Femmes Who Strap <3

Runner · 11-16-2013, 05:14 PM

The uber confidence my ex got from strapping were the hottest experiences I've had.

For me sex is the ultimate platform for self expression and if it feels good who cares about whether or not it fits neatly into a particular ID "box".

I genuinely feel that people who judge others on how they live their (sex) lives may be better served by taking a look at their own.

MacMastr00 · 11-16-2013, 08:41 PM

As a Butch I enjoy the female form...the tenderness...soft curves..perfumed skin..even more so during intimacy...
But I also enjoy the strength of a woman her intelligence...sense of humour and tenacity just to name a few...
That being said...if I was to be in another relationship again...and she suggested her interest in strapping...I would not head for the hills..as I want My partner to know that I support her...and that it is not all about Me

Soft*Silver · 11-16-2013, 09:29 PM

I have heard of the term Pegging...but like Fisting, not everyone has heard of it. And when I have even subtly indicated our preference to a few other friends and acquaintances, wide eyes happened. Man could we see the judgement. He frankly could give a shit what they think. LOL. He is pretty strong in his sense of Self. I am just stunned by it, because well, its new to me and I wasnt expecting judgement. I dunno, I expected a more congratulatory response..lol...so naive am I!

Just_G · 11-17-2013, 06:08 PM

NOW we're talkin'!!

For years I thought about it, but the women I dated were not into showing any type of interest in femme cock, and I knew better than to ask. I also feared that my "butchness" would come into question if I asked. (I definitely know better now and don't give a shit what people think about me!)

I think it is awesome how many femmes are in here discussing this! I am not so much into the disecting of "why" people like it or don't like it...just putting it out there that as a total switch, I dig it.

Carry on....

TruTexan · 11-19-2013, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_G

NOW we're talkin'!!

For years I thought about it, but the women I dated were not into showing any type of interest in femme cock, and I knew better than to ask. I also feared that my "butchness" would come into question if I asked. (I definitely know better now and don't give a shit what people think about me!)

I think it is awesome how many femmes are in here discussing this! I am not so much into the disecting of "why" people like it or don't like it...just putting it out there that as a total switch, I dig it.

Carry on....

WOOT WOOT !! I second that opinion, although I've not had the opportunity YET to be strapped by a femme, I have however used double head or they have hand held one using it on me. Man that's HAWT HAWT !! WOOOT WOOOT !! And I hear you G, about your butchness comment. Mine was attacked once by a gf because I asked for her to fuck me with one hand held. Needless to say.............I stopped seeing her end of story. I won't have my butchness attacked or criticized by ANYONE I'm dating or partnered with...PERIOD.

imperfect_cupcake · 11-19-2013, 08:08 PM

I actually never heard it called pegging.
I was with quite a few men (and "straight girls") before I discovered butches, had a lot of casual sex. And only one out of X didn't like being fucked. I had my strap on Loooooooooong before I was a dyke.
Bend Over Boyfriend series came out a couple of years after I went nancy pants.

I do recall getting irritated with the women's sex shops exploding into "how to fuck your man" kits when I was just getting into butches.

But my two favourite dils to use came from here:
Divine Interventions

I have used Jackhammer Jesus (<3 loved that one) and really enjoyed using that...
And if I did strap I would prefer to use the Diving Nun.

dixie · 11-25-2013, 07:19 PM

Love love love it. From the minute I strap up I take on an attitude that I can't quite control. It comes from within...changes the way I feel, gives me a fierceness and an aura of confidence that I sometimes don't have otherwise (in certain sexual situations). I enjoy it immensely. Not to mention the fact that I find the act so freakin hot I can get off just on strapping my butch (or other femme, or whoever is in the mood for it lol).

View Poll Results: Femme cock poll - I'm a femme and I:
Love to strap and find it vital to my sex life.	16	10.88%
Enjoy strapping and am happy when/if I get to.	30	20.41%
Tried strapping and hated it and/or didn't like it.	18	12.24%
Have never tried it, but would like to.	21	14.29%
Never ever ever want to strap.	62	42.18%
Voters: 147. You may not vote on this poll

11-16-2013, 08:41 PM	#2
MacMastr00 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: ...by using a large magnifying glass.... Preferred Pronoun?: Hym Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Earth Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 262 Thanked 100 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 3015662	.02 Worth As a Butch I enjoy the female form...the tenderness...soft curves..perfumed skin..even more so during intimacy... But I also enjoy the strength of a woman her intelligence...sense of humour and tenacity just to name a few... That being said...if I was to be in another relationship again...and she suggested her interest in strapping...I would not head for the hills..as I want My partner to know that I support her...and that it is not all about Me __________________ ..Do not ever mistake My silence for ignorance, My calmness for acceptance, and My kindness for weakness..

11-16-2013, 09:29 PM	#3
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,896 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474858	I have heard of the term Pegging...but like Fisting, not everyone has heard of it. And when I have even subtly indicated our preference to a few other friends and acquaintances, wide eyes happened. Man could we see the judgement. He frankly could give a shit what they think. LOL. He is pretty strong in his sense of Self. I am just stunned by it, because well, its new to me and I wasnt expecting judgement. I dunno, I expected a more congratulatory response..lol...so naive am I! __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

11-17-2013, 06:08 PM	#4
Just_G Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Switch, Comedian...G...whichever. Preferred Pronoun?: He....with an e! Relationship Status: I'll take kinky & twisted for $200, Alex!! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the middle Posts: 2,281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 874 Thanked 6,165 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	NOW we're talkin'!! For years I thought about it, but the women I dated were not into showing any type of interest in femme cock, and I knew better than to ask. I also feared that my "butchness" would come into question if I asked. (I definitely know better now and don't give a shit what people think about me!) I think it is awesome how many femmes are in here discussing this! I am not so much into the disecting of "why" people like it or don't like it...just putting it out there that as a total switch, I dig it. Carry on.... __________________ Happy are those who dream and are ready to pay the price to make them come true!

11-16-2013, 05:14 PM	#1
Runner Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Ireland Posts: 46 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 60 Thanked 158 Times in 38 Posts Rep Power: 1834068	The uber confidence my ex got from strapping were the hottest experiences I've had. For me sex is the ultimate platform for self expression and if it feels good who cares about whether or not it fits neatly into a particular ID "box". I genuinely feel that people who judge others on how they live their (sex) lives may be better served by taking a look at their own.

11-19-2013, 08:08 PM	#6
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I actually never heard it called pegging. I was with quite a few men (and "straight girls") before I discovered butches, had a lot of casual sex. And only one out of X didn't like being fucked. I had my strap on Loooooooooong before I was a dyke. Bend Over Boyfriend series came out a couple of years after I went nancy pants. I do recall getting irritated with the women's sex shops exploding into "how to fuck your man" kits when I was just getting into butches. But my two favourite dils to use came from here: Divine Interventions I have used Jackhammer Jesus (<3 loved that one) and really enjoyed using that... And if I did strap I would prefer to use the Diving Nun.

11-25-2013, 07:19 PM	#7
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Love love love it. From the minute I strap up I take on an attitude that I can't quite control. It comes from within...changes the way I feel, gives me a fierceness and an aura of confidence that I sometimes don't have otherwise (in certain sexual situations). I enjoy it immensely. Not to mention the fact that I find the act so freakin hot I can get off just on strapping my butch (or other femme, or whoever is in the mood for it lol).