Rings

[Beloved]

Well I am divorced. Twice. Yeah, not so proud of that. Anyway....

The first time I got married I was young, 22. He gave me a diamond engagement ring that wasn't really my style. But our wedding rings were his paternal grandparents rings and that meant a lot to me because I absolutely adored his grandmother. The marriage ended because he became a heroin addict and would not get treatment. I was really in love with him and often wonder if it would have worked out if he didn't become an addict. I had gotten back in touch with him a few months ago. He has been clean for only 2 years. He was a heroin addict for a good 15 years and I am shocked he is still alive.

The second time, I didn't really want to get married. My parents were very upset that I was going to have a child out of wedlock so we just had a civil ceremony in our dining room with a justice of the peace. We had plain gold bands but I really never wore mine. This marriage shouldn't have ever happened and I should not have succumbed to my parents pressure and desire for approval.

I would like to get married again someday. I believe in commitment.

My favorite style of ring is filigree. It can be new or antique. In the future that is what I would really want.

This isn't filigree but still gorgeous...from brillianearth.com

http://www.brilliantearth.com/Adorne...tting_tab=true

[ZoeyJayne]

So Alicia and I have been discussing the ring thing for a while now.. Neither one of us is butch, and how I am definately the girly girl in the relationship. We were discussing the in's and out's of who should get who what... we have decided we will both get engagement rings... However I get the pretty sparkly one and she just wants a simple sparkly band with our names on it...

psst we went into a jewelry store yesterday and she showed me what she was thinking of getting for me .... *jumps up and down all excited* Its beautiful and its gonna have a green diamond *shreeeekkksss*