Instant Turn-Ons

Girl_On_Fire · 10-05-2013, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

I've thought about something regarding this thread and it may only be my perception or the fact that we are all individuals with different tastes or that the question is being answered as I also interpreted it but I just don't have that particular 'on' button orrrr I could just really be missing the mark on this totally, but (for me) some of the posts are more along the lines of what turns you on, as in a general way, and that's great. Turn ons are certainly better than turn offs. Maybe I just experience an instant turn on differently than others.

What I gathered from Girl_On_Fire's orginal post was that she wanted to know what flips the switch and/or what changes the script in an instant. See original post below:

That word 'instant' makes all the difference to me. For me, it is not the 'oh, that's nice' or 'I could feel desire or attraction for this person if they did/said/were/knew this'.

For me, it's the eye-widening, breath catching, tummy tightening moment that says I DESIRE YOU whereas in the previous moment there weren't sexual thoughts or undertones at all. Whether right or wrong, whether in a public or private environment, whether expected or unexpected. It's just suddenly there, where it was not immediately before, like a flame in the dark.

I don't know. Late night/early morning pontification and rambling, I guess.

Yes, this is pretty much what I meant. Instant. As in, I'm thinking about bagels right now to "Oh my God, take me now." It's okay though. We can expand.

Gemme · 10-05-2013, 11:38 AM

You never know. A good bagel can take you places.

Dude · 10-05-2013, 01:28 PM

Brains
A Good winker ; /
Good mothers

Warm eyes
Humor
Big Love of animals

NorCalStud · 10-05-2013, 02:28 PM

watching her tight ass slip out the front door wrapped in a long fleece horse print blanket with an unlit cigarette between her painted, small, polished, fingers.

I mean GOOD GAWD

SleepyButch · 10-05-2013, 02:35 PM

A moan from her sexy lips! I mean holy hell!!

Guy · 10-06-2013, 08:30 PM

A sexy naked woman with a mouth full of of poprocks!!!! Best BJ I've ever had!!!

Lazy Daze · 10-07-2013, 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Guy

A sexy naked woman with a mouth full of of poprocks!!!! Best BJ I've ever had!!!

**shakes my grape pop rocks**

Sweet Bliss · 10-05-2013, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Girl_On_Fire

Yes, this is pretty much what I meant. Instant. As in, I'm thinking about bagels right now to "Oh my God, take me now." It's okay though. We can expand.

Well guess I didn't understand the question, again, lol.

Only happened that way two times in my life so far. Other wise, takes me a while to feel comfortable.

Having the brain bathed in "take me now " sounds accurate. Makes no logical sense otherwise. Kind of like a roller coaster with no brakes.

puddin' · 10-06-2013, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss

Having the brain bathed in "take me now " sounds accurate. Makes no logical sense otherwise. Kind of like a roller coaster with no brakes.

da point is it makes no logical sense. lol. and it's exactly like a roller coaster outta control...

whale · 10-06-2013, 04:27 PM

Chubby cheeks, short skirts, athletic wear, dresses, boobs.. I'm at the stage right now that if I see a woman I'm instantly attracted, so I don't have a type ATM.

Girl_On_Fire · 10-06-2013, 04:59 PM

The sound of a low, rumbling growl. One I can feel right in my heart chakra. Oh, yes please!

Smiling · 10-06-2013, 05:29 PM

It goes hand-in-hand with self-confidence; it's a certain way of being comfortable in one's own skin. A sense of humor that just comes naturally; not having to force it or embellish it in any way. Not being in a hurry; though not slothful or lazy either.

I'm not sure I can explain it; but when I recognize it in others, I respond to it in very positive ways.

Gemme · 10-06-2013, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Girl_On_Fire

The sound of a low, rumbling growl. One I can feel right in my heart chakra. Oh, yes please!

Yes, yes. This.

Although I tend to feel it directly a little lower than there.

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whale Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Genderqueer Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: Getting Over Someone Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: NY Posts: 5 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 17 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 0	Chubby cheeks, short skirts, athletic wear, dresses, boobs.. I'm at the stage right now that if I see a woman I'm instantly attracted, so I don't have a type ATM.