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I agree with dee..
Sometimes I think we.. generally... spend too much time being what is polite and lady like and yes, proper that we.. again generally hide the sexual side of ourselves.. too much. To protect the privacy of the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or ![]()
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I get that, though with me it's not for lady like reasons.
![]() I just though it was a given that when people find each other hot there are plenty of ways to have fun that do not trounce on each other's boundaries.
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I find this thread refreshing actually.
In my experience, I have found many butches do not enjoy this as part of the intamcy they are comfortable with. I find it an honor if I am with a butch who will allow me to express love/lust/energy etc. this way. It is also very erotic and exilerating to me to be able to explore my partner and see how excited I can get them . When I am not restricted in this area. I can only speak for myself but I love to explore all areas of pleasure when it comes to pleasing a partner. If they allow that is. But I have also realized that fewer butches seem to explore this option. And again, in my own experience..It is usually the old school butches. This does not apply to everyone I know. I am one who usually does not speak out on intimate topics. But this one has crossedmy mind as well here and there. Abother piece of thought; For butches who have had issues allowing such because of masculine reasons..I have found that if this is done is such a way ..as to use it as an extension on a masculine level, then they also can enjoy it when normally it wouldn't be permitted. I hope I wrote that correct...ha
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Speaking a little more plainly, one could say, treat your butch's clit like a cock and Bob's yer uncle! Or rather Bob is yer very happy Butchy! ![]() |
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Ahhh yep, suck on mine and I"m all yours...melt in your mouth and all smiles !
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This is an interesting thread, I've often thought I am a rare breed..I am not fond of labels and yet I've embraced a few...I'm an Old School Lesbian butch who is also cock id'd. In getting to know someone, the usual questions are asked and when delving into the relationship territory you explore the likes and dislikes of each other.
I am a woman and in being so I embrace all of who I am, this is often met with surprise, because it seems that there are alot of "butches" who don't at which I myself am surprised, but respect everyone's choice. I love when a woman embraces the totality of me, my mind, my heart and my body. I'm a lesbian and I enjoy the feel of a woman, and I love how she touches me and makes me feel. We naturally all have our preferences and I am no different I certainly prefer a woman's hand caressing me. So, as we each share the same world but travel different paths, let's not only explore to understand but accept the differences in each of us. |
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Having a butch pussy myself, I sure miss a femme's love making. argggggh.
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I've only been with one male id-ed butch but we only had sex a few times and it was so long ago that I can't really say how different it was from my other butch partners/lovers.
I must say I miss the smell and taste of a lover's cunt.
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I am still laughing over the idea that we are rare, like unicorns.
I don't think we are that rare. Are we? ![]()
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Thank you all for your responses.
I, personally, have found it difficult to find a femme willing to participate in this type of pleasuring of me sexually. I don't know how rare it is, I just know that those particular women just weren't interested. Needless to say, I stopped seeing them. So, me, I sorta feel like I'm a dying breed of butch, lmao. I've been out a long long time and it's taken much tenderness and love from good women to help me come out of my shell over the years and actually enjoy this part of myself. After a long hard look back, I no longer want to give up this part of my sexual likings. It's ok for others to do what they do, but I don't want to ever partner up again with a femme that isn't into butch pussy. Call me stingy, a pervert, whatever, but I Like what I like. LOL I am enjoying everyone's responses and thank you for keeping the thread going, I was quite afraid to talk about this in an open forum for fear of being chastized about it. I thought that by now someone else would have brought this up in a discussion, but I"m glad I did now. It's all good. No longer afraidy cat. lol ![]()
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