What have you learned? - Page 10

Glenn · 05-23-2013, 10:21 PM

I have learned that Primal Therapy is beneficial for expressing and releasing emotional frustrations, rather than repressing them, and doing or saying certain things to people you may later regret. For example: Since I live alone in a wooded area with alot of animals, I growl, bark, groan, snort, hiss, hoot, whisle, screech, squeak, cluck, click, coo, caw, crawl, walk on all fours, etc. Tonight, it was very windy, and I put on an overcoat with long sleeves, and ran around in the woods flapping my arms like a bird, making bird sounds. I had alot on my mind, but before long, I started laughing at myself, and the way my cats were watching, and it felt great. I do this therapy mainly at night, before dawn, or when no one's around lol.

Tuff Stuff · 06-03-2013, 08:28 PM

I've learned not to be judgmental about people.You know,shoot first

and ask questions later.I treat everyone with the same respect i'm given but my kindness is NOT my weakness as some so unfortunately find out.As i have grown older and 'evolved' i finally got it that my mouth can be my worse enemy and that if i can keep it shut for the first 5 minutes in any conversation then more the better.I'm talking about relating better with people and it has helped me tremendously not only in my personal life but in the workforce.I still talk a mile a minute(i mean talk not type) the only difference these days is that i'm also listening.

Artzy76 · 08-26-2013, 08:35 AM

I have learned that the the hokey pokey was a fun game as a child that was teaching us something much more profound that we realized...
As an adult I must say I have learned to ...
SHAKE IT OUT...
Do the Hokey pokey and turn your self around .. and THAT'S WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT....

At any moment in your life you get to reflect and get the choice to change things around be it positive or negative it is a choice!

Am doing the hokey pokey these days... turning things around... and I get to have fun while embracing these changes! YAY!

Ginger · 08-26-2013, 09:47 AM

I've learned, or admitted recently, that I'm a terrible judge of character.

kittygrrl · 01-07-2014, 04:06 PM

I've learned, I'm not perfect and it's ok

MysticOceansFL · 01-09-2014, 05:26 AM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

I've learned, I'm not perfect and it's ok

I've learned many things through the years, No one is perfect and that's ok, and that you have to look with both eyes opened and not with your eyes covered while peeking through the cracks of your fingers.

Bad_boi · 01-09-2014, 04:49 PM

People on the "good" side of things are still capable of being full of bitterness, ignorance and hate.

Extremists exist on both sides of every issue.

If anything Bigotry is the true enemy. Ignorance can be fought with education and kindness. Fighting fire with fire just makes things worse.

SirenManda · 07-17-2014, 02:18 PM

I've learned professionally everyone isn't what they seem. The same people who have a stern face and put on that mask of no emotions also have deep feelings and can be easily connected with if you try hard enough.

Also learned people aren't meant to live forever, and those who pass teach us something we wouldn't have learned without their absence. Losing my father to cancer was the most monumental change in my life, but I wouldn't be where I am if it didn't change me.

stormprincess · 09-25-2014, 09:12 PM

I have learned patience with people I used to have a low tolerance for.
I have learned tolerance for myself.
i have learned to take care of me, and stop sacrificing my needs to make everyone else happy.
i have learned that family isnt always blood related..

JDeere · 09-25-2014, 10:39 PM

I have learned that.... I need to have more patience
I have learned that.... I need to take care of myself, for a change
I have learned that... I can manage my own money

starryeyes · 09-25-2014, 11:10 PM

Live in the moment
The past is gone and the future is not here
Don't have expectations
The only thing I can depend on are my dogs and,
In the end, It's only me, myself and I.

stormprincess · 09-28-2014, 02:04 PM

I have learned that zebra stripes maybe not be a zebra
I have learned that you should learn before you trust.

stormprincess · 10-01-2014, 12:37 PM

I have learned who my friends are this few weeks.
I have learned how to let go of what is negative to my soul.

stormprincess · 10-01-2014, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Ginger

I've learned, or admitted recently, that I'm a terrible judge of character.

Sometimes its not you who is a bad judge of character, more that it is those who hide in sheeps clothing ...

