Femmes Who Strap <3

puddin' · 11-14-2013, 09:32 PM

2 o' da greatest sex partners i've had were femmes who adored to strap it on. i have no issue givin' it up. it was hawt, hawt, hawt i say. i think it was mo' enjoyable to feel them feel their own power than to feel it bein' thrust in. (but lawd, that was hawt, too!)

Miss_J · 11-19-2013, 03:16 PM

For me it has always been about the energy created with a lover. If I'm there and open to exploring with you than why not do what makes us both have an incredible experience. I enjoy it and have truly been very excited by it with a couple of partners but its not something I miss if its not there.

There was a point in my life where I would'nt have even considered it because I felt that it would make me seem less femme. I was young and inexperienced with a very small world of comparison. I am damn happy I did not remain so narrow in my views or was unwilling to explore, as I am much more confidant in me now.

Thank you to all for sharing!

Licious · 11-28-2013, 03:26 PM

I've never really wanted to do it. I do not say ew. I say, femmes strapping is hot! And I'm enjoying reading the posts. The femme spectrum is a wonderful and varied thing!

Asari · 11-29-2013, 03:04 PM

I'd like to try it out, but there is no one willing to volunteer.

fatallyblonde · 01-02-2014, 06:22 PM

I have tried it... I hate it... and... I am TERRIBLE at it!!!!

Ms. Meander · 01-02-2014, 08:10 PM

Historically, strapping on has never been my thing. But I am an evolving creature and the idea is growing in me with more and more allure. Change is coming!

Thanks for the thread, Nat!

LaneyDoll · 01-03-2014, 11:53 PM

I don't, never had the interest in doing so. Which is a good thing since the post surgical and very extreme sensitivity of scar tissue in the area would make it impossible. I have nothing against anyone who does it is just not something I ever wanted to do.

thedreamerin · 03-05-2015, 02:30 PM

I'm an old soul, don't I know it? The new things are a bit awkward for me at first. However, if I am paired with someone that has the patience and willingness to take on the challenge of my sexual naiveté, well I think we could have a ton of fun. It's about trust. I've never been strapped or given it... My first response to the initial question was "me? Strap? HELL NO" and not because it is in any way disgusting it is just, hmm, I think I would need to understand the body of my lover more to be comfortable enough to wield a device and offer pleasure.
There is a popular trend these days where women are looking for women who are experienced, and can 'throw down' so to speak. That is all good I am sure, but the reality is that not everyone is at that champion gold metal level yet. That doesn't mean that the sex can't be good or even fantastic. I think it's just seldom is anyone willing to take the time to 'become' the better lover...
Now I have ranted, my apologies!
All of that wording and I just wanted to say this. I am shy of trying the strap as a femme, but if she wanted it, and was willing to have some patience with me, I'd give it a try.

TruTexan · 03-05-2015, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by thedreamerin

I'm an old soul, don't I know it? The new things are a bit awkward for me at first. However, if I am paired with someone that has the patience and willingness to take on the challenge of my sexual naiveté, well I think we could have a ton of fun. It's about trust. I've never been strapped or given it... My first response to the initial question was "me? Strap? HELL NO" and not because it is in any way disgusting it is just, hmm, I think I would need to understand the body of my lover more to be comfortable enough to wield a device and offer pleasure.
There is a popular trend these days where women are looking for women who are experienced, and can 'throw down' so to speak. That is all good I am sure, but the reality is that not everyone is at that champion gold metal level yet. That doesn't mean that the sex can't be good or even fantastic. I think it's just seldom is anyone willing to take the time to 'become' the better lover...
Now I have ranted, my apologies!
All of that wording and I just wanted to say this. I am shy of trying the strap as a femme, but if she wanted it, and was willing to have some patience with me, I'd give it a try.

I gotta love your attitude ! You go girl! Enjoyed reading your post. Woot ! Woot ! Woot!

Angeltoes · 12-01-2015, 08:31 PM

This is a good thread.

I can't imagine myself strapping. I'm not against the idea, but I'm pretty sure I have no skills...lol.

bright_arrow · 03-05-2015, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by thedreamerin

I'm an old soul, don't I know it? The new things are a bit awkward for me at first. However, if I am paired with someone that has the patience and willingness to take on the challenge of my sexual naiveté, well I think we could have a ton of fun. It's about trust. I've never been strapped or given it... My first response to the initial question was "me? Strap? HELL NO" and not because it is in any way disgusting it is just, hmm, I think I would need to understand the body of my lover more to be comfortable enough to wield a device and offer pleasure.
There is a popular trend these days where women are looking for women who are experienced, and can 'throw down' so to speak. That is all good I am sure, but the reality is that not everyone is at that champion gold metal level yet. That doesn't mean that the sex can't be good or even fantastic. I think it's just seldom is anyone willing to take the time to 'become' the better lover...
Now I have ranted, my apologies!
All of that wording and I just wanted to say this. I am shy of trying the strap as a femme, but if she wanted it, and was willing to have some patience with me, I'd give it a try.

