The Booty Call.

GeeGina · 10-20-2013, 11:22 AM

Thanks everyone for the feedback and advice...

What I didn't mention in my original post was that she and I...well, we have a history. I was more emotionally attached than she was during our time together and was burned by some callous actions...and yet I returned to the scene of the crime (haha). That complicates what should simply be a good time and 99% of why I was feeling the guilt previously.

Today, I'm so not feeling the guilt at all. Exactly the opposite - I'd forgotten what a proper slut I can be when so inspired. So, here's to more "nice person horny sex"...(a term I LOVE)

As for the trip home, I took the subway. A nice post-coital walk on a cool fall morning while sipping a strong coffee rounded things out well. She had me, but she's not keeping me.

Ginger · 10-20-2013, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by GeeGina

Thanks everyone for the feedback and advice...

What I didn't mention in my original post was that she and I...well, we have a history. I was more emotionally attached than she was during our time together and was burned by some callous actions...and yet I returned to the scene of the crime (haha). That complicates what should simply be a good time and 99% of why I was feeling the guilt previously.

Today, I'm so not feeling the guilt at all. Exactly the opposite - I'd forgotten what a proper slut I can be when so inspired. So, here's to more "nice person horny sex"...(a term I LOVE)

As for the trip home, I took the subway. A nice post-coital walk on a cool fall morning while sipping a strong coffee rounded things out well. She had me, but she's not keeping me.

Yeah I guess she had you. But it also sounds like you had her. And if the mood strikes, you could have her again. Enjoy.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-20-2013, 08:18 PM

that's a nice way of putting it!

Medusa · 10-20-2013, 09:53 PM

Consensual booty calls are awesome.

I kinda love it when adults fuck like adults!

always2late · 10-20-2013, 11:47 PM

GeeGina, I agree with some of the other posters, you've nothing to feel guilty about. The only problem with booty calls is when one of the participants anticipates an emotional connection from a physical act, or when one participant is misled, or under a mistaken impression about what the call means. But, from your description, you've got that part licked (no pun intended

). And I hear you about feeling empowered...it can be VERY empowering to fulfill a need, act on your desire, take what you want from an encounter and leave it at that.

Mel C. · 10-21-2013, 12:27 AM

Power to the booty call. As long as consenting adults are honest about their intentions, what is there to feel bad about? No harm, no foul.

macele · 10-21-2013, 06:53 AM

this thing called booty call, ... i can't. i get so easily attached. i take just as much mental as i do physical. more so mental.

10-20-2013, 11:22 AM	#1
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always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	GeeGina, I agree with some of the other posters, you've nothing to feel guilty about. The only problem with booty calls is when one of the participants anticipates an emotional connection from a physical act, or when one participant is misled, or under a mistaken impression about what the call means. But, from your description, you've got that part licked (no pun intended ). And I hear you about feeling empowered...it can be VERY empowering to fulfill a need, act on your desire, take what you want from an encounter and leave it at that. __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

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