Kenna · 10-04-2014, 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

This can be anything...that's changed your mind, your routine, your ethics,..everything here is worthy of listening to, so don't be shy

Thanks

Thank you kittygrrl.
Under "Life, Thinking Harder, What have I learned"....

After reading a really good book to help me with my Advocacy work ...Learning, understanding and becoming aware of the following information has helped me change my routine, empowered me in several ways and enhanced my "red flag radar" ....
(I'm sorry for the photo of the guy, I couldn't find another image that worked)

cinnamongrrl · 10-04-2014, 06:21 AM

I've learned that things (and people) aren't always what they seem...

Words are just words until they're backed up with action

Your time is often the greatest gift you can ever give

Blade · 10-04-2014, 08:46 PM

I've learned that friendship is precious, and you can't share it with just anyone.

I've learned that it's easy for me to give respect, and just as easy for me to take it back

I've learned that helping others as I was taught to do from childhood, is most rewarding, even more rewarding is I was taught to give without expecting or asking for anything in return

I've learned that if you don't ever expect anything out of someone, they will never disappoint you.

I've learned that there are many things in life that make me happy. Most are the very most simple things in life.

firegal · 10-04-2014, 10:57 PM

Reminded about life..... My mother and her dementia ... She would NEVER increase her abilities... Now 10 yrs later fresh diagnosis ..... We need to not try correct him'

firegal · 10-04-2014, 10:58 PM

Ten yes later my father has dementia issues!

firegal · 10-04-2014, 10:59 PM

I,m trying to keep up with the changes

08-26-2013, 08:35 AM	#183
Artzy76 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: The Girlie kinds :) Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: California Posts: 46 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 237 Thanked 227 Times in 42 Posts Rep Power: 2426740	Silly but true ... at least for me... I have learned that the the hokey pokey was a fun game as a child that was teaching us something much more profound that we realized... As an adult I must say I have learned to ... SHAKE IT OUT... Do the Hokey pokey and turn your self around .. and THAT'S WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT.... At any moment in your life you get to reflect and get the choice to change things around be it positive or negative it is a choice! Am doing the hokey pokey these days... turning things around... and I get to have fun while embracing these changes! YAY!

08-26-2013, 09:47 AM	#184
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I've learned, or admitted recently, that I'm a terrible judge of character. __________________ Reach out.

01-07-2014, 04:06 PM	#185
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,675 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,710 Thanked 22,140 Times in 7,211 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	I've learned, I'm not perfect and it's ok __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

09-25-2014, 09:12 PM	#189
stormprincess Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: In Paradise Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 444 Thanked 236 Times in 52 Posts Rep Power: 3663314	I have learned patience with people I used to have a low tolerance for. I have learned tolerance for myself. i have learned to take care of me, and stop sacrificing my needs to make everyone else happy. i have learned that family isnt always blood related.. __________________ The day is what you make of it. Be happy... Life is to short to stare at your shadow.

09-25-2014, 10:39 PM	#190
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	I have learned that.... I need to have more patience I have learned that.... I need to take care of myself, for a change I have learned that... I can manage my own money __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

05-23-2013, 10:21 PM	#181
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old thing Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,602 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I have learned that Primal Therapy is beneficial for expressing and releasing emotional frustrations, rather than repressing them, and doing or saying certain things to people you may later regret. For example: Since I live alone in a wooded area with alot of animals, I growl, bark, groan, snort, hiss, hoot, whisle, screech, squeak, cluck, click, coo, caw, crawl, walk on all fours, etc. Tonight, it was very windy, and I put on an overcoat with long sleeves, and ran around in the woods flapping my arms like a bird, making bird sounds. I had alot on my mind, but before long, I started laughing at myself, and the way my cats were watching, and it felt great. I do this therapy mainly at night, before dawn, or when no one's around lol.

