Lesbian Femmes & Lesbian Butch Pussy - WOMEN ONLY

Nat · 08-30-2013, 01:01 PM

I've known quite a few butches who've professed they weren't real into giving a girl head - this isn't a one-way gender deal. And some of us femmes enjoy the femme cock experience too...

TruTexan · 08-30-2013, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

I've known quite a few butches who've professed they weren't real into giving a girl head - this isn't a one-way gender deal. And some of us femmes enjoy the femme cock experience too...

Word...........

I ain't skeered.........lol I'll give a femme head all da time!! just sayin.

Words · 08-30-2013, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

I've known quite a few butches who've professed they weren't real into giving a girl head - this isn't a one-way gender deal. And some of us femmes enjoy the femme cock experience too...

Not sure if this is what you meant or not - it probably isn't - but when it comes to oral, I definitely relate to my clit as a cock (albeit a tiny one). I used to fight it, but hey, life is way too short for self censorship, especially when it comes to sex.

Words

TruTexan · 08-30-2013, 01:24 PM

Call your own body parts whatever you wish and whatever makes you feel comfy in your own skin. There are no rules for calling it what you wish to.
I'm just glad people are coming in to talk about it. Infact, I"m ecstatic !!
YAY !!!!!
I think I broke the silence barrier or a taboo or something *EG* in starting this forum thread.

Apocalipstic · 08-30-2013, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Words

Not sure if this is what you meant or not - it probably isn't - but when it comes to oral, I definitely relate to my clit as a cock (albeit a tiny one). I used to fight it, but hey, life is way too short for self censorship, especially when it comes to sex.

Words

Yeah, me too! Totally!

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

Call your own body parts whatever you wish and whatever makes you feel comfy in your own skin. There are no rules for calling it what you wish to.
I'm just glad people are coming in to talk about it. Infact, I"m ecstatic !!
YAY !!!!!
I think I broke the silence barrier or a taboo or something *EG* in starting this forum thread.

There is actually a Femme Cock thread. One of my favs.

Dykea · 08-30-2013, 01:45 PM

I don't think there should be any HUGE expectations on whether a butchy gives head or even straps.

OR the reverse....

That a femme doesn't want to give head or strap.

The ENTIRE POINT of lesbians is that two women are getting off and enjoying themselves!!! It's two women who figure out what works for THEM!! Hetero "rules" are for the heteros and so sad to bad... that ain't me.

Now having said ALL that and refocus on the good stuff...
The inside of a butchy thigh makes me believe in whatever gawd is on the mantel.

CherryWine · 02-11-2015, 02:45 PM

I love this thread. I will say that in my personal experience, it has never taken from partner's masculine energy nor from my feminine energy when she allows me to indulge in every bit of her body. In all honesty, sometimes it seems to intensify it.

Oh, and.....

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Originally Posted by Dykea

The inside of a butchy thigh makes me believe in whatever gawd is on the mantel.

TruTexan · 02-11-2015, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by CherryWine

I love this thread. I will say that in my personal experience, it has never taken from partner's masculine energy nor from my feminine energy when she allows me to indulge in every bit of her body. In all honesty, sometimes it seems to intensify it.

Oh, and.....

Cherry, I would happen to agree with your post. It doesn't take away from my female masculinity or my energy or my partner's feminine energy at the time , when we indulge in every bit of one another's bodies. It does actually intensify mine for sure.

flapdoodle · 02-11-2015, 11:24 PM

Fabulous topic indeed.

I am not with the majority here, but, that matters not.

Those I'm attracted to and those I attract dig the fact that I do not "return" certain sexual favors. This does not mean I don't satisfy my partner, because, I do.

All too often they did not combust from what I was doing to them, but rather from things they were doing to me.

I have never just climbed into bed with a butch and made assumptions. Since I wait a significant amount of time before givin it up, I have ample opportunity to discuss, get to know...the desires of the butch I am with. I made darn sure of it. I too needed to be heard. A sexual need or kink expressed to me that is not something I am into, means, to me, we are not compatible, Period. I will not even go there, why bother? ...and yes, to me it really is that cut and dry.

Many i have dated expressed an interest in things such as BDSM. I am not interested in that. As much as I may have liked them, hot or not, it was Good-bye. I don't stick around thinking MY pussy will somehow change them into liking what I do or no longer liking or needing what they do with my wicked "pussy power" That's a game I never played.

I think problems occur when people don't take the time to discuss sex before hand, also, many want a relationship that makes them feel happy and are willing to do anything to have that "happy" feeling. I am not one of them.

I married a butch who does not desire what I do, and, I respect that. If she was to change her mind down the road and wanted me to explore her in ways I never have, again, a conversation would take place.

In the past, when asked if I would do this or that, I never thought of it as making a butch any less masculine, not at all. Simply personal preference.

I do not care what my wife or anyone else calls their genitals....again, to me, not an indication of butch or masculine or not, it's just a word, it's all just words.

So, I do not go digging for gold in my butches body parts...I let the gold flow downwards, but, I'm right there to catch it.

Thanks Tru, awesome thread!!!!!

Ascot · 02-12-2015, 08:51 AM

I totally get off on tasting myself in my lover's kiss.

Apocalipstic · 08-30-2013, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

I've known quite a few butches who've professed they weren't real into giving a girl head - this isn't a one-way gender deal. And some of us femmes enjoy the femme cock experience too...

Yes on both counts!

As long as everyone involved is comfortable, I'm so not into pushing anyone else's boundaries because I don't like mine pushed.

08-30-2013, 01:01 PM	#1
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Dykea Junior Member How Do You Identify?: I wear garters under my Carhartts Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single as fuck Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: usa Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 74 Thanked 204 Times in 26 Posts Rep Power: 2254146	Here's my "thing"... I don't think there should be any HUGE expectations on whether a butchy gives head or even straps. OR the reverse.... That a femme doesn't want to give head or strap. The ENTIRE POINT of lesbians is that two women are getting off and enjoying themselves!!! It's two women who figure out what works for THEM!! Hetero "rules" are for the heteros and so sad to bad... that ain't me. Now having said ALL that and refocus on the good stuff... The inside of a butchy thigh makes me believe in whatever gawd is on the mantel. __________________ "I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim." ~~ Frida Kahlo

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