Trying it on by one's self is entirely different from wearing one with/for a lover, just a small thing to remind yourself when you're standing in front of a mirror thinking how foolish you find yourself looking (these may have been my first thoughts). Patience and the ability to laugh during sex I find are also very important. Don't be afraid to speak up and say "I/We need to do this to make it better/more enjoyable/etc." Chances are your partner will go right along. Is it sex after all, and who doesn't want to enjoy it?

thedreamerin · 03-07-2015, 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bright_arrow

Trying it on by one's self is entirely different from wearing one with/for a lover, just a small thing to remind yourself when you're standing in front of a mirror thinking how foolish you find yourself looking (these may have been my first thoughts). Patience and the ability to laugh during sex I find are also very important. Don't be afraid to speak up and say "I/We need to do this to make it better/more enjoyable/etc." Chances are your partner will go right along. Is it sex after all, and who doesn't want to enjoy it?

You are exactly right. I will keep that in mind.

Terrifina · 01-09-2014, 04:07 PM

I love a strap on either way it's pointing.... <sigh> LOL

swampberry · 01-31-2014, 08:49 AM

I think that one of the most attractive things in the universe is someone that is comfortable and open in their sexuality. I present a unique dichotomy; I look one way (embracing and loving that) while feeling another way internally and that shows up in my sexuality. Strapping feels completely natural to me and most of my partners, no matter how they define themselves, end up wanting that from me. They have told me it is the energy I exude when I am strapped that makes it so appealing to them and honestly, I do feel like I am in a position of power which is the opposite from my daily interactions. Whether you strap or not should not define your femininity, just like it doesn't prove your masculinity. Balance is vital in every situation and being fluid will result in amazing encounters.

1TruFemme · 02-01-2014, 08:16 AM

I admit I have tried it because I wanted to please the butch I was with but I was terrible at it. And all I could think was it's going in the wrong direction.

ProfPacker · 03-04-2014, 11:42 PM

I went through a time when my packer was tucked away. For some reason, I am feeling the need to wear it as much as I can. Just saying that I am loving my cock and its strap.

vagina · 04-07-2014, 10:09 AM

I had a Butch ask me to strap it on for her and I got so giddy and excited.

I am still waiting to try it out. Someday, hopefully. I am pretty sure that I will suck at strapping someone down, but hey.. it takes practice and patience.

WickedFemme · 08-02-2014, 05:28 PM

yes, yes, and yes!
I enjoy getting my femme c--- sucked by a willing boi or girl.
and.. I enjoy f---ing very much.
I recall years and years ago always receiving... then finally someone i was with wanted to be fisted.. yay for me! yeah, I strap.. however, i'm not going to refer to it as pegging... lol... but to each their own.

ProfPacker · 08-02-2014, 05:47 PM

I have strapped as a femme and now the switch as butch, but however I id strapping and femme cock is wonderful

Nat · 09-05-2014, 03:13 PM

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View Poll Results: Femme cock poll - I'm a femme and I:
Love to strap and find it vital to my sex life.	16	10.88%
Enjoy strapping and am happy when/if I get to.	30	20.41%
Tried strapping and hated it and/or didn't like it.	18	12.24%
Have never tried it, but would like to.	21	14.29%
Never ever ever want to strap.	62	42.18%
Voters: 147. You may not vote on this poll

11-14-2013, 09:32 PM	#1
puddin' Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: a genderqueer nuisance Preferred Pronoun?: bitchboi Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: new zealand Posts: 7,120 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,467 Thanked 7,962 Times in 2,340 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	2 o' da greatest sex partners i've had were femmes who adored to strap it on. i have no issue givin' it up. it was hawt, hawt, hawt i say. i think it was mo' enjoyable to feel them feel their own power than to feel it bein' thrust in. (but lawd, that was hawt, too!) __________________ be true, be you, be brave.

11-19-2013, 03:16 PM	#2
Miss_J Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: ? Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 508 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,415 Thanked 1,558 Times in 324 Posts Rep Power: 10308963	For me it has always been about the energy created with a lover. If I'm there and open to exploring with you than why not do what makes us both have an incredible experience. I enjoy it and have truly been very excited by it with a couple of partners but its not something I miss if its not there. There was a point in my life where I would'nt have even considered it because I felt that it would make me seem less femme. I was young and inexperienced with a very small world of comparison. I am damn happy I did not remain so narrow in my views or was unwilling to explore, as I am much more confidant in me now. Thank you to all for sharing! __________________

11-28-2013, 03:26 PM	#3
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,971 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I've never really wanted to do it. I do not say ew. I say, femmes strapping is hot! And I'm enjoying reading the posts. The femme spectrum is a wonderful and varied thing! __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

11-29-2013, 03:04 PM	#4
Asari Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: female ones Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: Germany Posts: 146 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 563 Thanked 274 Times in 90 Posts Rep Power: 4780808	I'd like to try it out, but there is no one willing to volunteer. __________________ “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's needs, but not every man's greed.” Mahatma Gandhi

01-02-2014, 06:22 PM	#5
fatallyblonde Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: earth Posts: 446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 389 Thanked 770 Times in 181 Posts Rep Power: 7054721	I have tried it... I hate it... and... I am TERRIBLE at it!!!!

