Where are all the lesbian femmes that love us lesbian butches ???

GeeGina · 09-12-2013, 10:30 AM

I'm a femme who prefers to partner with butch to sportier women...and the bottom line is that if I'm naked and she's naked, we're having sex. Not lesbian sex. Not butch/femme sex. Just sex.

The reason I feel that way is because "branding it" somehow makes the sex we're enjoying different or that it needs qualifying in some way. Like when I dated an Italian butch - I didn't think of our lovemaking as "Italian/American Butch on German/Sicilian/American Femme Lesbian Sex" (with olive oil and garlic...haha). It was just really great, fun sex.

We may all identify differently - femme, butch, stone butch, etc - but when we're humping and bumping...it's sex that we're having.

What an interesting discussion! Thanks Tru for bringing this up...

TruTexan · 09-14-2013, 06:42 PM

I"m not accustomed to saying I have lesbian sex, but I've seen it referred to online as having lesbian sex. I get where the posts are coming from when it comes to having sex though. When I"m partnered I"m just making love, that's what I actually say in real time. Personally, I could care less what any calls it. I just know that I am a giver and receiver when it comes to having sex. Thanks for the posts, keep them coming, and thanks for the reps.Also, I hope ya'll are enjoying the thread.

LexiLove · 10-21-2013, 07:15 AM

Ah butches. Swwooooon.

I used to "date" femmes similar to myself and although many femmes are so deliciously beautiful and sexy, I couldn't get my head around the similar perfume smells, the sharing of makeup/clothes, etc. I get weak in the knees around women that are masculine centered.

A nice pair of jeans
A button down shirt
The smell of axe (preferably mixed with cigarette smoke)
A strong, tough personality

Ugh, my girlfriend is all of these things and so much more. I cannot get enough of her. I tell her all the time that eventually I will not have a bottom lip because even after two years together, one glance from her can make me bite it.

Heavenleahangel · 10-21-2013, 08:06 AM

***Waves hello to everyone***
I'm a femme and I adore the look/smell/feel/touch of having a good butch by my side. I miss the companionship, sharing everyday lives, meals, etc together. I dream of the day I am in the life-long relationship where we have someone to come home to and I have someone I can spoil. That's what I do best...

TruTexan · 10-21-2013, 08:18 AM

I think when we're not partnered, we do tend to miss things about them that would attract us or things that we would be involved doing together. I miss the little things like the smell of her, her perfume, her bed head in the morning, eating lunch together on off days, having dinner together in the evenings, and I miss the sexiness a femme has along with all that.

Heavenleahangel · 10-21-2013, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

I think when we're not partnered, we do tend to miss things about them that would attract us or things that we would be involved doing together. I miss the little things like the smell of her, her perfume, her bed head in the morning, eating lunch together on off days, having dinner together in the evenings, and I miss the sexiness a femme has along with all that.

I agree! I am the type that enjoys having dinner ready when my partner comes in, cuddling in bed together, even the little things like grocery shopping and planning treats for no reason at all! <sigh>

LexiLove · 10-21-2013, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Heavenleahangel

I agree! I am the type that enjoys having dinner ready when my partner comes in, cuddling in bed together, even the little things like grocery shopping and planning treats for no reason at all! <sigh>

Agree to both of your posts.

09-12-2013, 10:30 AM	#1
GeeGina Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, but flexible. Preferred Pronoun?: Miss Relationship Status: Single. Looking. Available. Open. Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 111 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10 Thanked 410 Times in 76 Posts Rep Power: 4115106	It's just sex... I'm a femme who prefers to partner with butch to sportier women...and the bottom line is that if I'm naked and she's naked, we're having sex. Not lesbian sex. Not butch/femme sex. Just sex. The reason I feel that way is because "branding it" somehow makes the sex we're enjoying different or that it needs qualifying in some way. Like when I dated an Italian butch - I didn't think of our lovemaking as "Italian/American Butch on German/Sicilian/American Femme Lesbian Sex" (with olive oil and garlic...haha). It was just really great, fun sex. We may all identify differently - femme, butch, stone butch, etc - but when we're humping and bumping...it's sex that we're having. What an interesting discussion! Thanks Tru for bringing this up...

09-14-2013, 06:42 PM	#2
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I"m not accustomed to saying I have lesbian sex, but I've seen it referred to online as having lesbian sex. I get where the posts are coming from when it comes to having sex though. When I"m partnered I"m just making love, that's what I actually say in real time. Personally, I could care less what any calls it. I just know that I am a giver and receiver when it comes to having sex. Thanks for the posts, keep them coming, and thanks for the reps.Also, I hope ya'll are enjoying the thread. __________________

10-21-2013, 08:06 AM	#4
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	*Waves hello to everyone* I'm a femme and I adore the look/smell/feel/touch of having a good butch by my side. I miss the companionship, sharing everyday lives, meals, etc together. I dream of the day I am in the life-long relationship where we have someone to come home to and I have someone I can spoil. That's what I do best... __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

10-21-2013, 08:18 AM	#5
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I think when we're not partnered, we do tend to miss things about them that would attract us or things that we would be involved doing together. I miss the little things like the smell of her, her perfume, her bed head in the morning, eating lunch together on off days, having dinner together in the evenings, and I miss the sexiness a femme has along with all that. __________________

10-21-2013, 07:15 AM	#3
LexiLove Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce.Lesbian.Femme.Dyke. Preferred Pronoun?: She.Her.Sweetums. Relationship Status: I have her...hoping to keep her Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: NY for now Posts: 53 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 135 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 950353	Ah butches. Swwooooon. I used to "date" femmes similar to myself and although many femmes are so deliciously beautiful and sexy, I couldn't get my head around the similar perfume smells, the sharing of makeup/clothes, etc. I get weak in the knees around women that are masculine centered. A nice pair of jeans A button down shirt The smell of axe (preferably mixed with cigarette smoke) A strong, tough personality Ugh, my girlfriend is all of these things and so much more. I cannot get enough of her. I tell her all the time that eventually I will not have a bottom lip because even after two years together, one glance from her can make me bite it.