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11-15-2013, 08:09 PM
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☆ the stars are aligned ☆
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Someone I have known longer than anyone else, who offered before to donate so we could have a baby, backed out tonight when learned that we would not be having sex to do this.
It was the last straw to break the camel's back today and I lost it, logged off and curled up and cried. Why didn't I just stick with my decision that I'd never have kids? I can't even get this ball rolling. 
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11-15-2013, 09:44 PM
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Thinking about my mom.
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11-16-2013, 08:03 AM
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Hang in there and keep trying. It'll be well worth it when it finally happens. I would've loved to have had kids with someone but it didn't happen. I make a good uncle though. 
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11-16-2013, 11:38 AM
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I apologize for rambling....
The other night, I had a dream that I ended up with a houseful (4, to be exact) of kitties that I rescued. As it turned out, that number soon tripled because, well...you know, lol. There were also about 4 or 5 baby elephants living in my home (I adore elephants but still, yikes!) that were rescues.
[As an aside, this was interesting to me because most of the cats and of course, the elephants were gray and recently all of my dreams have been hypercolored with vivid scents and bold patterns.] When I was sharing this dream with a friend of mine, he suggested that it meant I needed to get another cat very soon. He said that I could save a kitty from a life of abuse. The thought made me promptly burst into tears as I remembered my sweet cat who recently passed away. She can't ever be replaced and the very idea of getting another pet makes me feel like a betrayer. Conversely, I was also saddened at the thought of not getting another pet and possibly dooming it to a life of hardship. I just don't think I can do it, though. |
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11-16-2013, 04:39 PM
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being too far away when I was needed.
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11-18-2013, 07:58 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Now, having said that, that doesn't mean go right this very second and nab the first cute and fuzzy thing you see. No, it means to keep your heart open to the possibility that maybe, just maybe your baby will send another to love. That's all. No betrayal necessary. Just the acknowledgement that you don't live in a vacuum and that you have feelings and needs that a pet could help with. That's the jist of it. |
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11-18-2013, 08:00 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Today is Monday.
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11-18-2013, 08:29 AM
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...listening to the untold stories from the bystanders of the JFK assassination.
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01-23-2014, 11:43 PM
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i have a friend that has been bullied and harrassed by her ex gf. police called and theres nothing she can do to keep this woman from her door. i find that really sad as a society why can't we protect our community from nut jobs lik this
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01-24-2014, 01:11 PM
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Meeting other LGBTQ people in this area is like finding fresh, cool, sweet, refreshing water in a desert. I so need a refreshing moment.
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01-24-2014, 01:17 PM
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Timed Out - TOS Drama
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Saying good-bye. This year will be filled with them.
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I'm misunderestimated. 
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