfully over.
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