01-02-2014, 08:10 PM	#6
Ms. Meander Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Relationship Status: Ethical Nonmonogamist Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Mountains Posts: 1,520 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,706 Thanked 5,211 Times in 1,147 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Historically, strapping on has never been my thing. But I am an evolving creature and the idea is growing in me with more and more allure. Change is coming! Thanks for the thread, Nat! __________________ My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart. - Maya Angelou

01-03-2014, 11:53 PM	#7
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,683 Times in 1,607 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I don't, never had the interest in doing so. Which is a good thing since the post surgical and very extreme sensitivity of scar tissue in the area would make it impossible. I have nothing against anyone who does it is just not something I ever wanted to do. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

03-05-2015, 02:30 PM	#8
thedreamerin Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, or miss Relationship Status: single Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: Texas Posts: 20 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 95 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 1073754	Here is the thing I'm an old soul, don't I know it? The new things are a bit awkward for me at first. However, if I am paired with someone that has the patience and willingness to take on the challenge of my sexual naiveté, well I think we could have a ton of fun. It's about trust. I've never been strapped or given it... My first response to the initial question was "me? Strap? HELL NO" and not because it is in any way disgusting it is just, hmm, I think I would need to understand the body of my lover more to be comfortable enough to wield a device and offer pleasure. There is a popular trend these days where women are looking for women who are experienced, and can 'throw down' so to speak. That is all good I am sure, but the reality is that not everyone is at that champion gold metal level yet. That doesn't mean that the sex can't be good or even fantastic. I think it's just seldom is anyone willing to take the time to 'become' the better lover... Now I have ranted, my apologies! All of that wording and I just wanted to say this. I am shy of trying the strap as a femme, but if she wanted it, and was willing to have some patience with me, I'd give it a try.

12-01-2015, 08:31 PM	#10
Angeltoes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Nunya Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Bernlandia Posts: 1,740 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,286 Thanked 5,525 Times in 1,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	This is a good thread. I can't imagine myself strapping. I'm not against the idea, but I'm pretty sure I have no skills...lol.

01-09-2014, 04:07 PM	#13
Terrifina Junior Member How Do You Identify?: xx Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: not here Posts: 5 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 23 Times in 5 Posts Rep Power: 0	I love a strap on either way it's pointing.... <sigh> LOL

01-31-2014, 08:49 AM	#14
swampberry Junior Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 21 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 214762	I think that one of the most attractive things in the universe is someone that is comfortable and open in their sexuality. I present a unique dichotomy; I look one way (embracing and loving that) while feeling another way internally and that shows up in my sexuality. Strapping feels completely natural to me and most of my partners, no matter how they define themselves, end up wanting that from me. They have told me it is the energy I exude when I am strapped that makes it so appealing to them and honestly, I do feel like I am in a position of power which is the opposite from my daily interactions. Whether you strap or not should not define your femininity, just like it doesn't prove your masculinity. Balance is vital in every situation and being fluid will result in amazing encounters.

02-01-2014, 08:16 AM	#15
1TruFemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Girlie Ones Relationship Status: Smitten Kitten Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: GA Posts: 31 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 98 Times in 19 Posts Rep Power: 771231	I admit I have tried it because I wanted to please the butch I was with but I was terrible at it. And all I could think was it's going in the wrong direction.

03-04-2014, 11:42 PM	#16
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,816 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I went through a time when my packer was tucked away. For some reason, I am feeling the need to wear it as much as I can. Just saying that I am loving my cock and its strap.

04-07-2014, 10:09 AM	#17
vagina Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Lesbian Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Lesboville Posts: 183 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 440 Thanked 446 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 0	I had a Butch ask me to strap it on for her and I got so giddy and excited. I am still waiting to try it out. Someday, hopefully. I am pretty sure that I will suck at strapping someone down, but hey.. it takes practice and patience.

08-02-2014, 05:28 PM	#18
WickedFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Very Happily Married to Bobbi46 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: where I want to be Posts: 313 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 355 Thanked 994 Times in 221 Posts Rep Power: 7014692	yes, yes, and yes! I enjoy getting my femme c--- sucked by a willing boi or girl. and.. I enjoy f---ing very much. I recall years and years ago always receiving... then finally someone i was with wanted to be fisted.. yay for me! yeah, I strap.. however, i'm not going to refer to it as pegging... lol... but to each their own.

08-02-2014, 05:47 PM	#19
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,816 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I have strapped as a femme and now the switch as butch, but however I id strapping and femme cock is wonderful

09-05-2014, 03:13 PM	#20
Nat Senior Member How Do You Identify?: bigender (DID System) Preferred Pronoun?: he/him or alter-specific Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Central TX Posts: 3,537 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,047 Thanked 13,968 Times in 2,589 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Bump bump bump __________________ I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl. - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning. -Viktor Frankl