How have you met the people you've been involved with romantically or sexually?

QueenofSmirks · 07-20-2013, 10:17 AM

I just realized the last three- I met each of them at a queer community dinner/brunch/lunch. Prior to that, it was often through friends, though, like many others, I met some online and eventually progressed to real time.

*Anya* · 07-20-2013, 10:38 AM

I met her on a well-known, legitimate dating site.

I was only dating people that were local and ones I could first meet for coffee.

With her, I skipped my coffee first "rule" and met for dinner. (First dates, I would always meet them rather than have them pick me up in their car).

It just was serendipitous that we clicked on our first date.

Novelafemme · 07-20-2013, 10:53 AM

1. We met at a well known guitar shop in Rochester, NY. He was a bass player in a rock band.

2. He was one of my best friends for eleven years and we worked together. He was a big factor in my decision to leave my then husband.

3. A queer website. She also lived in my hometown.

4. The Apple store here in Tucson.

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Novelafemme Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ........ Posts: 2,402 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,981 Thanked 8,925 Times in 1,834 Posts Rep Power: 0	1. We met at a well known guitar shop in Rochester, NY. He was a bass player in a rock band. 2. He was one of my best friends for eleven years and we worked together. He was a big factor in my decision to leave my then husband. 3. A queer website. She also lived in my hometown. 4. The Apple store here in Tucson.