Have You Found Your Soul Mate?

Butterbean · 04-09-2010, 04:32 AM

I have two soulmates. One has been for 20 years and, another, for nearly 16 years.

I can't imagine life without ever having met either one.

Legendryder · 04-09-2010, 05:14 AM

Yes I have. His name is Bob.

Ms. Tabitha · 04-09-2010, 07:40 AM

To me a "soul mate" means that you feel you are connected so deep inside you wouldn't be complete without him or her.
It means that everyday you love them more than you did the day before.
It means that you both know without a doubt that you would be there for each other, through anything.
It means they can read your heart from a mile away.
It means they know what your thinking before you say it.
It means there is a unique and special connection that makes you want to be a better person.
It means you give unselfishly of yourselfs to each other.
There is an unspoken bond, a trust that is beyond measure and a friendship that is stronger than time and a love that reaches the depths of your soul.
There is a connection between your mind, soul and heart that words cannot express.

SO, the answer to the question is...... YES!!!

Disclaimer: THIS will occur when you know (not finish) who you are.

Ldyluck88 · 04-09-2010, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Ms. Tabitha

To me a "soul mate" means that you feel you are connected so deep inside you wouldn't be complete without him or her.
It means that everyday you love them more than you did the day before.
It means that you both know without a doubt that you would be there for each other, through anything.
It means they can read your heart from a mile away.
It means they know what your thinking before you say it.
It means there is a unique and special connection that makes you want to be a better person.
It means you give unselfishly of yourselfs to each other.
There is an unspoken bond, a trust that is beyond measure and a friendship that is stronger than time and a love that reaches the depths of your soul.
There is a connection between your mind, soul and heart that words cannot express.

SO, the answer to the question is...... YES!!!

Disclaimer: THIS will occur when you know (not finish) who you are.

What Tabitha said

imperfect_cupcake · 04-09-2010, 01:10 PM

yeah. but I think one soul mate per user is a complete fallacy. Also that your soul mates are only lovers.

one of my soul mates was my half brother. another was my cat boots. Another is my best mate kerri. and another was my ex james.And I've got another one now, that I'm marrying.

I like your definition though, it fits many people and not just one.

MsTinkerbelly · 04-09-2010, 01:45 PM

Yes, without a doubt.

AtLast · 04-09-2010, 02:09 PM

I have been fortunate enough to have met two soul-mates and hope to meet another. This refers to romantic relationships. Soul-mate just isn't singular to me. Nor is it only cast in romantic relationships. My closest and oldest friend is my soul-mate, too.

Soft*Silver · 04-09-2010, 04:41 PM

yes...soul mates can indeed be friends instead of lovers. For the first brother we started out as friends and went to become lovers. And we could not sustain it. I was younger and not as evolved in my understandings of pathways. Later, when I met brother number two, we started out lovers and became friends. I was older and wiser of pathways. Each took their turn to teach me and help me evolve, as I did with them. One I scorched. The other I provide warmth.

I have also met an incredible Light Being in a dog. He had such an affect on people that everyone who met him (and I mean everybody!) said that he changed their life somehow. He was one of my adopted newfs and had such a Presence that you Knew he was far more than a dog, and yet simply a dog. His name was Joey and yet we all called him my Buddha dog.

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome

I have been fortunate enough to have met two soul-mates and hope to meet another. This refers to romantic relationships. Soul-mate just isn't singular to me. Nor is it only cast in romantic relationships. My closest and oldest friend is my soul-mate, too.

AtLast · 04-09-2010, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by softness

yes...soul mates can indeed be friends instead of lovers. For the first brother we started out as friends and went to become lovers. And we could not sustain it. I was younger and not as evolved in my understandings of pathways. Later, when I met brother number two, we started out lovers and became friends. I was older and wiser of pathways. Each took their turn to teach me and help me evolve, as I did with them. One I scorched. The other I provide warmth.

I have also met an incredible Light Being in a dog. He had such an affect on people that everyone who met him (and I mean everybody!) said that he changed their life somehow. He was one of my adopted newfs and had such a Presence that you Knew he was far more than a dog, and yet simply a dog. His name was Joey and yet we all called him my Buddha dog.

YES! I had a boxer that I know was once a Buddhist monk... no doubt in my mind. And he was a true dog ambassador. People that really didn't care for dogs fell in love with him.

I am a romantic in many ways, but, soul-mate just isn't about relationships for me. Its about the varied people in my life that have made a difference in it on many levels. Sure, it can be a partner, but, not necessarily.

Yes, there is light in some beings that just does not shine the same for all.

04-09-2010, 04:32 AM	#1
Butterbean Member How Do You Identify?: ---- Preferred Pronoun?: ---- Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: ----- Posts: 1,143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,417 Thanked 2,215 Times in 771 Posts Rep Power: 17690475	I have two soulmates. One has been for 20 years and, another, for nearly 16 years. I can't imagine life without ever having met either one.

04-09-2010, 05:14 AM	#2
Legendryder Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Queen City, MO Posts: 420 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 969 Times in 261 Posts Rep Power: 7270131	Yes I have. His name is Bob.

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Ms. Tabitha Member How Do You Identify?: Hey Lady Preferred Pronoun?: Female Relationship Status: Married ~ 4-1-13 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 1,440 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 980 Thanked 3,581 Times in 1,040 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	To me a "soul mate" means that you feel you are connected so deep inside you wouldn't be complete without him or her. It means that everyday you love them more than you did the day before. It means that you both know without a doubt that you would be there for each other, through anything. It means they can read your heart from a mile away. It means they know what your thinking before you say it. It means there is a unique and special connection that makes you want to be a better person. It means you give unselfishly of yourselfs to each other. There is an unspoken bond, a trust that is beyond measure and a friendship that is stronger than time and a love that reaches the depths of your soul. There is a connection between your mind, soul and heart that words cannot express. SO, the answer to the question is...... YES!!! Disclaimer: THIS will occur when you know (not finish) who you* are.*

04-09-2010, 01:10 PM	#5
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	yeah. but I think one soul mate per user is a complete fallacy. Also that your soul mates are only lovers. one of my soul mates was my half brother. another was my cat boots. Another is my best mate kerri. and another was my ex james.And I've got another one now, that I'm marrying. I like your definition though, it fits many people and not just one.

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04-09-2010, 02:09 PM	#7
AtLast Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Woman Preferred Pronoun?: HER - SHE Relationship Status: Relating Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CA & AZ I'm a Snowbird Posts: 5,408 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,826 Thanked 10,827 Times in 3,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I have been fortunate enough to have met two soul-mates and hope to meet another. This refers to romantic relationships. Soul-mate just isn't singular to me. Nor is it only cast in romantic relationships. My closest and oldest friend is my soul-mate, too.