06-03-2013, 08:28 PM	#182
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	I've learned not to be judgmental about people.You know,shoot first and ask questions later.I treat everyone with the same respect i'm given but my kindness is NOT my weakness as some so unfortunately find out.As i have grown older and 'evolved' i finally got it that my mouth can be my worse enemy and that if i can keep it shut for the first 5 minutes in any conversation then more the better.I'm talking about relating better with people and it has helped me tremendously not only in my personal life but in the workforce.I still talk a mile a minute(i mean talk not type) the only difference these days is that i'm also listening.

01-09-2014, 04:49 PM	#187
Bad_boi Member How Do You Identify?: Transman (male) Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His ect. Relationship Status: Handsome bastard. Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: May 2010 Location: Seattle Posts: 727 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 122 Thanked 1,824 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 0	People on the "good" side of things are still capable of being full of bitterness, ignorance and hate. Extremists exist on both sides of every issue. If anything Bigotry is the true enemy. Ignorance can be fought with education and kindness. Fighting fire with fire just makes things worse.

07-17-2014, 02:18 PM	#188
SirenManda Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: . Posts: 257 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 162 Thanked 959 Times in 232 Posts Rep Power: 6492221	I've learned professionally everyone isn't what they seem. The same people who have a stern face and put on that mask of no emotions also have deep feelings and can be easily connected with if you try hard enough. Also learned people aren't meant to live forever, and those who pass teach us something we wouldn't have learned without their absence. Losing my father to cancer was the most monumental change in my life, but I wouldn't be where I am if it didn't change me.

09-25-2014, 11:10 PM	#191
starryeyes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?: Guess... Relationship Status: Seat taken Join Date: May 2011 Location: Rocky Mountain High Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,199 Thanked 10,049 Times in 2,075 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Live in the moment The past is gone and the future is not here Don't have expectations The only thing I can depend on are my dogs and, In the end, It's only me, myself and I. __________________ "It's ok to make mistakes. It's ok to fall down. Get up! Look sickening....and make them eat it!" - Latrice Royale Starry

09-28-2014, 02:04 PM	#192
stormprincess Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: In Paradise Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 444 Thanked 236 Times in 52 Posts Rep Power: 3663314	I have learned that zebra stripes maybe not be a zebra I have learned that you should learn before you trust. __________________ The day is what you make of it. Be happy... Life is to short to stare at your shadow.

10-01-2014, 12:37 PM	#193
stormprincess Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: In Paradise Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 444 Thanked 236 Times in 52 Posts Rep Power: 3663314	I have learned who my friends are this few weeks. I have learned how to let go of what is negative to my soul. __________________ The day is what you make of it. Be happy... Life is to short to stare at your shadow.

10-04-2014, 06:21 AM	#196
cinnamongrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?: wild woman Relationship Status: No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time… Posts: 7,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,247 Thanked 27,604 Times in 6,959 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I've learned that things (and people) aren't always what they seem... Words are just words until they're backed up with action Your time is often the greatest gift you can ever give __________________

10-04-2014, 08:46 PM	#197
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,412 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I've learned that friendship is precious, and you can't share it with just anyone. I've learned that it's easy for me to give respect, and just as easy for me to take it back I've learned that helping others as I was taught to do from childhood, is most rewarding, even more rewarding is I was taught to give without expecting or asking for anything in return I've learned that if you don't ever expect anything out of someone, they will never disappoint you. I've learned that there are many things in life that make me happy. Most are the very most simple things in life. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

10-04-2014, 10:57 PM	#198
firegal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Don't let the gal part of my screen name fool ya I,m ALL butch! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Tacoma,Washington Posts: 2,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,853 Thanked 11,703 Times in 2,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	. Reminded about life..... My mother and her dementia ... She would NEVER increase her abilities... Now 10 yrs later fresh diagnosis ..... We need to not try correct him'

10-04-2014, 10:58 PM	#199
firegal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Don't let the gal part of my screen name fool ya I,m ALL butch! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Tacoma,Washington Posts: 2,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,853 Thanked 11,703 Times in 2,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	.. Ten yes later my father has dementia issues!

10-04-2014, 10:59 PM	#200
firegal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Don't let the gal part of my screen name fool ya I,m ALL butch! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Tacoma,Washington Posts: 2,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,853 Thanked 11,703 Times in 2,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	.. I,m trying to keep up with the changes